Dating 101 - The First Date
So, I'm single again, but this time something is different, I've taking a vow of celibacy. Yeah I know it's hard, celibacy not the manxilla, but I'm taking my time to actually find the right one to give the Manxilla to. So how does one do that? By Dating. Someone told me that you'll be surprised by the type of people you'd mess with if sex isn't involved and so far I'm shocked.
Now knowing all that I know, I realized that us men make a lot of mistakes when it comes to dating. Maybe the number one mistake we make is taking a lady to Chateau Break A Negro on the first date. This leaves very little room for improvement, because if you go all out on the first date then the 2nd date can't be to the movies and McDonald's. You're already going down hill so I'm going to give all the guys out there a little advice. Start in the middle and work your way up. And The Movies should never be the first date, unless it's a jump off b/c you already know whats about to transpire. ( That means go down for all hood dudes out there)
The first date should be something where you can get to know this lucky person who has the privilege to be in your company for the evening. So try to do something that shows them how wonderful you are, here are a few ideas.
Take her shopping, - Ask her to come along with you to the mall and help you pick out some clothes. Females have a great eye for fashion, and they love to shop. So already you'll be different from other dudes who hate to go along and carry all their bags and snort perfume. (that's right I said SNORT) Also you'll get to see what type of lady she is, does she like the dude with the pants falling off their ass, the button up blazer guy or the Kayne West scarf wearing dude. You can learn a lot from what a female wears. It's inexpensive being that you're spending money on yourself and if you're really balling you can buy them something as well. After word you can stop at a nice middle restaurant and grab a bite to eat. All the while you're talking and building rapport with the lady who could be your next girlfriend.
Go Get Your Nails Done - That's right go to the Korean Nail shop and both of you get your nails done, This allows the both of you time to talk, maybe even make up a new language while the Koreans are talking about how f'ugly your feet are in Korean. Also it shows her that you are the type of guy who cares about his appearance. There is nothing wrong with a dude having nice nails and feet that won't scar her legs when the 2 of you finally get into bed together.
Go For A Walk - After dinner, or a movie go on a nice long walk down the main stripe of your city. Maybe you can even pay a street musician to provide a nice soundtrack to the end of your date. You can hold hands and put your arms around each other and it can be like a scene from one of your favorite movies.
All of these are simple ways to gain numerous Kool points on a first date, it breaks the monotony of boring lets go to the movies, after you got her number in a club, bar, or wherever else you met them. So be different and be original. This is also part 1 of a week long series . Don't forget to subscribe while you're here and tell a friend about the website and my blogs. Thanks for your time.
