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The Player, Freak, Sexual Intellectual & Sl*t… Which One Are You
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 15. Dec, 2009
Photo by Julian Ribinik
When you love sex there are a lot of titles you can claim. You can be a freak, player a sexual intellectual or an outright slut. Now keep in mind a man can never be a slut, only women can. Ladies, before you get your panties in a bunch, again, let’s breakdown the many titles of people who love sex.
The Player:
- The player is the most skillful title of them all, and yet one of the worst. It takes true skill for a man to be a player. He has to dress nice, buy nice things, be charming and he has to perform in the bedroom. It takes a lot of skills for some men to be players. You have ugly players who bag the finest women. Mostly do to money, cars and some superhuman charm to swoon the ladies out of their panties. Most women aren’t giving up the cookies super easy but the player gets more cookies than Cookie Monster. SKILL.
The Freak:
- The freak has lost a lot of allure over the years. Now I’ll even say that freak is simply a code word for are we having sex soon. Most freaks are copycats, if rappers talk about love in the club, the freak is willing to try it. If the freak gets into a relationship than she’s willing to try anything her man will ask, not because she loves it, but simply because she’s got to be a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed. You hear it all the time, I’m a freak for my… Or they’ll say something like “I’m only going down on my man” Pathetic if you ask me. I mean don’t get me wrong I like freaks, but nowadays being a freak means, she’ll swallow after 6 months to a year, she’ll do anal about 4 times a year and you may give some road head if she’s in the mood. It’s a sexual relationship of whatever is hot at the moment. BAHUMBUG!
The Sexual Intellectual
- The sexual intellectual is all about better sex, a better life and a better way of thinking. This person is open minded and obsessed with being better in the bedroom. They like sex and everything about it. Yet they use discretion, condoms, they get to know people before they hop in the bed with them and they are sort of exclusive when it comes to who they’ll get “intellectual” with. They want their sexual experience to be all-inclusive, it’s a mind f*ck, and a f*ck that will leave every inch of the body stimulated. If they don’t know how to do something, they will do their research and learn a bag full of new tricks. They read blogs, google sex acts, inquire and learn things that make them better in bed. The best part about the sexual intellectual is that they do these things because they love it. If they try it, and don’t like it, they won’t do it again. They know what they want, how they want it and when they want it.
The Slut
- Now we hear the word slut, and we immediately get turned off, but I like sluts. See the slut is totally addicted to sex. When they go down, they do it b/c they absolutely must taste the male sex organ on their taste buds. When they take it up the booty, they do it because they love the feeling of getting pipe in their exit hole. There is no discretion with the slut, she needs it and she’ll have it, no matter whom, what where or when. Two girls not a problem, two men, they don’t even bat an eye.
Now I know a lot of ladies are thinking that why can’t a man be a slut because, I’m sure you know men who will sleep with anything with a hole between their legs, but here’s why only women can be sluts. Because being a slut takes no skill, no effort and no thought. We have ugly sluts, fat sluts, and dirty sluts, clean sluts, midget sluts and cripple sluts. All a slut has to do is find a guy willing to stick something in her and bam she’s in business. A guy on the other hand if she’s not a player his penis will be dryer than a wool sweater after it’s been in the dryer for 12 hours. Unless he pays a whore, then he’ll just be a trick.
Despite the negative to these titles each one is needed. The world would self-destruct if we didn’t have these people to make the world go around. Simply know your role and be who you are.
I could add more to this blog, but we need something to talk about, now don’t we. What’s your definition of these titles? Which one are you?
All I can do is laugh at this. You are way funny, keep them coming.
Sexual Intellectual….think I went through the freak stage a few years ago after I broke off my engagement. I was wildin out…lol. The Thought of marrying the wrong man & doing it at 22 scared the shit out of me. You grow up…
I’m going to definitely have to say that I am a freak, and have met wanna be players before. Soemtimes you can meet your match in the bedroom but then the question is can he be the one for you or only his performance in bed?
I’d have to say I’m the sexual intellecual, however I am selective of who I have sex with and not everything should be tried with everyone. I love sex and trying new things, but to me sex is more mental than anything. I’m really deep when it comes to sex, sex is just beautiful, and alot of people are not mentally compatible when sex is the topic.
@ Tee I feel you sex is very mental.
@riri I knew you where a freak!!!! Lmao
At first as I was reading I thought Freak, but when I got to the Sexual Intellectual it was dead on b/c I know I read Cosmo and this blog probably a little too much. Oh well
Shouldnt there be a description for a man between intellectual and freak?
@Tee I couldn’t agree with you more.
I feel like I’m the sexual intellectual because when it’s something new I want to try, I actually do research it. I read this blog and different magazines for new tricks and tips and I’m not giving myself to every man I come in contact with. For the most part, when I decide to have sex with someone, I’d have to have some kind of mutual connection and understanding with them. Now I’m not gonna lie, sometimes I DO have my freak moments..but those are just whims lol. I’m a sexual intellectual most of the time!
i could say that i am the sexual intellectual b/c i love to learn new things so 9 times out of 10 i would be reading something about sex (have to check here everyday or every other day for new tips!! Thanks 4 the tips! they work great!) or something new to do….
SMH at all these sluts in denial. Everybody thinks they’re a sexual intellectual now. LOL.
Shots fired!! @Juli so what you’re saying is that we are all sluts at the end of the day?
Not at all, Xilla. I do believe, however, that being an authentic sexual intellectual takes more than just reading a magazine article or a blog. Sluts can learn new positions, too. None of these self-described sexual intellectuals sound convincing. I wonder what categories their sexual partners would put them in.
this was great.. I also think people can change titles from time to time or evolve so to speak lol.
I think I’m “The Sexual Intellectual” I’m still a virgin so I’m just on the getting to know things stage. I try to read up and ask alot of questions so when I’m ready to have sex, I will atleast know some things. I like to be prepared.
I’m w Juli
And I hate labels..but lemme digress because labels are necessary for emphasis and description.
There are more gray areas in this post though. I think the freak title meshes too much with the sexual intellect. I dunno tho…
I enjoyed this read, and I KNEW that every female would pick the best most well liked description
I have been all of the above. Depends on where Im at in my life. Ive been the slut and loved the abandonment of not having strings attatched to my pussy. Ive been the freak when Ive had 6 to many.Ive been the sexual intellectual and learned from all my sexual personalities experiences. I for 1 cant learn shit about sex from no mag or no book. You get ya lessons from hands on experiences.
O I forgot 1. Ive been the player. Exibit A. I use to have parties back in the day at my crib. I use to invite a few of the guys I was seeing because I never knew who I was gonna feel like at the end of the nite. At the end of the party I would select who I wanted to stay (MISS YOU OMAR!!!). All of them knew what the deal was they would pout but i made it aight lata. Was just the PLAYA in me.
Cool, you liked my photo
I would have to agree. Sex is very mental. Cause its plenty of times where I had to think of screwing someone else to get a nut.
A combination of them all. No way to just be one without being the other.
Freaks take care of the feet because you never know when a nigga might wana suck on somethin…sluts on the other hand just want the dick and don’t give a fuck.
I’ma little of all 3 it depends on the person and where I see us going. Slut, sexual intellect, and a freak….
I’m a sexual intellectual and a VIRGIN…..yes, I said it!!!
Some sluts think they are better than me becos they sleep with men indiscriminately and think they have more ‘experience’.
In reality I can’t wait to have sex, just waiting from the right person. I have been researching sex for years, I could give you sluts lessons. 10 years in the making, I practically have a PHd. I studied books, I’ve googled, I read blogs, damn I took it right back and learnt about tantric sex/ancient indian karma sutra.
My future husband is not going to know what hit him. 10 years of pentup sexual frustration……that’s a lot of f**king with a lot of knowledge to bak it up!