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The emails I receive, never cease to shock me. Here is the latest from one of my loyal readers.

I love your site….im a daily fan. I was hoping you could anwser this for me….maybe post it to get comments..

Ive beeen knowing this guy for 3 months. He passed out drunk at my house after a good sex session. While deep in his sleep he started fingering his ass! I thought he was scratchin at first! Needless to say I kinda got turned on. I didnt know if he was “actin sleep” and doin this to see if id be cool with the ass play. Either way I wanted to “test him OUT” To make a long story i ended up fingering him and eventually sticking my vibrator in with concent. Yes I tossed the salad….IM A FREAK! Back to my question….DO STR8 MEN LIKE ANUS PLAY?

BTW….i str8 up asked if he been with men. He says no….not attracted to men. So is it gay if he fools with men or is it okay cause im a woman?

Wow, this is a weird case right here. I would say the guy you’re dealing with might be on the DL. Here are the signs: He was fingering his own ass, in his “sleep”, and he let you stick a plastic penis in his butt. But to answer your question, yes some straight men like anus play.

I’ve had my salad tossed before and it felt great, and now while I’ll never come out my mouth and ask a woman to do it, I wouldn’t mind if she did, as far as anything going in me… I cringe at the thought, but I have read that a lot of men like a finger up their butt and that it actually feels really good. I’m not that comfortable in my skin to try that, but it is a practice that a lot of men have done to them by women.

Just because a guy likes for his butt to get a little attention from a woman doesn’t make him gay. It doesn’t mean that he is likely to have a man do those things. It simply means he likes the feeling of his booty hole getting attention. But in my opinion when a man starts letting a woman stick vibrators and dildos in his butt, chances are he’ll start wondering what the real thing feels like, so I would tell you to take care of yourself and never sleep with him unprotected.

Xilla