If you’ve been in a relationship then you know that sex can quickly become predictable. You’re watching tv in bed, turn off the lights, feel on a booty and get it started and then roll over and go to sleep. In the everyday hustle we become set in our ways and sex is just sex. So in order to spice up our love lives I came up w/ a few fantastic freaky ways to start making love.

The P. Diddy (Take That, Take That)

• Diddy made the phrase take that famous in the nineties. This was Burr before Burr was burr. So why not bring this classic phrase into the bedroom. While your boo is in the house doing chores, reading, or even on the phone simply sneak up behind them and start having sex. Women should unzip and pull out their man’s manxilla and go to work. Men, we should grab our lady by the back of the neck, throw them on the bed and get busy. Pull down her pants and do everything written in this blog here, then put her on all fours and put her in these positions described in this blog here. She’ll love you I promise.

The Surprise Party:

• In a relationship we become really comfortable and we forget about being creative. We ask, can I get some tonight, or if we are sitting in the house we say “let’s do it“. If this sounds like you, then try the surprise party. Go into the other room, and when you return come back in completely naked. Do a little dance, climb on top of your boo, or simple plant a passionate kiss on your lover’s lips. This will really get the ball rolling and maybe even spark a devilish laugh from the love of your life.

More Stripping:

• No I don’t want you to work the poll even though more women should take up poll dancing and more men should have a pole in the basement. What I would like to suggest is that we play more games for clothing. Play a game of strip monopoly or strip chess, or strip dominoes. Even crank it up a notch and start the game off naked and the loser has to perform a sexual act. This could be a fun way to end up inside of a woman or for women to end up with something inside of them.

Role Play:

• I think some of us do this, but not enough. You don’t have to be different people, like a nurse or a cop. Simply put yourself in different scenarios, make believe the two of you are being chased by Freddy Kruger and the only way to keep him from killing you is to have sex all night long or my personal favorite. Start a fake fight w/o the other person knowing it. Curse them out, throw something at them missing on purpose while saying something “See I knew you were no good! I followed you today and your monkey a** was looking so sexy that I have to come home and…” You get my drift they might think you’re crazy at first, but once you break it down into the sexy, they’ll get with the program.

My boy Jameel Saleem is back w/ a new episode of Exit Strategy. This has to be one of the funniest series on the net. If you haven’t been following the webisode. Jameel is stuck in the relationship from hell. He broke up w/ shorty, she came back and now he can’t get rid of her. This time he’s simply telling her the truth. Let’s see if this one works.

• “Me, I’m a guy that likes cartoons and pop tarts, and you are the devil”
• “Fatal Attraction, The Hand That Rocks The Cradle, Misery, The Exorcise! These are all movies you would have been perfect in”
• “The pac-man has eaten up all the white dots in our relationship”
• “You’d never be able to get rid of me… like Herpes!”

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I’ve been hard on the ladies lately. I mean I firmly believe they play a large roll in why they are single. Bullheadedness is one of the most unattractive things in the world. Also in the shallow world we live in, I’ve learned it’s best not to take advice from ugly people. Not because they’re ugly, but because the world isn’t fair to them and they see things a little bit differently, but I digress. Men do some of the dumbest things to make women behave the way they do. Since this is the case here are a few things men should stop doing.

Men Should Stop Dumb Things Like:

1. Sleeping with they baby momma when he knows he has a girlfriend.
2. Trying to f*ck his girlfriend’s home girl.
3. Flirting w/ the waitress, when he’s on a date.
4. Leaving there girlfriend who treats them right, for a girl who gives it up quick and has a bigger butt.
5. Thinking their life is a lyric from Lil Wayne, Snoop Dogg or Soulja Boy.
6. Treating every girl like a piece of meat.
7. Spitting wack come on lines.
8. Sending copy and paste messages to every girl on myspace, facebook and twitter.
9. Lying about how much money they make. 
10. Lying in general.
11. Saying their gonna beat it up and give 2 so so minutes of sex. Giving two minutes of great sex is still okay, but only if you can last longer the next time. 
12. Cheating w/ ugly girls.
13. Adding big booty models as friends on their web pages. 
14. Having unprotected sex, and denying the kid when he knows he skeeted in her.
15. Lying on their penises. 
16. Asking a successful woman for money.
17. Thinking that every girl has to look like Beyonce or Rihanna when he looks like Jon Gosselin.
18. Having sex with any woman that has a hole.
19. Thinking material things makes him the best man ever.
20. Giving girls terrible oral sex.

These are just a few things men should stop doing, I know there is more, but what are some other things woman want men to stop doing? Leave a comment so my advertisers can pay me and this site can stay up!

We’ve all been w/ the wrong person at least once. When we break up and we look back like what the hell was I thinking. So the good folks over at Asylum.com has an amazing list of 7 Red Flags About Women. Now, personally if one of my chicks have any of this flag pop up! I’m Jay-Z that trick and be on to the next one. Check em out tell me what you think. 

1. Her body issues exceed normal limits.
Who wants to spend time with a girl who constantly asks you if you think she’s fat? Every girl’s got her insecurities, but if she can’t eat a meal without calculating calories, cancels dates with you so she can get in those extra workouts, or walks backward when she’s naked because she’s afraid you’ll see her non-existent cellulite, we don’t care how skinny she is — she sucks.

The Story: “My ex didn’t eat pizza, but not because she didn’t like it. In fact, she loved it. She swore off pizza because of the calories. Then she swore off beer, also because of the calories. I understand not wanting to gain weight but come on, splurge once in a while. If your girl won’t chill on the couch eating pizza and drinking beer every now and then, you may as well swear off the relationship because you’re dating a total Debbie Downer.”

2. She doesn’t have a mind of her own.
If you’re talking to a girl and she thinks everything you say is interesting, she probably isn’t thinking at all or is too inarticulate or insecure to share her opinion with you. This inability to think for herself will likely snowball with time — soon she’ll be adopting your interests and agreeing with everything you say, which is a lot more boring than it sounds.

The Story: “I was dating this girl who was totally high maintenance but claimed to be a great athlete. She said she played softball, basketball and ran track in high school. For her birthday, I planned a special sports-oriented day. For the first half, I packed a picnic basket and brought two mitts and a softball. Once we got to the park, I grabbed a mitt for myself and tossed the other one her way … and she ducked … I called her out on it and she said she had lied because she knew I was really into baseball and wanted us to have something in common.”

3. She’s obsessed with marriage.
When a girl says she isn’t thinking at all about marriage and just wants to enjoy the moment, do not believe her. She is lying to you and herself — all girls think about marriage. The chicks you need to look out for are those who plan their entire wedding and are merely looking for a man to insert into their delusional fantasy.

The Story: “Considering proposal to my then girlfriend, I went window-shopping for rings. Finding not one perfect diamond, I took it as a sign that the relationship was flawed and decided to slow things down a bit. Well, I knew I had made the right decision when just a few weeks later she asked me where her ring was. Not, Are we going to get married and spend the rest of our lives happy together? but Where’s my ring? Then, when I told her I had to use the money to pay off some bills, she became outraged, throwing a fit.”

4. She tells you not to wear the condom on your first night.
Yes, in the heat of the moment, people make mistakes. If you’re both wasted and it accidentally happens, OK, we get it. But if a chick specifically tells you not to worry about wearing a condom, you need to worry about it — how many other guys has she said that to?

The Story: “At a Super Bowl party my buddies and I were playing flip-cup outside at a friend’s beach house and I charmed some girls into hanging out with us for the day. Things between me and this hot redhead were clicking … After a few games and some witty banter we ended up in my buddy’s bedroom fooling around. After an exhaustive search to find condoms at the house and asking everyone there to no avail, I told her, ‘Oh well, I guess no sex, no big deal.’ To this I got the response: ‘If you promise to be careful you can go right ahead.’ If a girl is willing to let a stranger go raw, and all you have to do is remember to pull out, you should run like I did. Or give her a fake name so then she can’t find you for the child support payments.”

5. She thinks her dog is your child.
You’re not living with the girl but somehow you end up being the one walking her yappy dog (and cleaning up after it) when you’re over at her place. Why? Because you’re its daddy.

The Story: “I’d been seeing this girl for a couple weeks when she decided to spend $400 on a hypoallergenic dog about the size of my fist. The first red flag was the fact that she spent that much on a pet, when I’d been helping her pay rent for three months. Then, she started calling her dog her ‘baby,’ and referred to me as the dog’s ‘daddy.’ I hit the road, knowing the longer I stayed, the more ‘children’ I’d have to support and rent I’d have to pay.”

6. She “doesn’t give blowjobs.”
What does this mean exactly? Like she doesn’t give head, ever? We don’t get it.

The Story: “I once dated this chick who stopped blowing me after a few months because she ‘didn’t like the taste.’ No offense, but that labyrinth you call your vagina doesn’t taste like sweet, delicious candy. If you don’t want to drop to your knees anymore, you probably shouldn’t expect me to have any more dinners at the Y.”

7. She has a record of dating jerks.
Girls with sketchy dating histories, particularly those who have subjected themselves to serious degradation in multiple relationships, present some major red flags. No, you’re not going to save her; you’ll just end up being the nice guy she once dated.

The Story: “Shortly into a relationship a girl told me that she had had a number of shitty boyfriends, among them a guy who used to make her do push ups and ab exercises every night to keep a lean figure. I obviously laughed when she told me this but seriously, what girl allows herself to be treated so poorly? The answer: the type of girl that, one week post break-up, calls at 3 AM hysterically crying and looking for consolation because the condom worn by some random dude she just met at a bar broke during intercourse. Needless to say, I was glad she was no longer my problem.”

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The other day there was a hail storm of comments on my blog post, the educated black woman doesn’t get enough sex. It seems like for the first time I have to clarify exactly what I mean. Not because I was wrong, I feel like I’m 100% right, but rather because the the inability for smart black women to open their minds. Allow me to explain.

We all know that its hard for people to find someone who will truly treat them right, but I feel like there is a lot of truth to what I wrote, but you must understand I use humor and sex to make a point. It may be extreme, but in SOME cases its very true. While it may not fit to all, it definitely fits to a lot of women in corporate america. For example I wrote ” successful black woman aren’t made of sugar and spice and everything nice. They have some evil in them.” If any of you women who objected to this statement will sit here and tell me that, Black woman have it easy in the world I might Chris Brown you and make a youtube apology in a blue bow tie and funny looking orange shirt. Black women have to work 100 times harder than their counterparts for less pay, while doing double the work. So in most cases finding time for love is very hard. Especially when all most men want to do is high five a vagina with their penis. So instead of taking the risk to get to know someone they ignore people and may miss a chance to find love.

Also in the comment sections I explained that more women should build their men up, instead of hoping to find a successful black man to match their success. One reader ever wrote “Why must a woman help you build your career to me that sounds like a lack of ambition and drive. BE A MAN. make your own way and for alot of black men they dont want to reach a education black womans expectations because they consider it too high to NOT HAVE BABYMOMAS, value family in the true sense, have a education (or be cultured) and to have your own good income and things..if black women can go out here and be educated,smart,have their own, and not feed into this recent black phenomena of baby mama culture, then of course we are gonna expect the same of out our men…black men need to get it together!”

First off this is why a lot BLACK women successful or not will never find a good man b/c they refuse to help each other out. Love is about helping one another, sharing and making the person you love better. It should be an equal partnership regardless of who makes more money. If the guy makes more money the wouldn’t should still be an equal partner in the relationship. Whether it’s cooking or cleaning or giving the man some he considers valuable. It could simply be her time, but still. Same goes for a man, if a man doesn’t make as much as his woman he should provide her w/ something she considers valuable. Be it his protection, cooking cleaning taking out the trash! Whatever. Also when you’re in a relationship shouldn’t we help each other out in every aspect of our lives if we can? If I know my wife is a painter and I come across someone who paints, I’m gonna recommend my wife. If she works customer service and I hear of another job paying more w/ a better opportunity I’m going to let her know.

It would appear that some women & men would just sit there and do nothing b/c their boo didn’t go out and get it them self. I have seen this happen before couples together and neither one of them are making each other better. I feel like couples like this are DOOMED!

Also the article stated some things about being a baby momma. No one ever said women should ONLY be baby momma’s what I tried to say is that women shouldn’t let their fears or value of their beings to be more than a baby momma get in the way of them finding love. We should place our heart higher on our to do list. We should cherish love and respect it, and if you get a little nookie along the way so be it. More Vehicular Feliatio for all. That doesn’t mean to get a guy you have to suck him off while he’s driving the car. It means that you shouldn’t feel like you’re too good to do certain things b/c of your status or b/c you’re a lady with class!

I feel like a lot of times women are too hard on them selves w/ these standards and rules for who they will and will not be with, talk to or give their number too. Who knows the guy who works at Micky D’s today could be the next CEO of the company. Don’t cut off someone on the path to greatness before they get great. Last year I was homeless, this year I’m in a much better situation, able to go where ever, whenever, I want when I want. Able to say hey I’ll pay your rent momma, alright sis, I’ll pay your phone bill, pay child support and still buy all my friends drinks at the bar. I mean I could save the money and be selfish. But, I like going to $$$$ restaurants with a woman I may or may not sleep with, because I refuse to not allow myself to have fun. I stunt hard b/c I’m not promised tomorrow.

Xilla The Sexual Intellectual.

PS, Don’t mind the title… I just said that to get you mad!! **Ma$e voice**

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and most of them don’t get married, which is more proof to my blog about men making “hoes” their wife.

Michelle Obama may have become an archetypal African-American female success story — law career, strong marriage, happy children — but the reality is often very different for other highly educated black women.

They face a series of challenges in navigating education, career, marriage and child-bearing, dilemmas that often leave them single and childless even when they’d prefer marriage and family, according to a research study recently presented at the American Sociological Society’s annual meeting in San Francisco.

I found this article which basically states, that more men are making wives of easier, freakier and more sexually free women, or at least I like to think that is the case. We all know a lot of men think with their ’small heads’ more than they do their big heads. Take Lamar Odom for instance, he kicked it w/ Taraji Henderson and asked her to marry him, she said no! He kicked it w/ Khloe and married her in 2 weeks.

I’m sure I could end the blog here but successful black woman aren’t made of sugar and spice and everything nice. They have some evil in them. Every black female boss I ever had a mean streak. They tend to be married to their career and can’t give the man the one thing he truly needs to stroke his ego. Time. Let’s not forget that men are the new women and things change.  Fact is “marriage chances for highly educated black women have declined over time relative to white women.” Mainly because these successful black women don’t wanna be baby mamas. So not only are they single, they are also childless, and die that way.

I found that they feel like I’ll do these “freaky” things to my man, and they don’t get enough practice at them or they feel like things like vehicular fellatio are beneath them. Of course it is, because she’s a lady. Meanwhile chicks all over the globe are doing more things quicker, faster and better. Most men will take a woman w/ the bedroom skills of a porn star over a novice with clout at her job. An OG broke it down to me like this: If you get offered 2 jobs, one w/ benefits and one without which one are you going to take? On the flip side, if you got to hire one person, and one of them already has the skills and the other one you’ll have to train… I mean guess who is going to get the job. Now I’ll give in to the argument that there is a such thing as being too qualified. I mean even I wouldn’t allow Karrine to suck me off, but I digress.

Maybe Black women are just too smart to get caught up in the game of giving it up and not getting called back. Maybe they are just focused. There are things more important that sex, like money and success. Yet, what I find most interesting is this:

“A greater negative reaction falls on them…” Clarke said.

African heritage is devalued compared with European or Asian heritage. African-American females, even with lots of education, do not fetch as much “value” in the marriage market.

That may be a cold way to look at love, romance, and sex, but studies dating back to the 1980s support it.

Of course if highly educated black women felt free to have children outside of marriage, they could still have a family. When some white women make that choice it is often seen as a kind of liberal empowerment.

But according to Clarke, black women are concerned about looking “ghetto.” Public interpretation of our actions matter for everyone, but especially for black women, Clarke explained. “When it comes to the issue of black women and should or should they not make a choice to have a child alone, these women are very much aware that the decision to do it makes people question their class status. We associate single unwed child bearing with poor African-American women.”

And Just in case you were wondering about successful Black men.

Highly educated black men tend to “outmarry” (marry outside race, religion or ethnicity) at a higher rate than black women, researchers say. Think of Harvard professor Henry Louis Gates or Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas. Both married white women.

SOURCE: MSNBC

Rihanna’s 20/20 interview was arguably the most entertaining thing I’ve seen on television in 8 months. I think the world will agree w/ because as ABC took the ratings crown for the 10pm hour as an amazing 8.1 million people tuned in to watch Rihanna tell her side of the story.  I was mesmerized by her story as she said. “No. Did not hit him”.  Many opinions have been formed about the interview, but last night while looking at some hot pics of Mila Kunis I stumbled on to a Rihanna interview that many have forgotten about.

In an interview w/ Complex Rihanna reveals

Did you see 300?
Rihanna: [Deadly serious.] 300 is one of the best movies I have ever seen. The choreography, the fighting, the costumes, the production—phenomenal. I make everybody watch it.
So you didn’t think it was too violent.
Rihanna: Oh, not at all. That was the good part. I’m the oldest child with two brothers. We talk all the time now, but we used to fight—and when I say “fight,” I don’t mean arguments, I mean physically fight.
Who won?
Rihanna: I hit the older one in his face with a glass bottle.
Bokkle dem! Whoa. Remind me not to piss you off.
Rihanna: Yeah, my mom was pretty upset.

I’m just saying. I totally agree w/ Rihanna when she said nothing gives a man the right to hit a woman. Nothing in the world. I just hope both Chris and Rihanna can move on w’ their lives and be as successful as the Almighty will allow them to be.

The reviews are mixed from Rihanna’s interview. Personally I felt like she said things that would rip the heart out of a man in love, but my opinion isn’t important now. Mainstream America loved her interview. They felt as if it was a defining moment of power for women going through and who have been through abuse. I would agree. Yet I also agree w/ Urban America who feels like she might not have been telling the whole truth. EW reports.

Speaking to Diane Sawyer, Rihanna said of Brown’s remorse afterward, “He’d say, ‘You hate me, don’t you?’ and I would lie and say, ‘No.’”

That was a chilling moment, one among many. Sawyer showed Rihanna online videos of people — fans? — saying that she must have provoked Brown. Sawyer paraphrased their sentiments: “They say, ‘Did she bait him? Rile him?’” 

Rihanna said bluntly of such questions, “It’s ignorance.”

Demonstrating a maturity and thoughtfulness about her experience, Rihanna noted, “With fame comes a lot of things, and the most dangerous is freedom… no boundaries.”

At the same time, she said that when she’s shown the pictures of her battered face from that night, “I get very ashamed, angry… embarrassed… You start lying to yourself, blaming yourself… I didn’t want people looking at me. I felt really lonely.”

She claimed never to have heard the song Brown supposedly recorded for her called “Changed Man.” When Sawyer showed her the internet apology Brown issued and asked the singer’s reaction, Rihanna said simply, “It sounds like he might be reading off a teleprompter… I don’t know if he understood the extent of what he did.”

That line right there would destroy even a sane man. For a man to pour his heart out and the only thing that could be said is he might be reading… Ether. I know someone pulled a Joe Wilson and shouted “You Lie”

What are you thoughts on the Chrihanna Interviews?

Yall already know how I feel about slim women, so I want to take this time to recognize one of the baddest slim women in the game for a remarkable accomplishment. Jessica White for her 7th time being in the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue. That’s the most ever, more than any other model to ever be featured in the magazine’s signature series. Check out this awesome interview w/ Jessica White. THE top African American MODEL in the game. 

What was your reaction to getting into the Swimsuit Issue?
I was 18-years-old and I started screaming. My agent called and said Sports Illustrated had confirmed me. The very first time I saw Diane Smith I was 14 years old and she was excited about putting me in the magazine and then she asked me a very interesting question. She asked me how old I was. I said that I was 14, but I had a body to die for, to be honest with you and I developed at a very quick age. And she said, ‘Oh, my goodness, you’re only 14?!’ She called my agent and said I love this girl and she’s perfect for us but she’s only 14 so tell her to grow up and when she’s 18 we’ll give her a call and that is exactly what she did.

She remembered and she called me when I was 18, and that was the beginning of my long stretch with Sports Illustrated. It’s still special and distinctly unique each time I get the call. To be honest with you, being in Sports Illustrated made me famous. Once that happened I started to break some barriers. They’ve used African-American girls but no woman of color has been in the magazine for as long as I have. I learned so much more about my body and I really started to perfect my skills as a model working with Sports Illustrated.

Happiness is…
I don’t believe in happiness. Happiness is what’s happening around you. Happiness comes from what happens around you. In life, not everything that happens to you is going to be great or something you necessarily want. I’m a Christian and as long as I’m waking up and praying and have a positive attitude, that gives me joy. God gives me joy. I believe in joy and joy is something that only God can give you but happiness is what’s happening around you and that’s temporary.

What makes you feel sexy?
I feel sexy when I get my hair done and when I’m home by myself and lighting candles after I get out of the bathtub. I put on lingerie and relax. I don’t do those things for men, I do them for myself and I think that’s what we as women have to do. We have to love ourselves first. I honestly wear lingerie around the house for myself and I get out of bathtub and lotion up and I get turned on just by smelling myself.

Who is your dream guy?
My dad was a dream guy. Maybe I’m biased because he was my dad, but I had a great example of what a man is supposed to be and what a man is supposed to do. My dad was the epitome of a real man. He took care of his wife and he took care of his daughter and he was a provider whether he was severely sick or not. He got up and worked and provided for his family and he had a fear of God, and he was a man who loved God. My father was so knowledgeable. I would come home from school and my father would be playing Martin Luther King’s albums. He was so smart and so wise. He had this big study with all these books from philosophers and inspirational speakers. My father was a preacher and he was knowledgeable of all things. He didn’t have a high school diploma but my father home schooled himself. He could stand in front of Barack Obama and teach him a few things. He was so intelligent, and his name is Preston White, and he’s my ideal man.

Do real guys have a shot?
Definitely, I actually have a crush on a regular, normal guy at the moment. What attracts me to this guy is the fact that he’s successful in his own right and he’s not on TV, and he doesn’t have to be and doesn’t want to be. He is very powerful and smart and young. He’s only 29 years old. I’m going out on a limb even talking about this. We’re not dating it’s just some guy that I sit back and admire and I’m completely, completely attracted to him, and he knows who he is, too.

If you had to play matchmaker for a day, what celebrities would you pair up?
I would have to say myself and James Franco. I think that would be a nice.

What meal do you miss from home?
This is kind of country, but lima beans and fried chicken. If my mom makes that I’ll eat it. She makes it the best.

Every girl has her dating checklist. What are your top three deal breakers when dating?
I don’t like it when a guy is overly confident, conceited, pretentious, talks about himself way too much and is boastful. I don’t like a guy who is too boastful and arrogant. That’s a huge turnoff for me. I’m a very humble person and I think that’s the most important thing. The most attractive thing in the world is someone who is confident and successful but really humble.

What is your most memorable first?
The New York Post did a story on me wrote I was the first African-American model to have two beauty contracts. I never thought I would be the first to do anything in my life, and at that moment, I sat back and thought that I just broke a barrier, I made history. Another young girl can look at me and say I want to be just like Jessica White. I never thought I could do it. I came from the ghetto and trust me you never think you’re going to be the first to accomplish anything, and I was the first person to do something. Not only that, but I had agents and people tell me that it could never happen and it did. I cried and I began to thank God for that moment. I prayed that prayer to God a long time ago and he answered it when I was ready.

The world’s hottest athlete is…
Hands down, LeBron James. He’s young and I do think he’s physically attractive. I’ve met him and he’s a big guy. He’s very athletic and he’s like an entertainer, he gets on the court and he becomes this bigger-than-life person. To watch kids and grown men get excited about this guy when he steps on the court is amazing. I’m a huge fan.

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I was having a conversation with my homegirl about what is wife material. It was a very interesting conversation, she believes that Amber Rose is not wife material. She explained that Amber isn’t the type of woman that comes to mind when a man wants to settle down . Me on the other hand, believes that Amber could certainly be wife material. So to settle this debate I decided to bring this up on my blog. Here is what I came up with.

I had to ask myself does a man really want a woman with a clean slate? I remember my boy Modi over at DCtoBC had a post where all the men were talking about how a particular chick has been around the block and had a lot of miles on her, but I thought, so what? Would I really want settle with a woman I would have to train to f*ck me right? No, I want a girl who is going to do things to me that I’d be ashamed to tell my momma! Things that will make even me blush, and I openly eat p*ssy until I burp. 

Back to Amber, my homegirl stated that Amber is publicly known to eat the puss too, and that she has booty pics all over the internet that are easily googleable. My answer to that is Yeah AND! Every woman I’ve ever been w/ has sent me naked pics to my phone. I firmly believe all woman have them, its just a matter of who has seen them. Honestly I like my freakiness sexual intellectualism right out in the open for all to see. I wouldn’t mind if my woman was sexually free. Wouldn’t bother me one bit, if we have that understanding. Or if that is what I was looking for. We all want different things and some people are more comfortable with stuff than others. 

I say all of that to say this, sure you can wife a sexually free you just need a few things to make it happen.

• Be secure. In order to wife a sexually free chick you have to be secure in yourself. You can’t accuse them of cheating or even care if they cheat. For one it won’t happen. If you handle things like an adult a healthy relationship can form.
• Set Rules. This isn’t a conventual relationship, you would have to set boundaries and rules. So figure out what you like and what you don’t like and make it work. You can do anything if you’re willing to deal w/ the reality of the matter. 
• Stay Open. Nothing is ever set in stone, you have to be open to things changing and things not being normal. If you can do that a relationship can work. 
• Don’t Care. If the woman he’s trying to date is really free, he’ll run the chance of hearing a few horror stories about the things she did. Maybe she sucked a few dudes off at once, maybe got caught giving head on a pier, or maybe the entire high school football team ran through her while she laid on red plastic cups on the bed in the kicker’s dorm. Needless to say he’ll hear stories. That was in the past. We all have skeletons in our closet, and our past mistakes are no reason not to love someone NOW. 
• Business. It’s none of your business. Remember that and never forget it. 
• Be A Man. The reason most loose women are… loose is because they can’t find a man to make them want to settle down. If a woman loves a guy she loves him, and regardless of who or what she is she’ll be loyal to him. 
• Check The Time. Most importantly the time has to be right, you can’t wife a “sexually free” woman when she’s not ready to be settle. It’s like a rodeo, some of those heifers are just not ready to be rode and steered into the pasture. Some of them just can’t be broken. When she’s ready to settle down she’ll settle and you can’t force her that’s why other rules are so important.

At the end of the day it’s to each it’s own. I believe all women deserve love and deserve to be married if that’s what they want. Yet my friend hit me with something that sorta killed my whole argument. She said who’s to say Beyonce doesn’t do all the freak ish Amber Rose does, you just don’t know about it because it’s not all out in the open. She’s right, but again I believe so what if it is… I would rather be w/ a woman who shits in the streets and stands by it proudly with a sign that say look world this is my pile of crap and I’m proud of it.