Last week Trey Songz dropped one of the hottest R&B albums in a long time, selling around 115k his first week. Impressive numbers in a slumping market, coming second to only Whitney Houston. I had the chance to interview Trey about a bunch of topics, including R-Kelly, his alleged relationship with Necole Bitchie, his friendship with Drake and more.

In my last blog, on globalgrind recapping his concert at Canal Room, where Drake introduced him as “The Greatest R&B Singer of Our Generation”, I asked him about that moment and how it made him feel here is what he had to say:

TREY: “It made me feel great, Drakes my brother so he’s going to say that about me. I’ll do whatever it takes to make his words and to bring his words to life.”

Xilla: Do you feel like you’re the number 1 R&B singer?

TREY: I feel like it takes a lot to be the number 1 R&B singer. I mean I’m the number 1 R&B singer right now. I would say that as far as right now current times hottest artist right now in the moment, but I think it takes a lot of consistency it takes longevity and a lot more than what I’ve done in the past year… I’m not the greatest right now, I will say that, but I will be.

Trey has taken advantage of the changes made in the industry and he is well on his way to becoming one of the heavy weights in the game. Trey has used Twitter, Ustream & blogs to connect with his fans in a way many other’s cant, and humbly he knows he couldn’t have done that 2 or 3 years ago he explained to me.

He even has a song dedicated to twitter called “LOL Smiley Face” I asked him what’s the wildest twitpic he received

TREY “Man, I got a picture that’s so crazy! This girl was in the tub with like soap all over her. I don’t know what made her do that. She direct messaged it to me, but I can’t get with that too tough.”

Speaking of twitter, he sent out a tweet saying that blogger Necole B, was his favorite bitchie, along w/ a picture of the two of them hugged up. I asked him why is Necole his favorite bitchie.

TREY: “She’s a good girl, I actually remember Necole from when she was an intern at radio in Detroit. I used to come through and she used to be just this nice little girl. We were both at the beginning of our career and she’d bring water in for whoever needed water or do whatever the jock needed to do, and just to see her blossom and see the growth within myself . We have a good friendship and it’s nothing more than that.”

Xilla: Why do you think everyone keeps trying to pair the two of you up?

TREY: “Because that’s what the entertainment business thrives off and that’s what blogs are made of, controversy and rumors. So of course that’s going to happen when there are two successful people of the opposite sex pictured together, but it is what it is, this is the game we play so I understand the rules and I just make sure I tell the truth.”

We even spoke on R Kelly saying “If you’re a true king, you don’t get into challenges…you get to a status in life where you don’t ever have to throw another punch. What is an elephant supposed to do when an ant or a fly lands on you?”

Trey: “At this point I feel like R Kelly knows if he was to step in that arena with me he couldn’t PLAY with me as far as lyrically, word play or metaphorically in that arena after the way I came on death of Kellz. Kellz is older he’s an old man.”

Kellz Is 42 years old. I think we forget that sometimes and he’s too old to be on Autotunes. Anyway Kellz recently tried to holla at a young lady while in London. Fail!

He told the young lady: “Come back with me to my hotel. It’s only seven minutes away. I haven’t invited anybody else back. Well… maybe one or two girls… I want to make you feel good, like you never have before. I’m for real.”

And if that wasn’t enough, Kelly, 42, took a different tactic, trying to rub the girl’s back and grip her hair, saying: “Do you like that? It’s pain, but it’s good pain, isn’t it?’”

Too bad for Kelly, as the girl in question didn’t want to be one of a crowd. Better luck next time, R! It was a long night for the singer, who had spent the day at Harrods and been to see Lion King. But Kelly more than proved his staying power by partying at the Soho club ­until the early hours. Source!

Anyway R. Kelly jumped on Dream’s joint Kelly’s 12 Play check it out:

Dream + R. Kelly – Kelly 12 Play

Props to Dajaz1

I wanted to wish all the father’s out there a wonderful Father’s Day. I’m sitting here enjoying my child and having to actually work [waiting on her and making her breakfast on father's day go figure] Until then enjoy some music and links. Shouts to Geminieye for the pic.

Juelz Santana and other Rappers Talk about being Fathers

Boyz N The Hood – Lil Wayne – Mask On

Video Vixens Chat about Kanye’s Penis, Masturbation & Then Belittle Bow Wow

Missy – Best Best

Naomi Campbell got pissy drunk and fell out

Solange feat Q-Tip – Sand Castle Disco

R-Kelly & The Riley Defense [Now Niggers everywhere are going to be scared to pee]

Tyga feat Lil Wayne – I Am

Lil Mama was recently quoted speaking on her meeting with R-Kelly saying “all the basketball players were just looking at me, and R. Kelly was tapping on them like, ‘Yo, who’s that young girl? She’s crazy!’ And I was just rapping all hard and crazy.” She then added “He chose to stay really far away, because of the rumors and stuff like that, but he really showed his respect, and he’s a classic Chester Molester. I got respect for that guy.”

Chester’s aside Lil Mama gives the perverts a look into her room in Spin mag where she breaks down the things in her room

1. HOMEMADE POSTER “I was on tour with Chris Brown, and one of my fans gave me this poster with my pictures. To have a grown male fan, it really shocked me, but I was happy to know that someone really cared and knew my background, like where I’m from. I think that’s pretty special.” Source

And she rapped over the A Milli Beat I’ll close in the words of Chi Ali, Girls Looks So Good But Their Brains is not ready…

Lil Mama was recently quoted speaking on her meeting with R-Kelly saying “all the basketball players were just looking at me, and R. Kelly was tapping on them like, ‘Yo, who’s that young girl? She’s crazy!’ And I was just rapping all hard and crazy.” She then added “He chose to stay really far away, because of the rumors and stuff like that, but he really showed his respect, and he’s a classic Chester Molester. I got respect for that guy.”

Chester’s aside Lil Mama gives the perverts a look into her room in Spin mag where she breaks down the things in her room

1. HOMEMADE POSTER “I was on tour with Chris Brown, and one of my fans gave me this poster with my pictures. To have a grown male fan, it really shocked me, but I was happy to know that someone really cared and knew my background, like where I’m from. I think that’s pretty special.” Source

And she rapped over the A Milli Beat I’ll close in the words of Chi Ali, Girls Looks So Good But Their Brains is not ready…

Lil Mama was recently quoted speaking on her meeting with R-Kelly saying “all the basketball players were just looking at me, and R. Kelly was tapping on them like, ‘Yo, who’s that young girl? She’s crazy!’ And I was just rapping all hard and crazy.” She then added “He chose to stay really far away, because of the rumors and stuff like that, but he really showed his respect, and he’s a classic Chester Molester. I got respect for that guy.”

Chester’s aside Lil Mama gives the perverts a look into her room in Spin mag where she breaks down the things in her room

1. HOMEMADE POSTER “I was on tour with Chris Brown, and one of my fans gave me this poster with my pictures. To have a grown male fan, it really shocked me, but I was happy to know that someone really cared and knew my background, like where I’m from. I think that’s pretty special.” Source

And she rapped over the A Milli Beat I’ll close in the words of Chi Ali, Girls Looks So Good But Their Brains is not ready…

Lil Mama was recently quoted speaking on her meeting with R-Kelly saying “all the basketball players were just looking at me, and R. Kelly was tapping on them like, ‘Yo, who’s that young girl? She’s crazy!’ And I was just rapping all hard and crazy.” She then added “He chose to stay really far away, because of the rumors and stuff like that, but he really showed his respect, and he’s a classic Chester Molester. I got respect for that guy.”

Chester’s aside Lil Mama gives the perverts a look into her room in Spin mag where she breaks down the things in her room

1. HOMEMADE POSTER “I was on tour with Chris Brown, and one of my fans gave me this poster with my pictures. To have a grown male fan, it really shocked me, but I was happy to know that someone really cared and knew my background, like where I’m from. I think that’s pretty special.” Source

And she rapped over the A Milli Beat I’ll close in the words of Chi Ali, Girls Looks So Good But Their Brains is not ready…

The small child you see in the fubu jersey is none other than the alleged victim in the R Kelly Sex Tape case. Innocent looking but if you seen the tape then you know this girl was a pro, the Tiger Woods, Lebron James, of Sex. I guess you can call her A Child Prodigy. Want to see her all grown up? The Keep reading.

The one is the middle is alleged to be the girl from the tape. Now before I start my rant let me just say that having sex with an underaged girl is wrong this we all know so I don’t feel a need to dwell on that. But as a realist in America it happens a lot. The drug dealers in the hood is sleeping with the high school girl with the biggest booty. Youtube is full of clips of fast young girls dropping and giving you 50, and dancing like they let men stick dollars in their crotch for a living.

My question is where do we tackle the problem? Do we lower the age to consent? Or Just lock up ever man who takes sex when its giving to them? Not to say that this is the case all the time but in cases like the girl from Florida. She was fast this is clear because 2 men slept with her.

Maybe it’s a mental problem, I know tons of women who are messed up in the head because of an abusive relationship with their parents. Mother, Father’s Uncles and cousins. Once you take advantage of a child you can pretty much count on them growing up into a confuse and sexually reckless adult.

Again I ask you how do we tackle the problem? Before another beautiful woman like the one picture above is ruined from the sick fetishes of grown men before she’s even legal.

The R-Kelly case is full of lies and deception. The alleged victim is lying saying it’s not her, The defendant might be lying saying its not him and even may be cleared by a mole. Go figure! Now childhood friend of the alleged victim has identified her as the one in the tape. It made me wonder who is the better liar Men or Women?

After an intense discussion Ninja Girrl decided to take me to blog court for all of you to decide. Who lies better Men or Women. Plaintiff.

Ninja Girrl Closing Arguments

Men. Ya’ll know ya’ll can LIE! And so much better than women. We put emotion into everything, sex, friendship, relationships, EVERYTHING! It’s hard to keep a straight face when lying! And one lie begets another and another and a sister and a brother….sorry *Slick Rick moment* But seriously, like children, a man can get caught in the middle of doing some dirt, and will swear on the Bible, Koran and whatever book the Mormons read that they: “….ain’t do nothing!!”

Other excuses usually go a little like this: “She took advantage of ME, she made me fall into her p*ssy and!“, “It wasn’t like that, your cousin came on to ME, you know she’s a hoe!!”, “See, what had happened was…” (Ninja lesson: if it starts with that, it’s ALWAYS a lie), and the classic: “I was with my boys all night and my boy had a flat tire, then we got stuck at his Mama’n'em, then he had to pick up his brother and thats why I didnt come last night.“, “I swear!! It wasn’t me on that video tape, what I look like peeing on someone?”
Negro Please. I rest my case.

Xilla’s Closing Arguments Women Lie Better

Its obvious by the words above that females not only lie better that they can’t defend their own stance. Think about it, “This is my real hair, These are my real nails, That is Angel Lola Luvs real butt” its an epidemic. I almost forgot the king of all lady lies. “This is your baby.” The disease of deception was born from the first woman eve, here Adam eat this it’s good for you. SMCH!! Women Lie and they lie good.

When they lie they will call up every female they know and corroborate their story, Sasha, Monet, and Karen will all be in on it. So while you think she’s at a family reunion for a week she’s with Jaffa the Jamaican getting her back blown out 12 ways from Tuesday. I bet if a female can find it in her heart to be real with herself for one minute she can think of 5 guys who still think a lie she told is true till this day. But sure, if you believe Ninja Girl is correct then I’ll just use the most famous female lie of all on you. “It’s not you…It’s me.“

So LADIES AND GENTLEMEN OF THE JURY WE NEED YOU… WHO LIES BETTER, MEN OR WOMEN?