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Does love mean anything anymore? Malik had to ask hisself this question numerous times, after leaving a hotel room, only to return home to his girl, baby mother and love of his life. Sure he stepped out for some easy booty, but Malik knows his heart truly belongs to the woman he’s going home to, but the double life is killing him. Another random girl who gave it up quick, after a few drinks and amazing conversation.

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The other day, I got a message of Facebook asking me what do you do when you’re thinking about an ex lover and your ex is trying to get back with you. It struck close to home, because a member of my family is thinking about getting back with an ex. So after a lot of thought and putting myself in those same shoes I finally had a clear enough head to write about the topic. There are a few things you need to ask yourself before you get back together with an ex.

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Are you tired of your significant other not showing you enough attention? Have you ever had a lover who pushed you to the side one too many times? Or have you ever thought the person you were with was cheating on you? Well check this out.

Tasha was in the house cleaning up and listening to the radio when she heard a song which reminder her of her boo. She decided to give him a call to let him know she was thinking about him and maybe call him over and make it a blockbuster night. She turned the radio down, picked up her blackberry bold and called her boo. No one picked up. (more…)

Dear Lindsay Lohan,

Hi, My name is Xilla, and I’m your biggest fan. I decided to write you because well, frankly I think you’re awesome. I know you recently broke up with your girlfriend Sam. The paps stayed outside with you and watch you cry as your girlfriend showed up with another woman. That must of sucked. I recently wrote a blog about how to cheat and not get caught and people thought I was a cheater, but thats not true. I actually won’t cheat and will not cheat. I decided to write you and let you know why I don’t, and won’t cheat on a woman I’m with.

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Cheating, has been around since the beginning of time, and one might even say it’s a natural thing to do. I’ve seen monkey’s cheat on the discovery channel. Yet in all people hate being cheated despite having a hard time defining what exactly is cheating. So with that said, I want to apply some basic rules to creeping or cheating so you’ll never get caught.

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It seems like more women are crying over their man’s facebook status or comment. In today’s world, a flirtatious twitter message or comment can lead a woman to snap like Sara from Da Band. A new study even suggest that you may be caught in the facebook feedback loop. Don’t worry it’s not new at all, the only difference is now you can see the things your boo says.

“If your boyfriend is calling or texting another girl, you can’t really see it. But on Facebook, you can see it and so can everyone else, so in a way, you do get jealous because he might be hanging his dirty laundry, and not only are you seeing it, but other people are, too.”

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A while back I wrote a blog about why you shouldn’t tell your lover you cheated and most ladies agreed. I personally think ladies cheat way more than men, we men just never find out. Recently I came to the conclusion that flirting should be accepted in a relationship even if it’s sexual. For one, you can’t stop another person from hitting on your boo, and two, I would say that 80% of people in relationships, flirt with someone other than their mate.

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I got a tweet from a woman asking, what can a woman do to keep a long distance relationship fresh. Then I started thinking of all the things I would like done in my relationship. I thought that these things can be whether the lovers are far away or near each other as well. So I decided to give the ladies a little advice on how to keep their man from cheating. Now while doing these things can’t guarantee that your man won’t cheat, it will make him out to be a complete idiot to cheat on a woman who would do all these things for him.

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