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Last week I got an email from a new reader who has a problem. Read her letter and check out my response under the cut. I also asked R&B Singer Olivia about this situation, you can check out what she had to say and leave your opinion in the comment section.

Dear Xilla,

I am new to your blog and I think it is GREAT!!! You are talking about things that most adults are afraid to talk about. I have a question for you. The guy I am currently dating and I are both in our early 30’s. He performed oral sex on me and when I came I squirted (or as he puts it gushed) all over his face and now I am afraid to do anything else with him.

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I’m checking my email like I do every morning when one of my frustrated female readers sent me the following email.

Dear Xilla,

I was with his guy and we basically discussed sex on a everyday basis.
We talked about everything from fetishes, different positions to sex toys, it was always an enjoyable topic.
One day he asked me if someone had ever licked my ass. I asked him did he mean my ass cheek or my asshole. He said my asshole. I speedily told him NO!!!!! Then he went on to tell me a story about a girl who tossed his salad. He explained to me in great detail of his encounter with this anal delight.

I immediately expressed my disgust with the thought of placing my tongue on someone’s asshole. I told him that I felt like it was unsanitary and grounds for bacteria growth in the mouth. He jokingly agreed and told me how he felt wierd about it for a few days after it took place.

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