If you didn’t know, Kelis has filed for divorce from Nas. I can’t help to say that I feel that this is best for Nas. While I don’t know him, I get a feeling that Nas is a good dude and well, Kelis cheated on him. With another rapper nonetheless. In an effort to put be the premiere site for information about your favorite celebrity’s sex life, Kelis slept with Ruff Ryder exile Infared.

You’ve heard the rumor of the sex tape well my sources have told me of a drunk Kelis sleeping with this rapper while he talked shit about Nas, and filmed it. He filmed his penis in her mouth and all. Now don’t get me wrong I’m all for a video record during sex, but this is just not something you do if you’re a married woman having sex with another man who is NOT your husband. That is complete disrespect. Honestly I’ll be surprise if the baby even belongs to Nas.

I saw a statistic which said that 3 out of 5 men are raising kids that are not theirs, and most of them don’t even know it. It’s sad, and yet we will bash a man for not taking care of his children.

The fact that so many women put kids on a guy and they have no clue, who is the real father. You can watch Maury and see female after female who will bring multiple men on the show in order to find out who fathered their offspring. Offspring from a tainted womb.

Now while I don’t know the particulars of the Nas and Kelis break up, I do know that all too often men get the short end of the stick. Take Lyfe’s song Hypothetical. He sings of cheating on him, and she sings about the kid not being his. That’s know comparison. This is why there is a double standard in the world, because female multiple like Gremlins when you put water on them.

I’m disgusted. When I was younger my very first experience with fatherhood was a very similar case. All my boys knew my chick was sleeping with a dude I knew, I didn’t. She went to the prom with this guy, with my baby in her stomach. I whipped his ass and she jumped in the fight hitting on me.

I felt like I wanted to die. Looking back I’m thrilled she didn’t birth that child. I look at her life now and I would probably kill myself if she was my baby mother. We as a people need to be more responsible when it comes to sex, love, marriage and child birth. But, what can we do to make this message common practice in the hood. My writer 1AM said it best.

100 outbreaks of Swine Flu, and people walk around in mask. Millions of cases of HIV and “You are not the father” and people still won’t wear condoms.

To see a screen cap of the Alleged Kelis sex tape click here. NSFW

My home boy ICE has up a ton of hot pictures of Ashalee Albar, the video vixen from Lil Wayne’s Lollipop video. Fellas, and ladies if that’s what you like you have to check out these pics.

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While I was in Jersey last week, this guy approached me and told me how much he loved my site and The Bleach Johnson Show. He asked me who was “Bleach Johnson” and then tried to convince me that he himself was Bleach. I told him he wasn’t Bleach and that’s when he took out his phone and showed me some pics a nice young lady had sent him. I told him I’ve seen her on Freaks On Myspace. He laughed and told me about the sex tape he had with her, but she made him delete it. If I had a sex tape I’m not deleting s**t!

What’s the purpose of a sex tape if a guy is going to A) let her keep it. B) watch it once and then delete it. That just doesn’t make sense to me. The whole purpose of a man making a sex tape with his lady is so he can watch it and beat off to his girl when she’s not there.

That’s the whole point, but with lame as* dudes like the guy who runs that website which expose women who make sex tapes with their man and have myspace pages, it makes hard for us good dudes to join in on the sex tape mania.

Granted I made 2 sex tapes in my life time and lost them, (They were on one tape) when I moved. The women in the tape tried to make me delete them or give them to her. Maybe she stole it, but I wasn’t giving up that tape without a fight.

The next time I make a sex tape I’m not deleting a got dang thing. I’m keeping it and watching it like it’s a movie on TBS. You know how they play the same movie all day long? Yeah I’m watching it like that!

Who do you think should keep the sex tape? When, if ever should it be deleted?