FTV: Lock Her Down List04.17.09

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Quote of the Day“There are three things men can do with women: love them, suffer for them, or turn them into literature.”

A list of ten things to do to lock down your girl.

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The Strange Ways People Land On BlogXilla.com04.12.09

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My site has a lot of useful information on it. I’ve written blogs about a lot of different stuff, and I’ve said a lot of outlandish things. With that said, people google some amazing things to land on my website. Fact is more and more people are turning to the internet to learn about sex. Well in order to make it easier for them here are 62 things people searched on google and found on my site.

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How To Holla At Lauren London04.07.09

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If you were to bump into Lauren London, would you know what to say to her? Well she is giving all the dudes who try to holla at her a little bit of advice.

“Dont be thirsty. Be comfortable in your own skin. Don’t mention anything about Hollywood and you’ll be OK. I don’t want to hear about your jet or your car. Be emotionally stable. I’m interested in a guy who’s a lover of God, a lover of music, a lover of poetry, a lover of women.” Source Str8NYC

Pretty sound advice if you ask me? **”Checks calander to see when Lauren London is coming to NYC”**

 

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Keep Your Man From Cheating On You04.07.09

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I got a tweet from a woman asking, what can a woman do to keep a long distance relationship fresh. Then I started thinking of all the things I would like done in my relationship. I thought that these things can be whether the lovers are far away or near each other as well. So I decided to give the ladies a little advice on how to keep their man from cheating. Now while doing these things can’t guarantee that your man won’t cheat, it will make him out to be a complete idiot to cheat on a woman who would do all these things for him.

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Ask Xilla: Can Twitter Break Up A Relationship?04.07.09

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More mail from one of my readers. I always like getting emails, asking for advice. This one is an interesting topic, that keeps popping up in my inbox. I thought I should address this one in public.

Hi, my name is “Tasha Tweet” and I have 1 question. Do u think twitter/fb/myspace is enough 2 break up? This morning a coworker of my boyfriend says im messing around with someone on twitter. He gathers this b/c in a reply 2 my status about it snowing, a guy said if it snows, come over here. Like 5 days later I replied what if it doesn’t snow?? Ok. That’s it. Now my bf won’t talk to me over offing twitter. Do you think lightweight flirting over networking sites is enough to break up a relationship?

Continue reading for my response.
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You Could Have Told Me We Were Going Dutch04.02.09

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So this is what happened next…

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9 Tips To Calm Her Angry A$$ Down03.31.09

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“A man would prefer to come home to an unmade bed and a happy woman than to a neatly made bed and an angry woman.” Marlene Dietrich. One thing I have learned from my ex’s is not to battle an angry woman. I would try my hardest to get a woman to not be mad at me, but it never works. Fighting with an angry woman is like trying to wrestle a lion with an alligator attached your left leg. What I have learned though are a few methods to help a woman calm down from being angry.

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BlogXilla & Brooke of Harlem Heights – Cupcakes & Sex03.30.09

Brooke and I sat down for a delicious cupcake from Crumbs in NYC, and well the conversation with to… you guessed it, Sex. Check out our video. The homegirl Brooke has been really busy lately, she also sat down with Necole B. for an in depth and very candid interview. One thing I noticed about Brooke is that she is a real person. She’s not stuck up, or anything like that I would say she’s the cool friend everyone has, I digs her. Here is an excerpt to Necole’s interview with Brooke.

I recently did a post about women settling for less. Since you’ve been in a relationship with such a high profile person, do you have ridiculously high standards?
I don’t really go into anything with standards because I don’t have a type and a lot of the things that I experienced with that high profile relationship were things that were new to me. I don’t think two years is long enough time to get accustomed to eating a certain way, or dressing a certain way or living a certain way. It was actually a very easy transition for me to come back to New York City in Harlem full time and back to my life as Brook full time. I didn’t really struggle with that. Now, it sucks to not be able to afford all the things that you could imagine but that stuff is ….”Where are you wearing that?”. I don’t have to go to those events anymore anyway so I don’t need to dress like that.

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