He’s Lying! He Don’t Love You, Here’s How You Can Tell
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Have you ever said I love you and didn’t mean it? Well I recently sat down with a man who lied about love and he’s not ashamed to say it.
“Jerry” recently emailed me to inform me that his jump off doesn’t want to jump off anymore and after a heated exchange between the two she threw the L word in his face. Saying “You were the one who always said I love you and I missed you.” Jerry laughed it off by saying neither one of us believed that. After reading his email, I sort of thought that maybe he had a point. There are signs to know if a person’s claim of love is valid or not.
1 – He Only Call For Sex - Jerry explained to me that he only called this chick when he wanted sex. This is a clear sign that someone doesn’t really love you. It’s all a game. If your phone rings late at night and if ALL the calls are about hooking up and having sex, love is probably the least bit legit.
2 – He Never Takes You Out - Jerry informed me that he and his jump off rarely went out, except for the occasional we ain’t did anything else but f*ck so we have to go out dates. I feel like you have to look at your relationship and figure out if it’s just blockbuster nights and sleezy hotels, love is probably the furthest thing going on.
3 – He Always Try To Have Sex – Jerry stated in his email that he would never go out with this girl if sex wasn’t some where in the factor, and he would try to have sex all the time. Does your man try to sex you anywhere? Is your relationship or agreement solely based on the two of you having sex? If that’s the case great, enjoy it, but know love has nothing to do w/ the two of you being together, even if you do call it making love instead of f*cking.
