This vintage clip of Tupac Shakur breaking down the basic principle of why you should dog a woman if you plan on keeping her. My partner John J always tell me to “treat a good girl like a wh*re and treat the wh*res like a good girl”. Today more and more women don’t want a man who is going to treat them like a queen, although they say they do. I believe it’s all part of the chase, a woman wants to chase a man and her getting dissed, pushed to the side, or cheated on only seems to make a woman want him more. I believe it’s because females are easily dick-matized. What do you think?

Ladies and Gentlemen allow me to introduce you to my blog sister Mrs.Grapevine she has a question for you

Are women stupid? Now, I have had men trying to run game on me, and so I’m not going to act like I’m above being played, but I don’t understand this dumb-girl complex. I don’t mean to call other women dumb, but I don’t know any other way to describe women who keep falling for weak game for the sake of having a man.

Example 1: My friend was dating a basket ball player at our college. She had a car on campus and he didn’t. She would let him borrow her car, and one day she saw him driving another girl around campus in her car. When she called to confront him, he had the nerve to say it wasn’t him. Mind you this is her car, her license plate, and she saw them with her two eyes. He said, “It wasn’t me,” and she started to second guess herself, and said to him, “Maybe it wasn’t my car.”

I’ve always been a guy’s girl, so I have seen this game from both sides of the coin. I have watch guys play girls, and would roll my eyes at how dumb the girls were. Now, I understand being naïve, but you can only be naïve once. I also understand that love can make you do some crazy things, but it can’t turn water into wine. I understand women have self-esteem issues, but a man playing you doesn’t upgrade your self-worth.

Here’s how the story would have ended for me: I would have reported my car stolen, and cut him loose, and watch him try squirm out of the charges. Here is how the story ended for her: My friend chose to believe him and she continued to date him, and now they are married with kids, and she doesn’t love him anymore because of all the crap he put her through. Now that she has the man, she doesn’t want the man. Is this stupidity, or I am missing something?

Neck twirls, finger snaps, cuss words, rolling eyes and ripped out tracks of yaki weave on the ground are all sign that an angry black woman is in the area. The media portrays black women in the worst light. A quick glance at the evening news and your guaranteed to see at least one toothless dark skinned woman within the first 10 minutes.

I used to think that these images of black women on the news were due to all the sane black women with teeth actually having jobs and not being able to witness crime at 2 in the afternoon. However I am sadly mistaken. These days if you’re not buying a woman a drink, or being told that she can buy her own damn drink then 9 times out of ten you’re going to get some neck twirls, finger snaps, cuss words, and a SMCH [official definition - the act of sucking ones teeth in utter disgust.]

Sadly, the reality of today is that these women are still pissed Raheem

• left her angry ass for Becky
• used her for a pair of Jordan’s, a ride to probation, a Lil Wayne CD & 3 Quickies
• never pays her any attention, but drools at her best friends enormous boobs
• is more in love with No Job Having Quisha and her 4 kids than her and her ivy league education

Some of those reasons may not apply to certain black women, another woman might simply be pissed off that she whored her self out for 24 years and all she has to show for it are 2 cured std’s, a stretched out coochie and a neat trick she can do with her tongue.

Now surely in no way do I believe all black women are angry b–ches and we’ll all be kidding ourselves if we try to pretend that there aren’t a few angry black b–ches out there, messing it up for all the real black queens. I believe Whoopi Goldberg said it best yesterday when she said the following to Michelle Obama on The View

“I’m really glad to see you because …any time you see black folks on the news, particularly women, they have no teeth, and the teeth that they have have gold around them and they can’t put a sentence together and perhaps now, we can, this is, you are helping to change a perception. I know it sounds funny and silly but If you are a black women and you are tuning in and everytime you see someone who is supposed to represent black women and women not very very fair skin women, I am talking about dark black women, I just want to say thanks.”

For the video of the statement