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5 Sex Resolutions For The New Year12.30.08

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The New Year will be here before we know it, and it’s the time of year when people look back and plan to do things a little differently than they did in the previous year. This year instead of planning doing things I should already be doing, like losing weight, stop smoking, to get rid of all the haters and claim this year as my own. I decided to list a few sex resolution I’m determined to accomplish within the next 365 days.

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5 Things I Learned From A Christmas Story12.23.08

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It’s that time of year again when the networks will begin to give you 100 hours of A Christmas Story. I can’t say enough how much I love this movie, “You’ll shoot your eye out” and the narrative alone is priceless. What’ is also priceless is the number of things you can learn about sex and relationships from watching this movie. Here are 5 things I learned about sex by watching “A Christmas Story”.

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Charles Hamilton - Brooklyn Girls [Video]12.11.08

 

By now y’all should all know that there ain’t nothing like a Brooklyn girl. Hello Brooklyn~

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Please Her With Your Fingers12.10.08

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I’m sure many women probably don’t want this guy poking around in their lower lady parts, but with the right knowledge a man can bring a woman to orgasm with his fingers alone. A lady friend of mine once told me that she felt like I had gave her the real thing after I pleased her with my fingers. She was shocked with I proved to her that I can make her cum using my fingers alone and after yesterdays blog I figured why keep this knowledge to myself. Here are a few techniques that can help a man explore her lady parts the right way.

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Lloyd Discovers Love X The Stages Of A Relationship07.22.08

In a recent interview with my home girl Martine for All That’s Fab, Lloyd explained how his new album Lessons In Love is like falling in love for the first time.

“I am growing with my fans who are now in college. This is where you experience love for the first time. So I’m kind of conscious of that– I’m kind of in the love convention. Young lovers that want to express what they feel, what they go through, you know mistakes and heartache, as well as happiness and joy. Lessons in love is not so much about me, it’s more so about them, it’s more about my fans and what can happen in life along the way.”

If you’re just discovering love then you might not know that relationships have stages. During those stages the person you love is going to change and if you don’t notice and identify those changes your relationship will be over before it ever got started.

Just Met Stage - When you just meet you are always thinking about this person, and you’re conscious of how they may react to what you may do. It’s bliss because you’re both on your best behavior during this stage.

Share Stage - This is when you always want to be around the person. You are discovering things and you like it a lot. You’re so intrigued that you’re asking questions and getting them to open up to you, and you’re opening up as well. The two of you are sharing yourself with each other.

Know Stage - This is where you know this person very well, you can finish their thoughts for them, tell which stroke they are going to use, and what position they’ll want after or before doggy style. This is the point where things start to get boring if you’re not careful.

You have to identify the stages of your relationship because you can be working effortless trying to give your lover something they no longer need or desire. Think about it, what did you want from a lover 5 years ago? Hell if you think 5 months ago it might differ from now. So pay attention and keep trying to discover something new about the person you love it may plant a seed of longevity in your love life.

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Rules For An Office Romance07.21.08

Scan the room, is Derrick at Tasha’s desk again? Is the married Tammy, sneaking off to lunch with the boss for the forth time this week? If your office is anything like the ones I used to work in then you’ve seen these things before. At one of my jobs things were so bad when it came to office dating that, this lady’s husband drove his truck into the back my manager’s Benz while he and the guy’s wife were enjoying lunch behind the building. Which leads me to think about the ethics of an office romance. (more…)

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10 More Ways To Treat A Lady06.10.08

10. Oral sex is your get out of jail free card. Nice shoes & jewelry also work.

  • Going Down can change her mood… But make sure you give her the royal treatment I will be writing another how to eat p*ssy blog soon

9. If you f*cked things up and she seems cool with it. She’s not. (See directly above.)

  • get back to eating the coochie!!! Nuff Said. but be careful she might start faking being mad if your good enough at it… and that might not be a bad thing

8. She loves it when you tell her what on your mind, even if you don’t understand what you’re thinking.

  • Tell her what’s on your mind, we men like to feel like we can do it all ourselves but females are programmed to be supporters, listeners, etc let her know your master plan she may be able to help you get there quicker.

7. Surprises & gifts for Her = more loving.

  • Instead of giving your Extra dollars to TA-TA-LALISCOUS at Strokers stop by the mall and pick out something nice for your shorty. You might want to consult either her female Friends or your Female Friends before doing this. There are a lot of good sites out there that are not paying me to give them free promotion

6. You’re not her daddy so don’t tell her what to do.

  • Ask her if she can, or if she would mind instead of demanding she do something. Make her feel like it’s a democracy… wait our gov’t is a democracy right? Well scratch that!!! But give her an option.

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Maxim Night Of The Freaks05.22.08

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Elise Neal is a looker, I mean it looks like she left her dress home and came in lingerie!! I’m not complaining I love it. But what I don’t love is the use of the word freaks “Shawty is a Freak…” It irks the hell out of me. You meet someone and they ask you how freaky are you. I’m not freaky I’m am I Sexual Intellectual. (more…)

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