Xilla & Ashley Greene’s 5 Rules Of Dating

Ashley Greene is hot, she’s the ideal snow bunny for any brother looking for one. Recently she sat down w/ Men’s Fitness to talk about some rules to dating. After reading her rule I decided to add my own flare to her rules. Enjoy.

Ashley words are in bold quotes and my words are in the block quote below

Maintain Your Independence
“I’m independent. If a guy is too clingy or needy, I actually get afraid of hurting him—and I can’t deal with that.”

Don’t be a wuss the last thing I woman wants is a man she has to baby sit. Don’t be afraid to tell her to do things and be the man in the relationship. Let her go out w/ her friends and tell her you’re going out w/ your friends. Even if she does hurt you, don’t whine about it, cool off and handle the situation like a man.

Give and You’ll Receive
“I need a guy that understands give-and-take. I can’t be the only one giving.”

Build each other into the person you want. A lot of time women like to be spoiled, they won’t even think of reaching for their wallets on a date. If you’re going to get wine’d and dined at least pop a boob in his mouth or pay the tip or half. If not pay for the 2nd date. This is a two way street, a lot of women are takers and rarely give, but it’s stupid trick men who allow this to go on. 

Be Confident
“It’s attitude that gives a guy an edge. When you walk around thinking ‘everyone wants to f— me,’ that’s what comes across. Those guys just scream sex!”

I got a big ego! See this right here is why Ashley is my kinda girl. Women like a confident man, and even if she’s with her friends or busy if you just act like you’re going to get it you’re going to get it. One thing you must remember is that you can’t be cocky. There is a fine line between confidence and cockiness. 

Silence the Beast
“I hate jealous guys! Everyone can be jealous. We all have that in us. Push the demon down or it’s going to drive the other person away.”

So what she has male friends, I know that if she came w/ me she’s going to leave with me. I’m the one knocking her walls down, not him so why can’t they be friends? Also don’t get mad over tweets, facebook comments or etc. The fact of the matter is that “jealous is a weak emotion you gotta over come that, if you’re  jealous mf’er you’re just a weak mf’er” Puff Daddy

Be Authentic
“Don’t throw petals on the floor if they have no meaning. I would rather have a fun, casual relationship than have someone pretending they’re completely in love with me.”

Be yourself. It is too hard for me to be anyone else other than who I am and beside it shows. Just because you’ve seen something in a movie or read something on a blog doesn’t mean you should try it, or at least try it word for word. If you must borrow, make it your own and make it better than ever. 

What are your 5 rules to dating  YOU?