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The other day, I got a message of Facebook asking me what do you do when you’re thinking about an ex lover and your ex is trying to get back with you. It struck close to home, because a member of my family is thinking about getting back with an ex. So after a lot of thought and putting myself in those same shoes I finally had a clear enough head to write about the topic. There are a few things you need to ask yourself before you get back together with an ex.

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Consider this a Xilla PSA: I’m sick and tired of chicks getting gased because a men want to smash. I want to bang mad chicks I would only wife 3. If getting something stuck in you is your cup of tea than by all means wallow in your fuckability, but if you value committment than bring yourself down a notch.

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Photo Of Ms. Cherry

Bros before h*es, money over b*tches, and chicks before d*cks are all mottos many of us live by. With all these crazy sayings I had to ask myself do we put too many things before the person we are having sex with?

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Photo is Property of Isabel Aurora

We all play the game, whether we know it or not. We might not know what the game is, or exactly how to play it, but it gets played… By men, women, boys and girls of all ages. From the school boy hitting on the girl he likes, to the grown woman who won’t call back in the 15 minutes she says she will but rather in a few hours to keep the guy guess. My point is, a lot of women want to know how to keep a guy from cheating and how to lock down a good man. Well its really simple, but it might be hard to actually accomplish.

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We all heard about the epidemic running wild across the country. Men on the DL, but there is a bigger issue that secretly just as big. Women on the down low. Secretly there are tons of women who like women, want to be with women and are with women.
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Photo by Keeimages

Lil Wayne seems to have it like no other man can, his baby mama’s are cool, and don’t seem to give him Drama. From the photo, it seems like Toya & Nivea are BFF’s. So What do you think? Could you be BFF’s with a woman who has slept with your man? Could a healthy relationship exists?

Leave your thoughts.

Model: Elpha

Summer is almost over and soon everyone will want to be boo’d on for the chilling night and cold days. While right now I’m single, one thing I know how to do is treat a lady. So no jump off talk today. Today we discuss some fantastic fall date ideas. 

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Model: Claudia Verela

In my travels I’ve came across a few women who believe the main chick, wife, or wifey shouldn’t do certain things in the bedroom. They feel like as an issue of respect, that the main should not perform oral or if they do they shouldn’t go all the way and take a drink. Do they have a point or is this theory totally nonsense. 

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