Something The Lord Made - Men Vs. Women
I read a blog this morning by a blogger I never seen before today, Jaguar Rose, from PA, It was called Men Vs, Women. This blog broke down the emotional & relationship differences between the male and female gender. As I read it I couldn't help but feel like wow this is true. First thoughts of me being an insensitive pig filled my brain. But then my thought process kicked in b/c like for everything else there is a reason behind it the actions we all choose to take. That is my thesis for pretty much everything. Since every action has a reaction how could it not? Simple science right? The first difference that stood out to me was?
Men are content to let a relationship go on for years without ever needing definition.
As long as his needs are being met everything is fine.
Women always want to tie a man down to a title and role.
We think, "If we don't put a name on it how will we know what it is?"
Now I'm not going to speak for all men on this one, but you can rest assure that any sane rational man such as myself would feel the same way as I do. I know that I am content to let my relationship go on, w/o any clear title b/c a title isn't important to me. Take the movie "Something The Lord Made" Mos Def's character was a doctor in all means other than title. No one could take that away from him, sure he was just a service worker by title but if you take the actual work he did then he was a doctor. And If you watched this movie you saw him teach white people how to do all types of medical phenoms, even his own boss.
I go off someone's word, MY WORD is my WORD and if I give it, it means only what I said. If I said I love you then it means I love you, but for some reason, some times it just doesn't register w/ the female brain. If we can agree that love has no set definition, since you can ask a million people what love is and receive a million different definitions. How could anyone refute that logic?
Now a woman may want to place a title on the relationship often wondering how will she know what it is, but if you took his word for it then you'll have your answer. I believe that women are liars. They lie so much about so many different things that they forget who they truly are, and then they apply these traits towards others. Never stopping to look at them self as the root of the problem. Now I know you may read this and thing I don't lie, but of course you do. Think… "Oh sure I'm going to call you" "I've slept w/ __ people in my life" (not counting the ones who didn't make you cum, who didn't last more than a minute nor the one night stands where you woke up in a strange hotel w/o your panties or memory of what happened the night before. I've heard it a million times, oh I don't want to be mean, or that didn't count dude's dick was way to little to penetrate my inner lips. HOGWASH!!! It counts you, lied!!
Now some dudes do hide the truth, I will admit that, and some dudes (including myself) are very insensitive to a females feelings. Mainly because he doesn't want to be nagged. And doesn't feel like there is a problem w/ his relationship, he's perfectly happy w/ their status and the way his relationship functions. Yet his girl might tell it differently. I tend to think it's a trust thing. How could their be love in a person's heart if there is no trust? We all need to try to understand each others feelings. So a discussion is needed, even though there has been this conversation a million times before b/c one party is always questioning the others affection or lack there of.
To Be Continued.
