3 Awe-Inspiring Sex Tips For When It’s Been A While

A couple of days ago I got an email from a young lady, who wasn’t so experienced in being a sexual intellectual. Her boyfriend in coming home for the holidays and she wants to put it on him. So I decided to drum up a few scenarios for her.

Xilla,

Hi! I am a regular on your site and I’ve read your advice on certain topics so I was wondering if you could help me out. I am dating this guy and really like him…no, I love him and he’s in Iraq. He’s been gone for about 6 months and will be back at the end of January for 2 weeks and then he’ll go back to Iraq. I am 24 and before he left we had sex and it was my first time (yes I was a 24 year old virgin…so shoot me!) And I was really nervous, confused, scared etc. I want to make our sessions special when he gets back so do you have any advice or suggestions for me since I’m new to this?

Yours Truly,

The Army Boo

Dear Army Boo,

The best thing you can do is to let go of your fears, and try some things out. The fact that you are willing to try will bring the two of you closer together. Here are some ideas.

Road Head - When you pick him up from the airport, let him drive home. While he’s driving pull out his penis, get it rock in your hands and then put it in your mouth. This is something that I want whenever I am in the car, but it just doesn’t happen for me often. Mainly because I live in NY and don’t drive, but it’s still something I want ALL THE TIME.

Submit - The easiest thing for you is to simply submit. As soon as the two of you walk in the door, give him a passionate kiss and tell him to do whatever he wants to do to you. I mean whatever. Anything. Remove no from your vocabulary. If he wants you to do cartwheels, do it, if he wants to have sex on the hood of the car, do it. If he wants to pour syrup on your, dress you in his military boots, do the dance from Cadence and put it in ever single hole in your body… let him. Simply let him have his way w/ you. This way you can just go w/ the flow and he’ll have the time of his life.

Take Control - I’ll admit I don’t know much about the military, but one thing I have noticed is that they all travel in their uniforms. When you get him home, demand him to have sex w/ you in his uniform. Tell her it’s a direct order. Sure it’s corny but I’m sure he’ll get a kick out of it. Make sure you remain in charge, and this way you have your way w/ him. Do all the things you always wanted to try. Click the Sex Tab at the top of the site and try a bunch of things I have written about before. If not, I do have a blog titled 40 Things To Try Before The New Year

Xilla