I hate the word no and I firmly believe that women have allowed the word no to push away mr right on numerous occasions. Besides isn’t a woman suppose to obey a man anyway?

Now by no means am I saying women should listen and do whatever a man tells them to do, despite what the title says. That would be more stupid than liking someone and not having sex with them, but she shouldn’t allow her independence make her overly difficult to deal with. I have heard stories of women who didn’t do things because her man wanted to them. I have seen first hand women make terrible blunders just to not be told to do. You’re not my daddy is shouted as the women turns down a good piece of advice only to sit in her room months later fighting with regrets of not taking the guys advice.

Now I understand the word obey is a terrible word. To even think about being told to obey someone’s command make my dreads stand up like coolio’s braids. But just because someone might not present a request the right way doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it, does it?

Ben recently went on a date with a beautiful woman. They had a great time and they both knew what was to follow, but when they reached his apartment and he went straight for her bra, and dug into her panties, she immediately said, can’t we just talk, and refused to give him the sex. Ben was pissed, he felt like they talked all night long, and if she didn’t want to have sex, then why agree to come over at 2am? 

Later when she told her friend of the event she explained how horny she was and how much she wanted him, but just didn’t give it to him b/c he seemed to eager. WTF. 

As a man, I feel like there are just some things that should never be answered with no, from my girlfriend, unless it’s under extreme conditions. Like if we are eating dinner, and I ask you pass me the salt, she should do it, if I ask her to make my plate she should do it, if I ask her to bring my plate back into the kitchen as she’s going into the kitchen to bring her plate in, then she shouldn’t say no! Point Blank, Period! I should be the same. 

I guess my whole issue is simply that women say no too often, and most times for things that it won’t kill them to do. Things that won’t question their integrity, compromise their morals or affect them in any way. Oh yeah, FYI: If I spend 100 hundreds of dollars on you, mostly on stuff that I would never buy you myself, dinner, or whatever and I ask you for a 20 dollar lap dance when we are at the club, together, or something that isn’t worth a fraction of the money I spent on you… you should never say no… regardless of the situation. It’s okay to give a man what he wants sometimes, and it’s his duty to give a woman what she wants all the time.