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More Women Should Bounce On Balls For The Sake Of Man Kind
Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships on 25. Nov, 2009
Model: Andrea P.
Have you ever wanted someone so bad, you mouth started to water at the mere thought of them bouncing on your balls, holding your hand or running their fingers through your hair? Maybe the two of you met at a party while a Jay-Z song was on, or maybe the two of you met while you were eating plantains and collard greens, months ago, but your attraction to them has never faded. Should you still put a time line on when the two of you end up in bed?
Some women take weeks and even months before they decide to sleep with a man, even though they know from the jump that the guy can get it. They talk to their girls about how much he turns them on and all of the things they like yet, they still take their time actually hopping into the bed. Some women put too much emotion into simply things and when sex is involved… Forget it they get stupid. Unable to think straight for months or even years.
Now don’t get me wrong I totally understand when women proceed with caution. A friend of mine took to her facebook to let the world know her main had another baby on her and didn’t tell her until the baby got here. It really messed her head up. Men do messed up stuff, yes, but when faced with an emotional challenger, you only have two choices to act or react. If a woman allows something to bother her than it will eat her up inside like a man who eats the vagina until he burps. Maybe this type of women just shouldn’t have sex period. Ever in the history of sexual relations.
On the other hand you have women who handle their emotions well, and a guy could sleep with her mother, film it, show her the tape on the big screen on the big screen in the new Cowboy Stadium and she still wouldn’t be pissed. She’ll just cut him off, and move on with her life. There is no crying in relationship and love, and thats because you have two choices to act or react.
A woman who can control her emotions, may be the type of woman who has no timeline to when she will drop the panties and take a man inside her. Now please note, there is a big difference between a loose woman and a woman who is sexually free. You can wait 2 weeks before sex, 2 years before sex and still be a loose woman. The time you wait to have sex means nothing at all. On the flip side a woman can have sex an hour after meeting a guy and not be a whore at all. Who knows it might be her birthday. She might just wanna take a ride on the magical manxilla and whose to judge her.
While I use the extreme, a woman should be able to sleep with a guy whenever she feels the need. But, In this sexist world, men have placed negative stigmas on women to keep them from sleeping with any man other than them. Who is to say what’s right and wrong, because of what society believes? If woman take their time, and get to know a man, who cares how long it takes to have sex.
Do you put a time limit on sex? What’s the quickest you ever had sex with a guy?
i usually dont put a time limit on sex. its sort of pointless…time wont change how he feels in the outcome. guys will wait months just to hit it and still leave the chick looking silly in the end lol so i just have sex when im good and ready. i've had sex with a guy the same day i met him (so what…judge me) its not something i do often but wen im horny, the 30 day rule bullsh*t goes out the window
just being honest, not hoe-ish
Imma if it feels right and is safe then do it type of girl.
And whatever happens afterward is what's suppose to happen.
I agree… There is nothing wrong with testing the goods
If you make a man wait 3 months, 3 dates, or 3 hours, it ultimately doesn't matter really. All that means to a man, is “how hard do i have to work to get that” Naturally, if a man has to wait longer to sleep with you, he will get to know you better and feelings may grow during that time, but at the end of the day, it doesn't make a woman any more or less of a whore if she does or doesn't make him wait. I think it just lets us as woman feel better about ourselves in the morning (if we do make a man wait) I've had experiences where I slept with a man on the first date, and I have also made a man wait 3 months. The funny thing about it is, the ones who i slept with the quickest stuck around the longest….go figure! lol
Time doesn't matter!
Example # 1: I had sex with my ex 2 weeks after we exchanged number and were together for 8 years. We only broke up because he let his mom dictate how he would live his life and I was fed up by then. (Mama Boy's are an issue that need to be addressed!)
Ex #2: I met this guy and it literally took 3hrs. Mainly because his friend wouldn't leave us alone. There was just a strong attraction. We have been together for a year now. Very passionate sex sessions!
It depends on the people involved and at what point they are in their lives!
Time only matters for the purpose of the individual being comfortable with taking that step.
Set timelines are ridiculous. If you feel comfortable in two weeks you shouldn't make someone wait three months just for the sake of waiting
I normallly wait until I feel I know a man well enough and know for sure that I want to be with him relationshipwise and/or can at least tolerate him in a long term jump off situation.
I've done the quick f*ck just to get my shyt off and then haven't been able to get rid of the guy when he starts getting on my nerves & I don't wanna be bothered anymore…LOL
after taste my first Blonde, I remember cravin' for another taste. Back when I was 27 years old. a 42 year old gave me that first sweet taste!
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My aunties are always going on about respect respect respect..u should respect urself and not sleep with every guy u get with..which is tru..u shouldnt..but then again why not just give in and just dip ur hand into the cookie jar now again…i think time limits are good and bad..because a guy can respect u for not just giving it up cos he wants it up…but also he can lose patience…and that guy coulda been the one…(from london by the way, dont really know how things are like over there in the USA)…american dudes seem pretty promiscuous
hmmm it all depends on the guy and how bad i want him…when i meet him i basically analyze him in about an hour in which i decide..usually it just depends on my mood..i have had a few instances were i meet them that day and said ahhh fuck it and do it and not care if they call me the next day or not…but thats usually when im super horny..and there is an intense sexual attraction and diggin him out to see if he would jus be a waste of time… but again these kinda things happens ever so often
I asked my mo ther about this and she told me a real lady, or someone who is wife material, waits months, before she lets him taste the cookies…but ideally he shouldnt taste them at all before he makes you his official wife…
but mehhh…on usual, i wait a good while before i give, you know i give myself a chance to know that person and what there about beore i give it up
I don't have a timeline, if I'm ready and he's ready its on, I mean sometimes when you meet someone you kind of already know where they head is at when you have that convo, so why beat around the bush about it, please.
More women than I can remember have echoed the sentiments stated by Ms. Riri808. I think timelines vary depending on that womans comfort level with her own sexuality and the partner she chooses. At one point in my life I have experienced same day gratification as well as having to wait. I like your outlook Ms. Riri808. I don't believe in timelines either! Easy…
I see exactly where you are coming from HeadMistress. I agree and that is what you get for being too damned good!!!!LOL
I know, riiiiiigggghhhhtttt! LOL
Thats an individual choice. Whether you wait or not this is one man that will NOT judge you. I've had both and a timeline is not really the measure of a woman. I wouldnt use a derogatory term against any woman that chose to be with me after 1 night or 100 nights cause i dont want to be judged, ok?
I never put a time limit on sex because I know from day one if i wanna give you some or not. I dont like to play games with sex because it wont make a man like me more. The only downside is that it may make a man think less of you.
i seen the girl in the photo on maury yesterday