Last year for my birthday I went to a strip club with my then girlfriend, Mel. I rushed her before we left the house, we did the d*mn thing, and then went to see some booty shaking. Leaving strip club around 4 in the morning my girl was really in the mood not to mention drunk out of her mind. She bent down and slobbed my member while I drove on I-85. When we got back to the house I was dead tired but I knew she wanted to have sex again, so we did. I thought a quickie would do, seeing as how we were together earlier in the day. Boy, was I wrong. After I was done I was out like a light, only to be awakened by her mouth on me and then her getting on top and riding away. She succeeded in waking me up, but I was not in the mood. She asked me if I was going to wake up and I said, “No, I’m staying sleep.” She climbed off me and rolled over; we broke up shortly after that.

I say all of that to say this, a lover’s decision whether to sleep or have sex is extremely important. Your relationship may very well depend on it.

So what do you do when you’re dead tired and you know your partner is not going to put you to bed J. Holiday style?

1. Wait until morning – Ladies a great way to turn your man on is to wake him up early in the morning with some sex or some head. Morning wood is the best pipe I know how to lay.
2. Peak Hours – When men have sex we tend to fall asleep while women are so aroused that they can’t fall back to sleep. Try to plan sex during the hours when she most energized.
3. Toy Story – If a man can’t bring a woman to the mountain top then don’t rely on him. Break out your toy and finish yourself off. Most men know females rarely cum from penetration.

What do you do when your partner wants sex and you want to sleep?