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The Black Virgin Records
Posted in Life, Rated Grown Up, Sexual Intellectuals on 10. Sep, 2008
Today meeting a virgin is like winning the lotto. I remember when I lost mine, I was riding my bike through the park with my best friend Lateef when these young girls asked for a ride, one of the literally got one. I was about 14 years old and she needed to stop at the park bathroom to change into her bathing suit. I don’t actually remember why I followed her in there but I did, and the sight of her young body changing turned me on. I’m assuming I said something, but next thing I know… we were having sex and she leaked on my brand new $20 vest.
Looking back it’s sort of funny, I wasted such a valuable moment in life with some girl whose name I can’t even remember. So that was my first time with consensual sex, that I count… So here is what I want you to do, leave a comment about how you lost your virginity. This blog will be our way of knowing we are not alone and together we can take back our virginity.
I don't think I want my virginity back………I'm good! I do have a few that I would rather not have “wasted” the snatch on though….total waste of time, energy and body………yuck
And the first time I didn't give it, it was taken so I have nothing to share.
Well my time wasn't actually my first!! I said consensual!! lol so c'mon.
yep deflowering is rare
Shoot i think i waited long enough until i gave up the cherry and it was an enjoyable and unforgettable moment in time so i wouldn't want to take it back. I know what i was doing and I was ready. It was on my b-day (not telling which one, lol) we went to a swanky hotel and got it on and popping. the end. lol
I was with my “boyfriend” at his crib, his mom had a townhome at the time, we were young….I was 12 and he was 14….his mom had a king sized waterbed…..lol…..back when having a waterbed used to be the shit……I remember we were listening to 2Live Crew's cd As Nasty As They Wanna Be……he had a fiyah ass stereo system and it was downstairs loud as hell……..we went upstairs and next thing I know………I remember hearing the song Fuck Shop…….lmao…….it was something else.***SMMFH***…………….LMFAO……………………..
My first time was cool, I was 16 so was he. We had been best friends for like 2-3 years so we were both really comfortable, none of that awkward or embarassing ish happened. After it was over I do remember being like WTF?! cus all the adult women around me always built losing your virginity up to be this BIG DEAL, life changing etc, etc…. I was like “Shit I waited to do this shit for WHAT?” I guess I was expecting fireworks and all that shit frm the way they talked about it… LOL it was coo tho… wouldn't take it back, funny part is we are still friends and he jus tried to smash a few wks ago SMH.. MEN! LOL
2 of my really close friends are virgins there both 23… There not that rare in my opinion… anyways I lost mine when I was 15 he was 17 on st. Patrick's day he was half Irish lol insert(side eye) joke here… we were supposed to go to the St. Patrick's day parade but instead stayed at his house… I thought i was in love… If I could I would have waited till I was ready mentally not just physically….
it was the 4th of july, my mama and lil sis were gone all day. my lil bro was playing outside. we had been flirting all summer, and i let him in the house. we went up to my room and it was kind of like 'should we or shouldn't we?' but we did, and i remember 2 become 1 by the spice girls was playing, and when it was done, i was disappointed cuz there weren't fireworks like everyone says there will be, but it was still nice and he was 2 cuz instead of turning into a jerk like some guys do after they get the goodies, he was still as sweet as ever.
Hmm. I was 19 & it was with a co-worker. I didn't have any “lovey dovey” kinda feelings for him or anything. I just couldn't stop thinking about him sexually. I told him about it & a few days later we hooked up for a smash session. He looked like such a good lay, but he was quite the opposite. At first, I figured it was just “first time awkwardness” or something…but after about two more times of non satisfaction, he was a lost cause as far as I was concerned. I look back on it now & laugh about how “guy-like” I was about the whole thing.
It was the week after prom, my 18th birthday to be exact. I went over to the girl's apt. that I had went to prom with. I had been trying to hit from the moment I saw her. She said I wasn't her time earlier that year-you know the jock, buff, pretty boy bullshit.. She was my type though. Half black/Half asian, long hair don't care. She was a hoe but she was my hoe lol. So I'm in her room and we talking and basically stalling. I pull out the box of Trojans my boys brought me. She cuts out the lights and locks the door. I think Joe's-”Somebody Gotta Be On Top was on. She got on top of my pony and started riding it. After about 15 minutes she was like damn you got alot of stamina cause in the movies a dude bust after 10 secs lol. Anyways I got on top and put my bid in, eventually I lost my erection (*tears tears*) and called it a night. We never did it again but it's all good. Sometimes I still wish I was a virgin cause most of the fe's I slept with wasn't worth it. I'm still on my first hand though lol
I was 16 he was 17. I lost mine at his house in his momma's bed while he watched Yugio (pronounced UGO) 7 yrs later he got a mean stroke.
anyway I saw nothing special about the virginity, I just wanted to lose it to my boyfriend so i could attempt (i say attempt b/c he never ever got it up) to have sex with this other dude I was messing wit and not get caught. (You can't be be a virgin and all of a sudden not be)
Don't want mine back but like Sugar tits i wish i didn't waste some numbers on the lamedicks.
lmao@ the black russian who said it is not rare to see a 23 yr old virgin but in the next sentence lost hers at 15.
technically you were still a virgin till the 2nd one
So how long do you last now???
I was a virgin in my twenties, also and so were a lot of my friends. I don't think that it is rare to still find virgins, I think it just depends on where you are looking. Especially now, with the whole chastity/promise ring movement (check the fiasco at the MTV awards). Also, I feel that because of peer pressure, a lot of teens lie about not being virgins when they actually are.
I just couldn't see myself having sex in someone's mama's house. That is just gross and disrespectful to me. Call me old fashioned, but I have just always felt that a child should stay in a child's place, so I waited until I was grown and in my own place. Wouldn't change a thing, I never had to worry about VD or pregnancies. I was just young and carefree—sometimes I miss those times. Also, I took care of the first time “awkwardness” for females, on my own–with a dildo. So the guy never knew he was my first. I also had no love for him. I just felt that, at that point, I was way old and wanted to get it over with already.
I lost mine february 11th 1996. I was in love with this girl with the voice of an angel. She lived in houston, near my aunt where I used to spend all my summers. Nice brown skin tone with small breasts, and a firm booty for a 15 year old. She was always feeling me and that year I came to her on that day especially for her birthday. She found that really cool and told me the only gift she wanted was me….so we got it on that day and it was nice. No fireworks but nice. We got it on that summer, but lost contact after that……. I still see her a lot though…………
Ttime :: I couldn't have sex in anybodies momma's house either, but that didn't stop me from doing the deed lol.
I was sixteen, he was, jeez, like twenty, twenty-one. Advantage being he could afford an evening at the appropriate non-hood hotel.
It was the summertime, I was one of the few virgins left, and I did it just to see what the hype was. I didn't feel any special way about him. He was shallow, d*ck was wack. (I didn't know that then, I def. know now.) But I have good memories b/c that's how I learned how easy, and useful it is to pussy whip someone lmao.
I lost mine when I was 17 to my boyfriend who was also 17yrs old. We were at his father's house. It took a few days for me to loose it b/c it was just too darn painful to get through it the 1st time…lol. Once he was in (a wk later) it was all good.
h/e there's some guys who I would like to cross of my list b/c it was a waste of time…
I don't want my virginity back b/c truth be told, my kitty is tight just like the first time all the time
It just depends on the pace that I'm going at…I can go 20-25 minutes, I've never had like hour long sessions-that's for like lovers and shit lol. Most were jump-offs. You have to include four play too but I ain't go down on the jump off, just this one girl I was with for awhile
i agree, mine is just as tight, and i picked up some tricks along the way… but like most of you, i wish i could erase some numbers.
i have no story cuz im still a virgin and im not given it up for nobody i feel its the only thing sacred i have left. So any guy who has been with me I guess hit the lotto if they believe it or not. Bad thing is guys like that ur a virgin but not for long because they want to take it.
OMG am 19 and i really wanna get it over n done wit!i'm the last virgin out of all my friends and i've had plenty of opportunities but when it comes down to it,but it hurts n am a wimp so i cant go through with it!funny thing is mans never realise i'm a virgin…can i have some advice on how to lose this hymen please!?!
@ 2Bashy:
Read my post…you can get past the hymen on your own, not without the pain, but without the awkwardness.
I was 20 and I recently found out he was way younger than he claimed. It was a few days after Valentine's Day, at my house and in my twin size bed. He spoke no English, claimed to give a good back massage and I just rolled over midway. There was freestyle music in the background and the windows were all open. And for months after that I left the door open a few times a week – he snuck in between work and school. The only thing that he knew how to say was “Garage” which he explained was the only word that was the same in any language. Weird I know – but I don't regret it. I met him again after 7 years – he still speaks broken English and we hum the song “You're My Fantasy Girl”
I was 17 and I it was with my first love, we were togther for 2 years before we actually had sex. It was at my neighbors house…(his bestfriend). On the bottom bunk on his bunk bed. I honestly didnt want to do it and prayed that something happen that woul make me not go over there. I prayed for rain and rain came so I was happy but then dude showed up to my house with an umberella so I was like might as well do it. IT SUCKED!!! Even though I wasn't sure what sex was suppose to feel like the first time. But we did it 3 more times before we ended the relationship and it still FUCKING SUCKED!!!! SORRY KURT. LOL
After 11 years of still having sex I am still tight as well. Men are shocked that I can get so tight. So I guess that is a good thing. I try not to think on numbers but I wish some of them I could take off. Some of it was a waste of time. PU
8th grade. Both of us were staying after school for tutoring… the tutor didnt show up. So I had a monster crush on this boy anyway… he said something to me, and the next thing i kno, we in the math teachers closet…i still see his broke ass around town and he think being my first gives him lifetime access to this pussy!! NOT! I would give anything to have that moment back…yeah i said moment. And yeah i was a hot ass 14 y.o…
I was 15, and he was 16. We had been best friends since elementary school and at the time me & my mom were staying with him and his aunt. We shared a room. (How bright is it to put two teenagers in a room together for 3 months?) He came home drunk one saturday night and tried his luck. To make a short story long, he was done in 2 minutes. Yes TWO!!! I looked at the clock. It wasnt his first time, so i figured maybe it was a bad night. We tried it again a couple of days later and I ended up with the same 2 minutes he gave me the first time.
I don't want my virginity back, i just wish he didn't take it.. lol
shit, i'm glad i don't have mine anymore, being a virgin is some bullshit. i'm still tight as all hell, though, but at least i don't feel that scream-your-ass-off pain like i did my first time.
it was a nigga id been cool with for about 3 to 4 years, we'd been hooking up but i was only like 14 so i didnt want to go any further just yet, even though he thought i wasn't a virgin. to this day he doesn't know he was my first and i'd like to keep it that way, because like coco said, i don't want him thinking he got lifelong access.
it was boring, my friends told me i got with a tube-sock nigga (a dude who basically treats the chick he's fucking like a tube sock). my next boyfriend was a VAST improvement, so much so, i could barely speak to my first without laughing, especially when he tried to bring up all the times he “put it down.” (we had sex three times over the course of around six months— i was always fuckin with other dudes and only calling him when i was lonely or in need of some dick action, yeah i was on it like that!)
wow. that is the same way i feel. If I lose my virginity, what will I have left? I've only had 1 boyfriend in my life and I broke it off with him before we could do the do. I'm 19 now and I think I'm going to remain a virgin for a while if not till marriage. lol. true about the guys wanting to take it…I think that's why I'm single. damn i suck lol.
I heard that stretching helps a good lot. doing splits and all that. you should try it.
i was 15 when i lost mine.. a dude i ended up datin exclusively for 3 years…at least it was exclusive to me..
…i've had great sexual relationships…some i wish i had never done..but shit u only live once..when i have sex, i always act as if it's tha last time i'm gonna do it lol… and i make sure to do it safe all tha time =D