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We all like oral sex, but the question remains who should go down first? Should the guy lick lick lick her from her head to her toes, or should the lady put it in her mouth, in her MFing mouth? I have my own theory on this.

I firmly believe the woman should go down first. They should all drop down to their knees, or bend over and put their face in my lap and start sucking! And they should do a good job and put their all over the manxilla. Slob, spit and head bobbing to get me right. This will help the guy get his mind right, and prepare him to lay it on her, and go deep or hit it from the back w/ the best of them.

Then after the ManXilla is polished, the lady should roll on her back, open her legs and let the man put his face in it. When the dome was great, the man should try to take his face and make it reach her fallopian tubes. He should lick her, like that owl in the tootsie roll commercial. He should place the woman’s lady part in his mouth and roll it around, flick his tongue against it, press her lips together w/ his hands and separate her lips like Moses parted the Red Sea. If a man doesn’t know how to eat refer him to this blog here

After both parties are full, polished and “ret to go!” then it’s time for penetration. The guy has been hard for a while and the lady is at her max pleasure point so all of this should make sex great for everyone. Do you agree or is this just an excuse for guys to get head first? You decide.

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In my travels I’ve came across a few women who believe the main chick, wife, or wifey shouldn’t do certain things in the bedroom. They feel like as an issue of respect, that the main should not perform oral or if they do they shouldn’t go all the way and take a drink. Do they have a point or is this theory totally nonsense. 

A friend of mine came to me and asked me how can he get his girlfriend to be more active in bed. He stated that when they first met she was the biggest sexual intellectual, but now that she has the title she got lazy. She no longer feels like she needs to do the more taboo things, that helped him fall in love with her. Sadly there are a lot of women like this, but there are men like this too, men who run to “jump offs” to do nasty things, but then they say they will not allow their wifey to give dome, or do it outside and stuff like that. In my opinion I feel like the main chick should be the one you do these things with. I believe that it’s her duty to be his own personal freak in the bedroom, in the streets and do the things he desires. Sex is an endless arena of things to do, why limit your self because you now have a title?

What are your thoughts on this topic? Do you go all out or do you feel like a main chick shouldn’t be asked or requested to do certain things? 

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We all love oral sex, but what’s the best position to get it? While surfing online I came across a great tip for men, and I added a few other tips for women who might want to get better at their craft as well.

Some positions are better than others for getting easy (and precise) access to her body. Lay your lady on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Lie on your stomach between her legs and place both your arms under her legs (this leaves your hands free). Sitting in the same position also works well, but you can put both your hands under her butt, holding her up and bringing her closer to you. Another good option is to have her lie back on the bed with her butt near the edge, her feet resting on the edge of the bed, and you kneel in front of her. These are not the only options, but they are good for starters.

More Tips Include:

5 Oral Techniques He’ll Love You For

3 Nice Ways To Say ‘You’re Terrible At This’ 

6 Great Ways A Beginner Can Perform Oral Like A Pro

3 Amazing Tips To Give Her Multiple Orgasms 

21 Tweets About Sucking!

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Giving head can make you famous, but it can also keep a relationship together. Well maybe not, but I’ll be the first to tell you that some good head will make it a lot harder for a person to leave you. I’ve also had women give me great head and terrible head, but it could have all been better if they did a few small things. Here are a few tips to get a “head” in the game.

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Brooke and I sat down for a delicious cupcake from Crumbs in NYC, and well the conversation with to… you guessed it, Sex. Check out our video. The homegirl Brooke has been really busy lately, she also sat down with Necole B. for an in depth and very candid interview. One thing I noticed about Brooke is that she is a real person. She’s not stuck up, or anything like that I would say she’s the cool friend everyone has, I digs her. Here is an excerpt to Necole’s interview with Brooke.

I recently did a post about women settling for less. Since you’ve been in a relationship with such a high profile person, do you have ridiculously high standards?
I don’t really go into anything with standards because I don’t have a type and a lot of the things that I experienced with that high profile relationship were things that were new to me. I don’t think two years is long enough time to get accustomed to eating a certain way, or dressing a certain way or living a certain way. It was actually a very easy transition for me to come back to New York City in Harlem full time and back to my life as Brook full time. I didn’t really struggle with that. Now, it sucks to not be able to afford all the things that you could imagine but that stuff is ….”Where are you wearing that?”. I don’t have to go to those events anymore anyway so I don’t need to dress like that.

So I think my standards are moreso now about things that matter. Someone who makes me laugh. My standards are just to be with someone who digs me more than I dig them because all my life I’ve been chasing guys. I see something I like and I go after that. Maybe it’s time for me to stop and let somebody dig me. Let somebody put up with the things that I use to put up with. My standards is just to find someone who really likes me.

And that leads me into my next question, What type of woman are you in a relationship?

Honestly, I’m not very submissive and I’m not very girly girl. I’m the guy’s girl. I’m cool. I like to let my man feel like a man but I’m the partner. I don’t mind pulling my weight. I don’t mind equal, although I am not about going dutch just because I feel like you have to draw the line somewhere. This is a relationship because it’s A,B & C. I’m very affectionate. I’ve very needy. I love to spend a lot of my time with my guy. I’m more like a homie lover friend.

You made a comment on the Global Grind interview about “it’s weird seeing your ex being intimate with someone that looks like you” referring to Keri Hilson, How does it feel seeing him with a girl like Amber Rose?

It really doesn’t feel like anything because if people remember correctly, I’ve had more than enough time to get over that break up. He had a fiance for 18 months and so I’ve totally moved on from that relationship and that relationship ended amicably. People always want to say “Oh he dissed you” and maybe because people think that he broke up with me that maybe I keep an eye on who he’s dating.

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It’s no secret that woman don’t get to orgasm as much as men, but there are a few things men can do that can not only bring her to the promise land over and over again. Before you read this blog there is a few things you must know. 1) All women are different and like different things. 2) You must let your partner know what it is that you like and how you like it. 3) The setting and mood has to be right because without that she won’t even get in the car to go to the promise land.

Skittles – Most woman can’t come from penetration alone, so you have to make sure the foreplay is on point. So start by kissing her, and making her fell at ease. You can do this in a lot of different ways, like letting her know you want her. A few things I like to do are pay a lot of attention to her nipples if that what she likes, chances are there is a spot on her body that she loves to have licked so lick it.

There is nothing like the taste of a woman, whether it’s her lips, her neck, ear, chest, naval or her lower lips. Kissing these places softly is what must be done, and there is no greater thing to do other than give her some head. Spread her lips, lick gentle and eat her until she comes all over your face till you look like you just won a pie eating contest

Try This:

Gradually move down w/ your fingers, intentionally brushing against her cl*t, then suck on the lips of her p*ssy. I like to take my index finger and my ring finger and push them together causing the cl*t to pop up and then massage it w/ my middle finger which I have already made moist. When you do this you can use her own lips to add to her pleasure. Tongue tap her p*ssy while you’re doing this, your tongue should move like thumper.

Tell Her What She Want To Hear: Woman are emotional beings, so talking to them and letting them know how you feel does a lot towards helping them reach an orgasm. Stroke their ego with compliments and let her know you’re enjoying the way she is making you feel. This will help her relax which is needed in order for her to get to the promise land. Also be sure you woman likes talking in the bedroom if she doesn’t do other things to turn her on, a moan can go a long way when you’re trying to get her to have another orgasm.

To F*ck Or Make Love – Not all women like being made love to, some of them like it rough. Try pulling her hair and letting her know you’re in control with a nice slap on the bum. Switch up speeds and depth, also be sure to pay attention to her body language and the sounds she is making. You sense she is enjoying a particular thing that you are doing then keep doing it. She may even tell you not to stop or right there, listen to her. Even if it doesn’t give you (the guy) the most stimulation its your goal to please her, so hair pulling, choking, soft kisses, or just calling her a dirty little b*tch might do the trick.

If you feel the urge coming on, then slow down and hold back your explosion, tonight is not about you.

What else do women like that can bring them to orgasm?