When I first found out about Lauren London and Lil Wayne I was a bit shocked. Not really perplexed, but shocked none the less. After watching this video I do understand how Weezy was able to get with her. It all makes sense now. Check out the dating habits of Lauren London, her most embarrassing moment. So watch this video and get dating advice from Lauren London and if you still don’t understand how Lauren London got knocked up by Wayne. It’s simply because she’s a regular women, no different than anyone one else in the world. She likes what she likes, knows what she’s like and is completely comfortable in her own skin. So while people are hating… I like her even more.

Props To The Fly Guy

You guys can lay the pregnancy rumors to rest–tho she’s not ready to pop, I definitely confirmed last night that singer Nivea is pregnant and well….

Via Kiddunot

From the looks of things, Lauren was knocked up first and then Wayne double dipped for lack of a better word into Nivea. Anyway I wish them all the best. I’m not one to talk I been there before. Best Wishes. ~ Xilla

A lot of my regular readers know I was one of the first sites to confirm Lauren London’s new baby on the way. I wish her the best and it seems as if she is currently shopping for the baby. I’ll post this just as one of my readers sent to me.

So I was browsing twitter pages here and there and came accross Lily Adel’s Twitter page. Lily is Kim Kardashian’s buddy that run’s their store Dash out in Cali. She’s pretty much the store manager/associate/concierge/do-it-all…blah blah you get the point. Well if you’ve watched the show, I’m sure you know that they also own a store in the same strip mall called “Smooch”. Smooch is a store exclusively for babies/toddler wear. Well Lily sent Lauren London the following update saying, 

“I MISSED YOU the other day when you went into Smooch! I found you now! No excuses!”

Lauren of course, did not reply to Lily’s tweet.

Now here’s my thing…Obviously the Kardashian family is only inside the store when they are filming otherwise it’s run by a regular staff just like every other retail business. So why would Lauren stop into Smooch and not Dash when the stores are literally two doors away from each other? Obviously she wasnt in there shopping for herself because if that was the case then she would have stopped into Dash and not Smooch. Feel my drift?

So what I’m thinking is that the Kim K & Co. probably blessed Lauren with a Friends & Family discount so she could go in and shop for her little bun in the oven. Honestly I dont see what other reason she would show up for at Smooch unless there was a motive such as a discount involved or maybe a box put aside for her…because otherwise she can pick up baby clothes just about anywhere.

Erykah Badu wants us bloggers to kiss her placenta. In a recent post on OKayplayer, she went on a major rant addressing the rumors and critics about her being pregnant by a 3rd rapper out of wedlock. What’s the issue? She’s just like my cousin, my other baby mother and about 75% of the women I know. Numerous baby fathers, and n’aan child born in holy matrimony. That’s normal, right? Now before you continue reading the whole letter I’ll warn you, you’ll be asked to kiss some placenta, so if that thing offends you… now on to her whole post.

HOW DARE YOU DISRESPECT THE QUEENDOM

…AND MY CHILDREN AND MY INTELLIGENCE.

ive never been so disgusted in all of my life .
there is no other place i used to enjoy more .
i post no where else .
you guys have taken an all time low , tho.

I’LL STATE MY PEACE

i am a great mother and care giver to my 2 children and to this world .
my children are 2 of the kindest and happiest people i have met.
I home schooled them and taught them the ways of good to the best of my ability.
i am their doctor and their nurse .
and even sometimes their mother and their father.

i am an excellent mother and resent all of the negative comments and insults on my character.
I PUT MUCH TIME AND THOUGHT INTO HAVING AND RAISING MY CHILDREN.
IVE HAD THE HONORS OF HAVING 2 HOME BIRTHS AND 2 WONDERFUL PARTNERS BY MY SIDE.

every relationship i have been in was because i loved the person DEARLY and was dedicated to us “exclusively” FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS.

the fathers of my children are my brothers and friends .
we have a great deal of respect for one another and always will.
WE LOVE OUR CHILDREN TO NO END.
we took our own “vows” and CONTINUE TO UPHOLD THEM.
AND THAT IS WHAT THAT IS .

question?
WHAT IS MARRIAGE ?
WHO IS THE JUDGE?
WE ONLY UNDERSTAND THE EXAMPLES WE ARE GIVEN ( well sort of)

WOULD IT “LOOK BETTER ” TO MARRY AND DIVIORCE AND MARRY AGAIN ?
WOULD THAT BE MORALLY CORRECT ?
WHATS THE DIFFERENCE ? the government’s involvement i guess.
IDEALLY , IT WOULD BE EXCELLENT TO FIND THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO FULFILLS YOUR SPIRIT AND STAY FOR EVER AND EVER ( thru sickness and health till death do us part ) AND HAVE HEALTHY STRONG CHILDREN AS A RESULT OF A HEALTHY AND STRONG UNION.
(this CAN happen … we need much training , however.)

OR

IS IT REALLY “GOOD” TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE BOTH PARTIES ARE UNFULFILLED , LONGING FOR RELIEF , BRINGING one another down as a result of improper training , creating BAD ENERGY AND EXPERIENCES FOR THE CHILD TO REPEAT ?
(not to mention breeding deceit and anger and resentment )
SEEMS TO CREATE FEARFUL CHILDREN WHO TURN INTO FEARFUL ADULTS .

HOW MANY OF YOU GREW UP IN 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE MISERABLE AS FUCK ?
OR 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE NOT PERFECT BUT WORKED?
HOW MANY GREW UP IN ONE PARENT HOMES WHERE THE MOTHER WORKED HARD TO MAKE SURE YOU WERE CARED FOR BUT SHE WASNT QUITE HAPPY?
HOW ABOUT A HOME WHERE THE FATHER WAS THE MAIN CARE GIVER AND DID THE BEST HE COULD -LACKING NURTURE?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE A SIBLING THAT HAS A DIFFERENT FATHER OR MOTHER?
DOES HE OR SHE MEAN LESS TO YOU?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 1 MOTHER OR FATHER OF YOUR OWN CHILDren ?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAD /OR / ARE PARENTS RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN ,THAT DONT QUITE FIT ANY OF THESE DESCRIPTIONS?
HOW MANY OF YOU STAY IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS FOR FEAR OF GOING TO HELL?
HOW MANY HOS OUT THERE … THAT HAVE KIDS TO GET A PAYDAY?
HOW MANY PEOPLE GETTING THEY ASS KICKED AND ARE FORCED TO SUBMIT CAUSE YO MAMA GOT HER ASS KICKED?
THEN WHAT is CORRECT?

how about this:

I PRAY WITH MY CHILDREN
I FEED THEM GOOD FOOD
THEY RESPECT PEOPLES DIFFERENCES
THEY TRAVEL THE WORLD WITH ME
THE KNOW WHO THEY ARE
THEY ADORE THEIR FATHERS AND ARE LOVED BY 2 PARENTS OR MORE -
OR TWO OR MORE SETS OF LOVING GRANDPARENTS
THEY CRY
THEY GET HURT
THEY GET SICK
THEY HEAL

THEY ARE real

THEY ARE NOT AN IDEA or a TOPIC
AND NEITHER AM I .
I AM ALIVE .
I AM BEAUTIFUL WOMAN.
I AM A GOOD WOMAM.
I AM GROWING
I AM COMPLETE WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER AND WILL ALWAYS BE
AND I HAVE DREAMS OF A FAMILY STRUCTURE
ALL OF MY DREAMS DO NOT COME TRUE
AND DESPITE ALL OF THE PAIN IN MY LIFE …
IN MY MOTHERS LIFE …
IN MY GRANDMOTHERS LIFE
WE HAVE ALWAYS ENDURED
AND THERE IS SO MUCH JOY TO BE EXPERIENCED.
I NEVER HAD A FATHER AND I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE -
BUT MY CHILDREN DO , AND THEY LOVE THEIR ‘PARENTS’ .

WE ARE THEIR CHAMPIONS .

live how you want . follow which ever pattern YOU like .
MY CHILDREN WILL BE LEADERS
and they will not ever be slaves to this society’s failing idea of morality.
THEY OWN THEIR MINDS AND THEIR DREAMS.

BIRTH CONTROL lol … could have 10 babies instead of 2 .

I LOVE CHILDREN AND I WILL HAVE AS MANY AS GOD WILL GIVE ME .

I AM VERY HEALTHY AND RESPONSIBLE AND SO ARE ALL OF MY PARTNERS

I CHOSE THEM WISELY AND SOBERLY .

ALL GOOD BROTHERS .

your opinions lack experience and are not only careless but also very uninformed and immature.

nothing is sacred here . and i see why.

if i loose you as a fan because i want to continue to have children then
F*CK OFF… WHO NEEDS YOU ….CERTAINLY NOT ME … KICK ROCKS … CALL TYRONE … PACK LIGHT …. BITE ME

i have defended myself here ON THIS SITE and hurled a few insults .. but only in response to your insults of
my music , my clothes , my lyrics , my hair , my being a woman , my spirit, my choices of partners….
these have all been on trial here . and i continued to support the energy of this place .

this is to all the okay players / REAL HUMAN BEINGS hiding behind screen names in order to insult one another and who ever else you will.

geeeez…
i had to say something
i am so sad for parents who try , today guys
enough is enuf.

dont judge to quickly , OKAY PLAYER?

i know you are having fun , but what if it were you and your children?
my son is 10 .
my daughter, 4 .

peace

ANALOGUE GIRL

and if this post is not clear
kiss my placenta.

Source jacked from Necole Bitchie

I can’t say that I blame them because a baby is a major life changing event, for male and female. More so for a female because the man, as they often do, run out on the situation. Where as a woman is stuck with the child. Their dreams go down the drain, and their whole life is not focused, and centered around a child with a man who may or may not be in the picture. Likely a female has dreams and goals to accomplish. And I know a baby can be a major obstacle to over come but remember that “Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.” So if you stay focused you can achieve anything.

How did you feel when you found out you were pregnant?

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I can’t say that I blame them because a baby is a major life changing event, for male and female. More so for a female because the man, as they often do, run out on the situation. Where as a woman is stuck with the child. Their dreams go down the drain, and their whole life is not focused, and centered around a child with a man who may or may not be in the picture. Likely a female has dreams and goals to accomplish. And I know a baby can be a major obstacle to over come but remember that “Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.” So if you stay focused you can achieve anything.

How did you feel when you found out you were pregnant?

Pics from Imnotobsessed.com

I can’t say that I blame them because a baby is a major life changing event, for male and female. More so for a female because the man, as they often do, run out on the situation. Where as a woman is stuck with the child. Their dreams go down the drain, and their whole life is not focused, and centered around a child with a man who may or may not be in the picture. Likely a female has dreams and goals to accomplish. And I know a baby can be a major obstacle to over come but remember that “Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.” So if you stay focused you can achieve anything.

How did you feel when you found out you were pregnant?

Pics from Imnotobsessed.com

I can’t say that I blame them because a baby is a major life changing event, for male and female. More so for a female because the man, as they often do, run out on the situation. Where as a woman is stuck with the child. Their dreams go down the drain, and their whole life is not focused, and centered around a child with a man who may or may not be in the picture. Likely a female has dreams and goals to accomplish. And I know a baby can be a major obstacle to over come but remember that “Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.” So if you stay focused you can achieve anything.

How did you feel when you found out you were pregnant?

Pics from Imnotobsessed.com