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It doesn't necessarily mean she gives head. I honestly believe all women do at one point or another OR she wont have a man... better yet KEEP a man. lol. Does it mean they're better? Not at all. I had a tongue ring and removed it bc I was tried of ppl thinking I was promiscuous. I got it when I wasn't even sexually active just bc I wanted. I never had intentions on pleasing a man OR woman with it. However, I've come to realize that when a man has his tongue pierced he's down to do the do... first date type ish.

Exactly a tongue ring isn't about fashion it's about sex. It's like wearing a cop uniform and walking the street saying you're not a cop.

Exactly. & since I was young when I got it (just hit 18) I took it out when I started getting that feedbacc. However, I don't think alot of ppl get it for that and a lot of ppl LOOK at it like that. That's like the whole "pierce ur left ear or right ear then ur gay" thing... at the end of all of it, did it really mean dude was swinging both ways? no. Nor was it done specifically to show ones sexual preferences. (or maybe it was for some) ...I think alot of women get their tongue pierced just like they get their lip, eyebrow or nose pierced - u get tired of ear piercings.

See, Xilla, you had to go there! LOL!

I had my tongue pierced a gazillion years ago and it had nothing to do with enhancing oral sex. It was a fashion statement. But I did get a little backlash because people thought that I give a lot of oral. This falls in the same category as when someone got their nose pierced on either nostril and if it meant that they were gay.

Now If a guy got his tongue (or anything else like nipples, navel or eyebrow) pierced, then I would have issues with that. A guy told me he almost had his bottom lip pierced. Hmmmmm.......

It's not a fashion statement. Women say that but it's not.

I had one for 5yrs. I was thinking of getting it again. I got it when I was 18 & wasnt doing anything sexually (wanted it because my BFF at the time got hers done) but I enjoyed playing with it & flipping it around. A boyfriend Ihad at the time suggest I removed it & I did. now I want it back lol

I love how they look but at the end if the day it's really no difference in the feeling of the sucking. You should het one though.

nope...NEXT

are all dudes gay that get them..NOPE...but it just don't look right

LOL, maybe. I'm at a more "structured" job now. Might not look right flicking around in meetings & what not.

ive had my tongue pierced for 2 years now and i did NOT get it to give oral. i got it cuz i wanted it. yea lots of guys thought i got it so i could give head and tried me.. all have failed. ive only done oral twice and that was only a couple weeks ago.. and that was only to get it up so i could get some..

I have had mine for 2 year now and I can honestly say that the reason for me was so that I would stop chewing gum and because I wanted to rebel against everyone getting their belly pierced (still not something I wanna get done).
I am about 99.9% sure I don't give head more than in other girl and if any I give a lot less because having this piercing. It can attract germs of all kinds if not properly cleaned and taken care of.
I just don't see how people label a guy gay for having his tongue pierced because the first three that went down on me had theirs done so it was something I prefer to this day. I can see how it could be labeled as gay but I always think if a many has one he is thinking of the ladies pleasure before his own.

But hey I am only 20 and I have much more to learn, see, and do

Not for nothing, I saw an older guy (when I say older, I mean like mid to late 50's)

As he was talking I was looking at him and it looked like he had a tick-tac in the middle of his tongue. But it wasn't getting smaller so I realized it was a tongue ring.

I was thrown off but I figured he got it when he was younger. At least thts what I'm hoping! But then why wouldn't he have let it close up as he got older b/c it was NOT attractive lol. But I'm sure he uses it to get laid lol.

I would never get a tongue ring, I think it'll be setting me up to be put into a box and I don't like being in a box ;)

I would never get a tongue ring, I think it'll be setting me up to be put into a box and I don't like being in a box ;)<-- I agree!!

I frankly think they are unsanitary..

I was going to say how unsanitary it was b/c the mouth is the dirtiest place. Even tho we supposed to brush 3 times a day some ppl only does it once a day lol. And I don't want a guy w/ a tongue ring putting tht festering germ hole in my Nikki ;) lol.

You are too funny! This girl I worked with had a tongue ring and her breath was ALWAYS foul - this guy told me it was because of the tongue ring, I didn't really give much thought or credit to what he said but then for whatever reason she took it out and her bad breath problem went away...maybe just coincidence *shrugs*

Hahahha thts not just a coincidence lol. Its makes sense though. If ppl have to brush their teeth, brush their tongue and floss to keep their mouth clean, fresh and odorless then wht is used to clean a hole in the center of their tongue lol.
Thnkin about it is just nasty. Can u imagine the type of food tht gets stuck in it...yuck.

there is a solution that you use when you get a tongue ring called oxy-somthing. It's in drugstores and walmart. anyway that is what you would use or you can use listerine to clean also

I don't necessarily think that statement is true, I pierced my tongue @ the sweet age of 17...lls I wasnt nearly as interested in sex or giving head for that matter...poor tongue ring never got to live its full life...now if I had one now that'd be a different story...lol I don't really think is attractive for a guy to have a tongue ring...one of my exes got one after we broke up, he was a real P* pleaser but it still made me think he was dipping his pole somewhere else...lol

This is not a fair article on tongue rings blogxilla.......i have a tongue ring and it was not placed there for my sexual capabilities. I used to suck my fingers as a child and to stop the continous habit, in my early 20's i placed a tongue ring in my mouth. i have not place any extra peen in my oral cavity because i have an accessory. i think sometimes it may have to do with an oral fixaton or fetish the person may have...but that does not mean the ratio of peens to mouth will be greater. i only allow boyfriends peens to have the ring pleasure...no jump offs, flings, side pieces...men have not liked me for it but i have never been dumped for my decision ethier...its just like a eyebrow or beely button ring....what brings you to the chickenhead status is if you are on the trian doing tricks with your tongue ring or on the bus giving a free show.....and it doesnt mean your good cause u have one....all skills lie behond the person ...not there accessories

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I don't know about tongue piercing, but my exboyfriend had the tip of his penis pierced, and those wore some of the best orgasms I've ever experienced.

I think tongue rings can be an accessory, just like eyebrow, earlobe and belly rings can be. I know most heterosexual men who get them want to use them (or vibrating ones) on their lover. Being a lesbian, I also know women who do get tongue piercings for sexual activity. And while it can add to the feeling-- those with tongue rings are not guaranteed good at oral pleasure. Most of the women I know with tongue rings...suck at oral sex. So it's not about the ring...more like being good and adding toys to spice things up. However, most people do think that women who have them go sticking phallic suckers (lolly pops) all in their speak piece. So the perception is true...but most of the time, people with tongue rings either don't do oral...suck at it...or use it to get people into bed because those people think the person with the tongue ring is good at it.

Dudes with tongue rings are not homos.. maybe thier a little wierdd. He had a tongue ring. He gave good, no, GREAT head. He also liked to have his nipples played with. NOT COOL!! He didn't just want me to rub them a little. He wanted me to flick my tongue on then in a way that only lesbians do. After he asked three times ...... it was a rap....he had to get up!

its ABSOLUTELY a "fashion statement"/form of expression Xilla. how could you even say it's not?? :/ got my first one at 17 and didnt put the penis near my mouth 'til i was well into my 20's. i am a true sexual intellectual so of course i use it to my advantage these days but even now...i talk a lot, so it's my daily reminder to shut my mouth and reserve myself. that's just me though, i guess.

love your site, but we thoroughly disagree on this one.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and beliefs regarding tongue rings. It is what it is. I personally do not have or want one. It is not for me. However, what works for me may not work for you. To each his or her own!

umm..i was specifically talking to the writer of the article. a big DUH to what you are talking about.

lmao Yow this is so right all of the chick i know with a tounge ring suck dicks not and opinion because i see them mostly they are tha freaky ones that get it

coming from both sides of the story, i had a tongue ring and i got more offers to give head than before...and i loved it but after a while you can figure out thats all the dude wants...from the other side, i dont have a tongue ring now and i still give the better head than girls whom have tongue rings...plus some girls cant speak right with them in...now for men to have tongue rings, i know a couple of dudes to have them to please their women not the other way around. For a man to have a tongue ring is SOOOOOOO LOVELY!!!! its like you have a extra finger there rubbing the cl*t and everything....

i had one and used to love to do a lil teasing with it ... on the other hand i hate it when it's on a man!

Only one chick I ever met with a tongue ring said it was for sexual purposes all others said fashion statement or just being a rebel

I cannot be down w/that particular piercing. All I can think about is all the food particles & bacteria that must get stuck in there. YUCK! lol

ive had my tongue pierced since i was 15 & im now 22 & ive neva gave or yet to have/had any desire of giving head

Nutzo! But only to a certain extent ; I went years without putting anyones gentiles in my mouth. My tongue ring was a fashion statement . Idk what kind of statement I was trying to pull off ; but I promise you it was; I got it done when I was 17 ; working at a tattoo and piercing salon. I went from having my ears pierced at the beginning of the week ; to having 7 more earrings placed in different areas of my body by Wednesday. -- but to answer the question ; a chick with a tongue ring does not suck MORE peener ; than a chick without one. They just don't have it done because they don't want the spotlight on them. --- (& i rather use my tongue ring on a clit ! I'm just sayin! ) & dude with a tongue ring err ; suspect or he using it on a clit too

Xilla, simply said NO. I have a tongue ring and believe or not, I'm abstinent until marriage. It doesn't mean u give head. I actually know more girls who give head w/o tongue rings. Mine is just there for decoration and boredom. (It's fun to play with) Maybe when I get married then it can serve for other purposes.