Newsflash: Women Will Suck You Off Quicker Than They’ll Kiss You

Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships on Oct 12, 2009

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I know a lot of guys who won’t kiss a girl after they go down on them. I know even more girls who will go down on a guy, and won’t kiss them, AT ALL. Is kissing more intimate than head? Or should I say is kissing a better privilege than head?

In my travels I have came across a lot of women who absolutely won’t kiss, with tongue. I mean I understand the thought of swapping spit may gross a lot of women out, but how come a lot of the non kissers don’t mind sucking on the pee straw? (Or manxilla as we call it here) So for the last few days I have racked my mind to figure out a few reasons why people don’t kiss anymore.

A common excuse is “I don’t know where you’re mouth been.” This is true, but the idea of being more protective w/ my mouth than the manxilla is ass backwards to me. A person should love their entire body equally. Me personally, I firmly believe that once I have sex w/ a woman there isn’t much else I won’t do to her.

It could be that women are cautious about kissing because they know they have a lot of miles on their throat. Could it really be that she sucked more than baby w/ pacifiers? Could It be that more d*cks have been in her esophagus than babies named Richard in all of the delivery rooms in the world.

I think it might have more to do w/ women just not trusting the kissing skills of certain men. Kissing is a very sensual art and a terrible kiss can ruin a great thing. It can ruin a relationship, sex, and life if you’re not careful. Everyone’s mouth is not worthy of a kiss.

Are you a kisser? If so why do you like kissing? If not why don’t you like kissing?


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  • coffy
    i like kissing, but everyone can't do it right and that in itself is a huge turn off/deal breaker. Only thing I can imagine as to why a woman would go down without a kiss is b/c the guy is reallly hott & sexyy with bad breath. lol
    I agree, if you don't want to kiss the lips, don't even touch the peter. But please believe if a lady chooses to suck without a kiss on the lips, he still should be returning to favor on her other lips.
  • TheDuchess
    Xilla,
    That is ass backwards! Retarded thinking if you ask me.. If I am NOT kissing you, I am NOT sucking your pecker either!
  • peen is cleaner than the mouth - I'll just stop right there - because ur shit will be blown up about this topic right here
  • word? Is the peen really cleaner than the mouth? I hear a lot of people say that though... hmmm Research time.
  • HeadMistress
    I don't know about cleaner, guess it depends on whose peen it is...LOL

    But the human mouth is a very dirty place - "they" say human bites are worse than dog bites...bacteria-wise that is
  • I agree with Duchess thats the dumbest shit I've ever heard...sounds like something only a cumbucket would say
  • I'm willing to put money on the fact that a few chicks you know have sucked a peen and not kissed a dude! Big Money at that! lol NOASSBACKWARDSNESS!
  • I'm willing to bet you are probably right which is why I dont eat/drink after NOBODY...
  • See, now...that's just NARSTY! Why would I suck ya thingamijig but not kiss you? If I have doubts about your oral hygiene, the rest of you prolly isn't too much better...#FAIL.
  • TheDuchess
    I AGREE!!
  • sounds like a blog I did last week or so about how important kissing is? I don't know how women rather give brain than kiss, but it's clearly because they think kissing is more intimate. no matter how dumb that is.
  • I am a straight up kisser...Kissing for me is my best and hottest spot to get me ready...if you cant kiss, even with tongue, then its going to take more work from you to make the kitty purr, if you know what i mean...and i would not go down if you cant kiss like you know what you are doing...
  • TeeBaby
    I think it's all about intimacy. However, to go down on someone & not kiss them is ass backwards! I will NOT give head to a guy that I'm not dating...period! That is VERY intimate to me & reserved for someone special. I know alot of dudes who will not kiss a woman unless they're dating her, and alot of women who don't like kissing, but that's because they (or the guy) don't know how. I love kissing & you won't even get the nookie from me w/o kissing. To me kissing is like the icing on the cake. I do it before, during, and after.
  • klearlykomplicated
    I most definitely agree that a bad kiss can ruin a moment (especially a really good one), but the possiblity of a bad kiss is NEVER a reason to suck a guy off. (Like Xilla said, it's ass backwards) I don't know where a man's d*ck has been or who it has been in, neither do I know where a man's mouth has been or who's lady part (or manxilla) it has been on. Honestly, I'd rather kiss a man than to give him a "piece of my mind" But to each is own...ass backwards or not.
  • halleb
    I'm 21 a female and don't know how to kiss I had a bad experience and always been shy about it I don't wanna do it wrong I have had a good kiss but still won't kiss a person because I don't wanna mess up
  • LuxxeKitty
    I value my mouth. Matter of fact I think it should be insured. Shit. I KNOW it should be insured. If I'm sharing my mouth with you, let alone my body, you should feel special. Period. With a Member's Only Jacket.

    While I totally agree that kissing is extremely intimate. Maybe moreso than a lil studio work, but I can't see humming on the mic w/o connecting with the engineer, so to speak. That's why you should be a lil familiar with the studio before using the equipment. imjustsayin
  • looooooove kissing !! its waaaaaaaaaaay more intimate than anything else. kissing gets everything flowing (for me)
  • ShesTheGoodOne
    not a kisser the thought of spit from someone's mouth to mine has always disgusted me--not only spit from kissing though..spit on tha ground, hearing someone spit all that lol makes me wanna hurl--but i will watch kissing scenes on movies & porn lol im just not a kisser
  • nynikki
    I am a kisser and loved being kissed. When it's good it's great foreplay. The down side is I can count on one hand the number of times I've been well-kissed. It's a skill that a lot of men don't bother to develop.

    I agree with you Xilla, once you've had sex with someone there are no degrees of physical intimacy anymore; you're "all in".
  • cruella_D
    thats so true 4 me because men really do have a better chance gettin head than kissing me. kissing is wayyyy too intimate to be doing it with just anyone (not sayin that oral isnt intimate though).
    at the end of everything kissing is for sum1 u truly love and sex sometimes is just sex...just how i c it
  • ms. jai
    kissing is better and WAY safer
  • Short, Loud and Opinionated
    first off, i would just like to say i love your site blogxilla. =)
    now on to the topic, i'm definitely not a kisser. i just don't like
    period. the reason behind this is probably a combo of two things.
    1. my ex used to just slobber all over me and it was awful. i hated it.
    2. i just don't like having people in my face. if there is one thing that
    i can't not stand, it's having people in my face. that's just a no-no.
  • riri808
    I am definitely a kisser, being kissed the right way can really turn me on, not saying I go and kiss every guy I know. But for instance, I had a friend with benefits and we just do our thing and go on our way. One day I asked him why don't he kiss me and he said that he doesn't want to say my name at night in his dreams. You know what it totally makes alot of sense, once kissing is involved its like another level and it leads to attachments.
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