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Should friends of the opposite sex have sex and start relationships? Well actress Malinda Williams writes a blog for essence documenting her wedding and in her latest post she describes the moment she knew her former best friend and current husband was the one.

“what could be better than going with someone I absolutely adored. I had met Derrick when I was eighteen and had always remembered him to be a complete gentleman and felt none of the usual angst a woman might feel about going on a trip with a man who is not her “man” per se. We would just be two friends hanging out, having a good time. No pressure and no expectations. Just pure fun.”

This happens a lot, you’ve been friends since childhood, and then at a totally unsuspecting moment a light goes off in your head, and you realize you’re in love with your best friend. People often wonder if best friends can become lovers without ruining the friendships. (more…)

WRITTEN BY MARVELOUS MO FOR BLOGXILLA.COM

For my entire adult life, I’ve been upset at the men who have broken my heart. Those fine sexy men that jealous women hated me for dating. Those men that are handsome and popular, well liked and sexy. The ones who didn’t like me enough to stay with me. That flaw of mine, of ours [women], is one of the things that doesn’t help us move on and find someone new.

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One night a group of my co-workers got together for the Negro past time, a night of drinks and spades. At the time I was sleeping with this light skinned girl, with a butt like Bria Myles who worked at my job. She was beautiful, but she has the brain of a 7th grader. [No offense to 7th graders] That night while playing spades, a hearts lead there was a duece, a nine, and six laying on the table we need one book to not to get shot, she throws out a 5 of hearts. Another suit plays and low and behold the ace of hearts comes flying out of her hand and we lose the game. That night, I banged her like I hated her.

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This video captures breaking up to a t! So ladies understand that ever dog you came across in your life has been created that way by a woman just like yourself. Vice Versa for the fellas, ever bad woman was once a good girl turn bad by a bad guy. Its a never ending cycle.

Dear Lindsay Lohan,

Have you ever hated someone so much that you wouldn’t spit on them if they were on fire? (more…)

Written by Marvelous Mo for Blogxilla.com

F*ck forgiveness!  That bish f*cked my MAN!

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“I’m coming, I’m coming. R.A.W” Big Daddy Kane’s Raw is one of the best hip hops songs ever created, but a recent study might hold the key to why people go crazy once they have sex with each other. So if you’re wondering why that girl won’t stop blowing up your phone, or why that guy keep showing up at your house at all hours of the night, this might shed some light on things.

HAVING sex without a condom is good for your mental health, according to controversial research conducted by a leading Scottish psychologist.
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This thing called love is a crazy emotion, I was having a conversation w/ my homegirl Evanka for about an hour about the wonders of love.

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