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Everyone likes making love, but ever so often there comes a time when you just wanna grab a hand full of hair and aggressively whisper in her ear. “I wanna uck the ish out of you right here, right now” OK well maybe women don’t do that, but I’m sure some women want to be dirty little freaks in the bedroom every once in a while as well. So for those good women who want to have a bad girl evening here are 7 bad girl bedroom tips. 

So while searching the internet to further my sexual intellectualism I came across and interesting article I wanted to share w/ you. Here are some Bad Girl Bedroom Tips for all you good girls.

Be the Boss in Bed Tonight
A wickedly sexy woman knows how to deliciously exploit the power she has over a man. Tell your guy to lie down on the bed, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he can’t touch you. (If you’re not game to use real restraints, you can simply hold his hands over his head.)

Next, “you want to torture him playfully with your teasing,” says sex expert Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do. “Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck.”

As you tantalize him and he strains to touch you, ask him to tell you why he wants you so bad, explaining that you won’t let him free until he convinces you. Once he’s pleaded his case, release his hands, roll onto your back , and allow him to take over. After building up the erotic anticipation, it’ll be like setting a windup toy loose on your body…and hearing him describe how hot you are will turbocharge your experience too.

Slip into a Naughty Costume

To infuse your sex sessions with more attitude, sometimes all it takes is looking the part of a true temptress. “One of the ways a woman can really show off her sexuality is by playing up different sides of her erotic personality,” explains Jamye Waxman, author of Getting Off.

If you’re feeling like a flirty, girlie tease, put on a white cotton undie set or pale pink lingerie and pull your hair into a ponytail, or don a schoolgirl-like plaid miniskirt with an oxford shirt tied above your navel. To become an X-rated seductress, wear something red or black in sheer fabric or lace, then add crimson lipstick and nails. “Outfits not only help you get in the moment, they also give him a visual turn-on and inspiration,” adds Waxman.

Just standing there in your flimsy finest may be enough, but a few teasing lines will definitely get the ball rolling. When playing the innocent card, say it’s your first time, and ask him what you should do. As a seductress, whisper all the different ways and places you want to touch him.

Learn to Talk Dirty

Moans and sighs (Oh! Oh!) are easy. It’s the dirty dialogue that really puts a triple-X stamp on your sex sessions. “Talking dirty heightens the whole experience, keeps you both present, and turns you on even more,” says Royalle. “Plus, men actually like being told what to do in bed because it helps them get it right.”

First tell him how freakin’ good he feels. (Tongue-tied? Try no-fail lines like “You feel so/You make me [adjective]”; “I love it when you [verb] my [body part].”) Then you’re set to show him the way to send you soaring, with something like, “Oooh, almost there. I need your [noun] on my [body part], just like this.”

Watch Yourselves Having Sex

Body confidence and carnal curiosity are key traits of a sex goddess, and both are on full display when you make a sex tape. “Seeing yourselves midact gives you a voyeuristic thrill, almost as though you’re peeping into your own bedroom. It feels taboo,” explains Royalle. “You also get to see how your partner is responding and how you look when you’re getting off.” If you’re worried about becoming the next Kim Kardashian, skip the tape and just hook the video camera directly up to a television in your bedroom — without recording — and watch yourselves while you’re going at it.

Since missionary doesn’t exactly make for good TV, get into racier positions where you’re facing the camera. Go for doggie-style so you can both see the action or girl-on-top so you can watch exactly how you move. And definitely get shots exchanging oral sex so you can see the orgasmic effect you have on each other.

Summon His Buried Bad Boy

Bad girls are known to capture a few prisoners in the sack, but a bold bedroom chick also enjoys enacting her own fantasies, shame-free. And one of women’s top fantasies is to be taken. “It’s a turn-on to feel like he wants you so bad, he just can’t help himself,” explains Keesling. “Plus, when he’s being aggressive, you have to fully give up the reins, which can help you be even more in the here and now.”

Instruct your guy to hide behind the door and “surprise” you by taking charge when you get home one night. He can either have his way with you right in the foyer or pull you into the bedroom. Or let him know that you’re in the mood but want him to conquer you, caveman-style, even if it means playfully wrestling you to the bed as you try to slip out of his grasp.

Give Him a Jolt

Breaking out of your touch-here-then-lick-there routine adds a lusty layer to the erotic experience. And fearless sexual playmates know that unexpectedly intense sexual maneuvers are even more exciting. “A forceful touch snaps your guy into the moment and heightens every sensation that follows,” says Royalle. “The spontaneity also keeps him anticipating each touch, magnifying his excitement.” Plus, the implied roughness invites him to tap in to his primal, wild sexual self.

Grip his butt hard while in missionary, scratch his chest and the sides of his torso while in girl-on-top, or yank his head toward you to give him a passionate, damn-straight kind of kiss. If those moves elicit an excited response, firmly spank his butt, lightly bite his shoulder, or tug his hair in the act, you devilish thing.

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Now in the case of Usher many of us believe that Tameka is solely the egg donor for Usher’s plan to start a Jackson Raymond 5. Nonetheless he finally let the world see his child. With that say here is your Sexual Intellectual Tip of the day: Being a father to your kids is sexy. A good father at that, not just a sperm donor or a guy who pays child support, but actually having a strong relationship. My daughter beat me in our punch buggy game 10-3

Ever sent someone a text message, or myspace message that’s like a paragraph long only for them to reply with a one word or a smiley face? Well Joe Budden knows why. Sexual Intellectual Tip Of The Day – Don’t reply back to one word/Smiley face messages. Unless its the smiley with the tongue!

New Music – Joe Budden – Addiction Freestyle

Pulitzer Prize winning author Katherine Anne Porter once said Childhood is the fiery furnace in which we are melted down to essentials and that essentially shaped for good.

Remember when you where a kid and the little girl down the street would always come to your house to play, often bringing you candy or other sweet delights? You knew she liked you, and though you did not return her affection, you allowed her to continue. Hey why not? There was always someone there who wanted to play with you and hey it’s free candy. Who could say no to that?

Little did you know what destruction lay in your path.

The day would come that your loyal, faithful and steady playmate, thinking that they had thoroughly become a structure in your life, would ask or often demand that you become there boyfriend.

Your youthful response would unwittingly be ” eeeeewwww no you got the cooties!!!!”

Leading you to a world of drama that your few years on this earth hardly prepared you for.

Soon your buddy would not only be gone but she was also seeking to turn the other children of the neighborhood against you. “Don’t play w/ Xilla his momma wears a wig!”

Now this is a common scene of the many lessons we should learn as a children.

However, it seems that many people do not learn from there mistakes.

Many people persist on developing a type of love more lopsided then Bobby Browns Gumby and still there are others who can not resist the temptation of taking advantage of such a person.

However as an adult the stakes are much higher.

You see, kick ball and candy has been replaced with sex and car notes.
And unreturned love as an adult most often turns in to stalking, tire slashing and other scenes public and private that sometimes require the intervention of the legal system. Yes it sounds like a moment from a Hollywood thriller but Glen Close, Alicia Silverstone and Mark Walberg have nothing on some of the averaging people you will meet on an unsuspecting Saturday night of clubbing.

So I give all of you out there in Xillaville this advice.

This to all of you who crush a lot: As a Valentines advice generator once told me “Just because an alien probes you don’t think that it loves you or expect it to call you the next day“.

Take this, absorb it, make it part of your life, and seek professional help.
Who was your biggest Crush and how did it End?

Imagine the man you see in the picture just went all in, what do you do? Scared money don’t make money right? So you match him. In an interview with TIME OUT Jay-Z revealed he you can’t beat him in Blackjack or  Poker. “I’m a pretty big, almost professional, gambler,” Jay said, adding “I’m not gonna say any names because that’ll mess it all up, but there are these little private clubs you can go to in the West End where you can hang out and gamble, and it’s pretty cool.”

Sexual Intellectual Tip# 3 – Playing cards, or any game for clothes can lead to sex. Other game that can lead to sex include truth or dare, NBA Live, Madden, and patty cake. To avoid having sex avoid all games for clothes, bet money. This tip has not been sponsored by Jigga N I G G A the ten pound lip N I G G A

Somebody kicked your ass didn’t they? ~ Will Smith

Sexual Intellectual Tip #1 – Having sex after watching The Daily Show and The Colbert Report is great for relationships because it enlightens you of the current events and makes you giggle. So what else is better than busting a nut after new and giggles?