Are you tired of just going out to eat or to the movies? Well every once in a while you have to go on the big boy date. The none couple above are seen in Barbados splashing around in the sun and riding waterskis. Here are a few ideas for the big boy date that you can use. [Oh yeah more pictures inside]
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In a recent interview with my home girl Martine for All That’s Fab, Lloyd explained how his new album Lessons In Love is like falling in love for the first time.

“I am growing with my fans who are now in college. This is where you experience love for the first time. So I’m kind of conscious of that– I’m kind of in the love convention. Young lovers that want to express what they feel, what they go through, you know mistakes and heartache, as well as happiness and joy. Lessons in love is not so much about me, it’s more so about them, it’s more about my fans and what can happen in life along the way.”

If you’re just discovering love then you might not know that relationships have stages. During those stages the person you love is going to change and if you don’t notice and identify those changes your relationship will be over before it ever got started.

Just Met Stage - When you just meet you are always thinking about this person, and you’re conscious of how they may react to what you may do. It’s bliss because you’re both on your best behavior during this stage.

Share Stage - This is when you always want to be around the person. You are discovering things and you like it a lot. You’re so intrigued that you’re asking questions and getting them to open up to you, and you’re opening up as well. The two of you are sharing yourself with each other.

Know Stage - This is where you know this person very well, you can finish their thoughts for them, tell which stroke they are going to use, and what position they’ll want after or before doggy style. This is the point where things start to get boring if you’re not careful.

You have to identify the stages of your relationship because you can be working effortless trying to give your lover something they no longer need or desire. Think about it, what did you want from a lover 5 years ago? Hell if you think 5 months ago it might differ from now. So pay attention and keep trying to discover something new about the person you love it may plant a seed of longevity in your love life.

Last Saturday night I stopped by Greg Street’s 13th Anniversary Down South Takeover concert. While I was standing backstage I happened to see what love looks like, when Rocko walked in with Monica glowing like a neon necklace on hot summer night. As soon as Rocko was done with his set he called for everyone’s attention, and gave a special introduction to his fiance’ Monica and told the crowd how lucky he is to have someone like her. After that I caught up with Monica backstage and we had an exclusive interview to speak about maintaining a healthy relationship and parenthood, love and a few sexual intellectual questions as well Check it out Read the rest of this entry »

Scan the room, is Derrick at Tasha’s desk again? Is the married Tammy, sneaking off to lunch with the boss for the forth time this week? If your office is anything like the ones I used to work in then you’ve seen these things before. At one of my jobs things were so bad when it came to office dating that, this lady’s husband drove his truck into the back my manager’s Benz while he and the guy’s wife were enjoying lunch behind the building. Which leads me to think about the ethics of an office romance. Read the rest of this entry »