Jasmine Guy told Essence “I think our younger women have lost the ability to embrace their womanhood. There’s so much we try to do that’s against our nature, and it’s made us hard, cold, bitter and fearful.” The writer of the article said it was a great point to which “Whitley” added:

“…a lot of us are without partners, so we have to do double duty. We develop another part of ourselves to compensate for that. We haven’t been taught that those things that are innate in us-being maternal or being soft or being vulnerable-are good things. We’re taught to be strong and in that strength comes a certain dismissal of what we’re really feeling inside.”

I’m not sure where I stand on this one, on one hand I believe that women should be strong. Strong enough to support her man if needed. Yet she should still be a woman who is able to do things that are generally associated with being a woman, like cooking, cleaning, and all the things Donna Reed did.

At the same time a woman has to be strong because some men have never received home training. I can understand how a woman would develop a hard exterior shell with the way men, lie, cheat and break hearts all for the chance to stick themselves in a woman. A good looking woman can’t walk 20 steps without a man trying to bang them. I guess this is a yet another no win situation for the woman.

The small child you see in the fubu jersey is none other than the alleged victim in the R Kelly Sex Tape case. Innocent looking but if you seen the tape then you know this girl was a pro, the Tiger Woods, Lebron James, of Sex. I guess you can call her A Child Prodigy. Want to see her all grown up? The Keep reading. Read the rest of this entry »

The life of a “video hoe” excuse me Video model is hard. Numerous guys trying to hit on you, everyone thinking you screwed your way to the top and ads on craigslist from hot rapper throwing video shoots just to bang hot chicks. [LAME] One video vixen told Allhiphop.com

He told me that the men on the set would treat me like a hoe so I should act like one. I told him that I didn’t feel as though I should have to f**k someone just to get in a video. He told me that women do it all the time and how do i think the Melyssa Fords, Buffie’s and Angel Lola’s got put on. Source

Now I don’t believe that either of the “models” slept their way to the top but one thing is for sure, Melyssa Ford lost a gig playing Wendy Williams, because she wouldn’t play a hoe, and Angel who had no problem playing a hoe scooped up the position. We all know people have skeletons in their closet so all I’m saying is… Is there an Angel Lola Love Sex Tape floating around similar to Buckey’s Sex tape? I’d pay top dollar “A FULL TANK OF” to find out

Maybe Andy Warhol was right when he said “Sex is more exciting on the screen and between the pages than between the sheets.” Validating his words would be sex tape, after sex tape strategically released to the internet, almost on a weekly basis. I wouldn’t be surprised if Hillary Clinton and Bill leak a sex tape to the net to drum up support for her dying campaign.

Shay Buckey Johnson is the latest to have a sex tape “leaked” and well honestly… All these sex tapes are messing up the game. I like recording my sexual antics, mainly because it’s a major turn on to beat off to a girl you actually have slept with before. It’s an even bigger turn on to see yourself on screen laying the pipe like a champion plumber.

But with all the sex tapes leaked, and sites like “MyletsF*ck.com” & Freaks on Myspace, it’s damn near impossible to get to get a woman in front of the camera lens. A “home movie” should be a personal thing, something the 2 of you share together as a reminder of events that left one of your weak in the knees. Not a tool to ruin the reputation of a women who admired you enough to let you record them.

We men get petty, very petty, lame and weak at the first sign of heartbreak, and then want to put a movie on the internet to embarrass the girl. Well dudes I want to tell you that you’re messing up the game!! You sex tape leakers need to grow a pair and stop putting our women on blast!!

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