One of my twitter friends put me on to a Chris Brown siting, apparently the ladies still love Chris Brown. He stopped by a local gym in VA to play a bit of basketball and the women are swooning.

I saw chris brown today in the gym amongst many girls who were NOT in work-out apparel. Didn’t stick around but his tats are pretty dope. :] lol its a college town so id say like 50 girls [at the least] were on the court. lol it was cute. SMALL gym btw!! he was pretty low key. he kept trying to play bball. I didnt stick around too long tho, im sure he took pics and all that.

My thing is this, while I do think Chris is getting a bad wrap, you know this guy will hit a woman, even if it is a mistake. Yet, women still would let him smash, or be their man. I just don’t get it. Women love the bad boy, the guy with the rep. Take Maury for instance, how many times have you seen a guy on that show with 5 or more kids all with different baby mommas on the show for yet another paternity test?

How many times have you heard of a guy in your town, school or where ever totally playing a girl out, I’m talking something crazy like sleeping with his girl’s friend in his girls house, while he had no job or anything like that? Women like to be played. One of my homegirls like a man who will ignore her and basically treat her like crap. One of my readers left a comment that said, if I know how to do all this extra stuff why don’t I have a girl, well because I don’t think a woman would want a man who would treat her better than any guy ever. One girl I was messing with pushed back a date with me to go to the movies with some guy she just met, knowing that this new guy’s date could never compare to the dates we’ve been on.

Another one of my home girls had a guy who totally treated her like crap, yet she was still connected to him. It’s stories like this which have me thinking and wishing even that I had the ability to treat a woman like crap. But, the fact that I have 2 daughters, a niece, a sister and a mother who raised me, it just won’t allow me to do that. Yet time after time, I come across women who are 100% hooked on a ain’t sh*t nigga. I simply don’t get it. 

Can some of you ladies out there please help me out here? Why do ladies fall for a dude they know is no good?

Photo By Kirk McGirt

Sh!t, okay after putting the females on blast with 30 reasons women ain’t... and getting cursed out by a few women who the blog hit a little too close to home for them, I had to put the dudes on blast as well. I know my species has some very foul ways about us, but hey… We are no better than women. Enjoy.

1. He openly flirts with other women in front of his girlfriend
2. He tells everybody he doesn’t have a girl even though he’s driving her car, living in her house and wearing the Jordan’s she purchased for him
3. He’ll still try to have sex with a woman, even though he slept with some chick earlier that day
4. He can’t last more than 2 minutes
5. He never tries to please his woman during sex
6. He can’t eat coochie
7. He can’t keep a job
8. He has numerous kids that he doesn’t take care of
9. He can’t fix a flat tire
10. He sags his pants

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