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Last night while doing my nightly rounds on the internet I came across an article that I feel all women should read. A new study has found that women have are sexual satisfied are happier and sex can improve a woman’s well being regardless of age. The article reports:

Women’s most common complaints involve sexual desire and interest, as well as pleasure and satisfaction, the researchers say. The problems are often attributed to women’s busy schedules (and so sex becomes another “task”); discontent with their own bodies; unwillingness to ask for what they want in bed; and other factors. At the end of the day, some women just settle for mediocre sex.

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Every now and then I have to stop, and pull myself away from a situation and actually think about how could this possibly make sense to a female. When I do this, my brain pops out of my head, like toast out a toaster, hits the floor and melts into pizza cheese. The other day I watch a video by @LadyW87, and her dude had his peen out, and said why not just do it and she answers “Because I Like You!” WTF! This happens to me very often and it’s the dumbest thing I ever heard in my life. 

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Quote of the Day: for the sake of some little mouthful of flesh, we deprive a soul of the sun and light and of that proportion of life and time it had been born into the world to enjoy.

I got a sweet tooth for you girl I’m tempted to taste. I can’t wait to drink your milk You’re looking like a big ole piece of cake. There is a fundamental mistake made by men all over the world, and it give us good oral guys a bad name when we get in a mood like I am in today.

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A few of my followers on twitter, including MissMedidijah, believe that having sex in front of a infant child is disrespectful to yourself and the child, but is that really the case?

Tasha was a single mother, about her business. She worked at a decent job, had her own car, and struggled to make ends meet. Despite not being rich she didn’t need a man for anything else but companionship. As many of you know it’s hard for single mothers to find love.

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What’s the big deal with prostitution?

I only ask because I don’t know why I would ever concern myself with what one does with her body, or his money, or vice versa. But the age old double standard is: judge the prostitute, and not the customer. People either dislike prostitution because its one, illegal or two, socially frowned on. Whether you find them on a corner, a strip club or posing as a “real estate agent”, there is a sexual double standard for promiscuous women.

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Last week I got an email from a new reader who has a problem. Read her letter and check out my response under the cut. I also asked R&B Singer Olivia about this situation, you can check out what she had to say and leave your opinion in the comment section.

Dear Xilla,

I am new to your blog and I think it is GREAT!!! You are talking about things that most adults are afraid to talk about. I have a question for you. The guy I am currently dating and I are both in our early 30’s. He performed oral sex on me and when I came I squirted (or as he puts it gushed) all over his face and now I am afraid to do anything else with him.

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I know a lot of guys who won’t kiss a girl after they go down on them. I know even more girls who will go down on a guy, and won’t kiss them, AT ALL. Is kissing more intimate than head? Or should I say is kissing a better privilege than head?

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While all the other blogs will give you coverage of the celebs on the red carpet and sitting in their chairs watching the actual awards show. I will attempt to bring you more. The celebs came out to show support to Atlanta’s shoe models who work at Magic City, one of the best gentlemen’s clubs in the world. Jim Jones, Terrance J, Toya and Big Kuntry King were among a few of the names to witness the festivities at the city of magic. Inside the blog you’ll see Jim Jones making it rain, lap dances and Toya rocking the mic. Enjoy

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