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Is Your Girl On The Downlow?
Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships on 09. Sep, 2009
We all heard about the epidemic running wild across the country. Men on the DL, but there is a bigger issue that secretly just as big. Women on the down low. Secretly there are tons of women who like women, want to be with women and are with women.
As previously I wrote I won’t allow a woman to steal my woman, it’s even worst when you’re woman is creeping with another woman. It’s damn near impossible to find out as well, because nowadays you have these lipstick lesbians. So a guy will sit there in his apartment staring at his girlfriend’s friend’s butt, and behind his back she’s digging a nine incher into his girl. A 9 incher that doesn’t go limp at that.
One of my exes had this friend that she would talk to all the time, at times when I would attempt to call her, or speak to her, she would simply say I’m on the phone w/ “Kesha” I’ll call you back in a few. No problem right? Until that day Kesha showed up at my house. Kesha was more hardcore than me. Fresh caesar, colorful polo, tims, sagging jeans and a rainbow bracelet. My heart dropped. My girl never let on that she was gay.
Then it was the athletic woman I dealt with, she was also a bit on the boyish side. I thought it was a faze. She was young, a college freshman, so I thought maybe she didn’t go through her girl stage yet. I mean she loved sex, she would even be hungry for it. She also loved to show off her body, so daily pics of her sexy frame would constantly land in my inbox. I love it, and I never stopped to think that maybe she was on the DL.
That is until we grew up and later became facebook friends. It seemed like she was in some sort of secret cult of beautiful women who liked to dress like men. It blew my mind when it hit me that I might have been w/ a lesbian, but then I come to find out she had a baby. So is she or isn’t she? I still have no clue.
It seems like women have created the perfect environment to be on the DL and not have anyone know. Fast forward to the girl at my old job. As I mentioned before I tried to holla at this girl for almost a year before someone told me she liked girls like I do. In my ignorance I thought so what… but you can’t turn a lesbian. Now some women are just confused, but at the end of the day. The Power of the… is way stronger than anything a man can come up with. How can you compete with a person who has access to the equipment 24 hours a day?
Recently I even had a conversation with one of my homegirls who told me she went through something Mo, wrote about on my site. She thinks she best friend did her while she was passed out drunk. My friend had one too many drinks and her friend offered her house. Long story short my home girl woke up in bed with her friend w/ a long t-shirt and no panties on and no memory of how she got there. After a quick run back into her memory, too many offers to brush her hair, too much touching and too many come ons on drunk nights. The two of them are no longer friends.
Do you think DL women are a big problem? Have you ever been hit on by a woman? Would you have a threesome w/ your man and another woman?
I thought it was called being bi-curious, as far as a woman experimenting with another woman.
But anyway, I have been hit on a couple of times, never acted on it. On both occasions they were “studs” and they were persistent as hell, talking about how they would take care of me, etc. No thanks.
I knew this guy that claimed he didn't know his baby's mother was gay. He said that they've been friends for years before they hooked up. I asked him if there were any signs, he said she showed no signs of being gay. Next thing you know, she has his baby and then 5 years later she takes off with her girlfriend and the kid. He felt that he was being used as a sperm donor.
Wow, Now i know people are up out on the East coast and I know fo sho we up out here on the West, but no one has anything to say about this matter? That's says alot. Ok, well let me start it off. I've had my suspicions more than once and like you said it's damn near impossible to catch them. I think that when a female has a dude and creeps with another woman that she's more than likely just confused and doesn't know what the hell she wants and that's in itself is bad for business because people emotions are involved and everybody is fuckin everybody else. Not a good look. Not to mention, all other episodes we done had along with the one they done had and what if this has happen. Yous girl is fuckin on around on you with a butch ass lesbo and the lesbo is fucking with a gay ass dude and aint nobody wearing no protection. Ain't no tellin whats cooking in that Gumbo pot. DAMN! I'm out here in Cali and I have seen that shit first hand where the lesbo is the man and the gay ass dude is the female. it's crazy, so for all LGTB (Lesbians, Gay, Trans-sexuals and Bi-Sexuals) Don't be playing games with your significant others leading to believe one thing when it's totally something different. Let the truth be told and lets stay in our lanes.
well how you think women feel when you niggaz be fukkin ova niggaz? you aint lyin tho
Gumbo Pot. LOL, thats nasty.
Maybe thats' the reason women aren't commenting.. they on the dl? LOL just kidding. But you make some very good points.
omg its super easy to cover up lesbum side peices. you can have your man, she can have hers. Yall can “hang out” at her house, go to the mall, go places and he would never be the wiser. he'd think yall were just good damn friends LMAO
See that's the problem with dating a close lesbian. My girl can't have NOOO Frienss!! LMAO!!
thats the plus for closet lesbians..LMAO..not that I have experience..*whistles*
Well at least he got to smash raw right?
sometimes we want our cake and eat it too, lmao
LMAO y'all eating a lot more than CAKE!
Personally, this is the first that I heard of DL women. I have lots of female friends all across the country and none are DL or would ever be DL because they would be real enough to be open with theirs. But a lot of us get approached by men all the time because THEY are the ones asking for threesomes. I just broke up with a man for that very reason. If he wants me to kiss a woman, then I wanna see him kiss a man! Never in a million years would he do that, and i feel the same way about me..so MEN stop asking for threesomes. A lot of us are NOT gay!
I said some chicks, I didnt say me, Im satisfied with my man and praying he aint *HOW U DOING* (WENDY WILLIAMS VOICE)……..
lol, true. But how does she explain to the kid that he has 2 mommies and the dad is nowhere to be found?
Now I'm wondering if I'm on the DL. My first experience was my best friend since elementary who pulled some slick shit on me one nite when I was more then drunk. Something I'll never to again…at least not with her…lol. Then there is my other friend. I've seductively rubbed her thigh on the sly and she makes it a point to whisper too hard when telling me a secret. Hell we've even showed each other our bald coochies to compare skill. This past spring break while at a party we took it upon ourselves to do it like the white gurls do… so we started kissin and I'm not gonna lie I LIKED IT!! So does that make me a DL?
Or maybe it has more to with the fact that my Husband is incarrcerated and inorder to get off I've switched our porno collection up a bit. I really don't want to go out and buy a toy that can stimulate me more then the real thing so I have to play off my fantasies( Trying to keep my marriage intact, not destroy it).They say you can't turn a ho into a houswife, but one wrong move and a lonely housewife can turn ho or in this case a lesbian.
I don't think “DL women” as you put are as big of a problem as one may think..it's the out one's you need to worry about. Can I just say that lesbians are AGGRESSIVE..more so than men. This I know all too well. I was stalked..yes I said stalked lmao by one of the most aggressive doms I've ever meet. One..Im not gay. I've never had sex with a woman, kissed a woman, or wanted to have sex with a woman. But apparently since my bestfriend is a lesbian and occasionally we go to gay clubs..but she goes to straight clubs with us so it's only fair. One of her gay friends apparently took a liking to me and thought because I was holding a conversation with her it meant I was “interested” in her..umm no. It means your sitting at a table with me so Im going to be nice and make idle conversation until my friend comes back. She got my number from my BFF, who thought it was the funniest shit ever btw, and proceeded to harrass me for 6mths. Im talking text messaging and leaving voicemails, sending me facebook messages..Im like I don't know how many other ways to say Im not gay. And her thing was ..you never you unless you try it. Umm no. I've never had chitlings and I can say I don't like them..they smell and look funny. I can look at a woman and say I don't like them..they lack the essential body parts I require and have a few I don't want. I like my sticks stiff not DETACHABLE. As for the threesome thing..nope not gonna happen. Im a selfish lover and 3 is crowd. Not to mention my boyfriends a homophobe…his highschool gf cheated with a chick so he's all paranoid now lmao
Yes, you are on the DL.
“My first experience” how many experiences have you had? How many does it take for you to realize you like pussy.
It's funny…me and my guy were talking about this the other day! He asked me was my best friend gay because she gives off that type of vibe, and I said definitely not (although the thought had crossed my mind too). Then, after he brought up some great points, it really had me thinking. She always wants to be around me and our other girl-friends instead of being around guys, she's always blocking when I want to hang out with my dude, she's been saying for years that she doesn't want nor have time for a boyfriend, and as long as I've known her, she's never had a boyfriend although she has “talked” to a few guys. So now I'm trying to watch for clues and hints and make sure to keep a little distance between her and myself…she's still my buddy tho lol!
I've never had any females hit on me… I feel so left out *sad face*
Are DL women a problem? Only if they're being unfaithful to their current partners. And not because they're on the DL but because their being unfaithful.
RE: the threesome… yeah, my ex and I tried it. Wasn't terrible (never realized how much softer we women are then men), but in the end, you know, I have Adult ADHD and there were just too many things to keep track of… LOL I experimented, got it out of my system & can move on.
this is some funny shit. people are getting all up tight about women being on the downlow LOL cause they never remotely thought of it till now.
=| i openly display my homo tendencies…and i tell guys i like chicks…some of bimbos dont believe me&think im joking… LMAO then get mad when i SAY ” NAH I CANT GO TO HOOTERS TONIGHT TO WACTH UFC ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND ARE GOING TO THE MOVIES” …like wtf son i just told you im gay as hell!!! you thought this was a game? lmao =x
people need to stop being closety….. HELL you can get away with damn near anything in 09 wtf are you ashamed of liking twat? LMAO pussy has caused some of the worlds most epic battles…
fuck imma be ashamed of liking it for? LMAO
LMAO!! I feel you babes!
It exist… but on the real most women are interested in being w/ a woman just to experience it. It's weird, while I never had a “Real” 3some I know a lot of chicks are interested in them. It's funny though because that's about the only thing I haven't done.
Never say never!! It is a beautiful thing! I close my eyes and can see both women like it was yesterday! Precious memories!!!!!lol
Yeah lots of women want women occasionally. Me and the ex had a crazy breakup. He wanted two wives and to share me and his other girlfriend(we didn't know). I said no on that kind of relationship. But I was curious, she was bi and he is kryptonite. So after going to get my stuff from his house and drinking a bottle of Rose Mo I broke my threesome cherry. Can't say I would be down for the solo chick action. And I could never give up men…ever…but an occasional threesome isn't crazy.
man helllll yeah its way to many women on the DL. my ex tried to hide the fact that she was a lipstick in hs, until i went away for school to come home to her having a relationship with a chic. which at the time my naivety and immaturity thought was cool. 3somes/swingers parties etc. seemed like wassup. but as you get older the novelty wears off and thas when they start going underground with it bc to them its not a novelty its a way of life. and trust its wayyyyyy more women who hide their fondness for women then the other way around. i think its almost on the same plate as males being on the dl its all around plain selfish joe
DL women are as big a problem as DL men, because they're fooling someone who cares for them. I can be oblivious to come-ons, but I'm going to say no, I've never been hit on by a woman.
And the lesbian factor is the main reason I can't get down with a 3-some. Y'all men always want some damn woman-on-woman action. We never expect that from you. I STAY campaigning for 2 men/1 woman 3-somes! LOL
I guess I was considered on the DL for years. And I tried to tell my boyfriend for the longest but he didnt believe me… until we were over my friends house one day (who is openly bi) and I stated to get him goin and asked her to join… I LOVED it and have been openly Bi ever since…. but I think DL girls are mostly in the black community because that is looked down on… hell white chix get drunk and make out all the time why cant we…
So I guess I wanna have a kitty and eat one too…
nothing wrong with that… puuurrrr
I don't see why females would hide their bi tendencies or if they are gay since men tend to “love” that in a woman til they want to wife them. From then it tends to be an issue. BUT For most women they hide it for the sake of their family and friends and how they will react to them liking women…they are not really hiding it from a man. Women don't really care about men thinking or knowing they are gay..lol sorry to burst your bubble. MEN on the other hand have to be on the down low..not a lot of women can deal with their man being also a man poo poo pusher.
Please find me a woman who is into Bi sexual men…a Rare few. This is why there is so many DL men..not just cause of the shame from family and friends..but sh*t most women just won't date them.
DL women are pussies ; that like pussies! Why not just be open? Trust me; you'll get way more play! *smirk*
just kiddin… well to a certain extent. I understand that people like to take their time to come out the closet ; & I also understand that relieving yourself is difficult, but damn creepin' for months ; then years. Just admit you're bi-sexual. Yeah society may label you as a whore; but you'll be a whore enjoying life without secrets and all the other bullshit. LOL like me!