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Xilla Quickie: Best Friends Forever
Posted in Entertainment, Relationships on 08. Sep, 2009
Photo by Keeimages
Lil Wayne seems to have it like no other man can, his baby mama’s are cool, and don’t seem to give him Drama. From the photo, it seems like Toya & Nivea are BFF’s. So What do you think? Could you be BFF’s with a woman who has slept with your man? Could a healthy relationship exists?
Leave your thoughts.
Most definitely. Especially when there are children involved and at least one of the women has moved on. Also, when the women are grown, and not little girls, it can work. As long as at least woman is sensible, she can keep the situation peaceful. In my city the male to female ratio is 12 to 1, so I know I wouldn't be the best friend of the woman who I am in sexual competition with, but we obviously have SOMETHING in common if we like the same wang, I mean the same thang.
Anything is possible under the sun; if there are no hard feelings all around there can definitely be a friendship.
It also helps when their bank accounts are never going into the negative ever again. Just sayin.
Weezy paid the cost to be the boss….like the last person said as long as the bank account is striaght, u wont hear a peep.
Hmph
I'm the type of female who has no problem complimenting another female. “Girl u wearin that dress”, “Those shoes are fire” u know things like that. However, my ex used 2 always tell me I was gay. So one day he says his “friend” that I have never heard of or met before (red flag1) saw me on myspace (red flag 2 & 3) and said she wanted to have a 3some. So I told him no on numerous occassions & he just kept telling me all this stuff this woman was saying. Soooo I go on myspace one day and wrote this young lady a message. Something along the lines of “my bf and I discussed the offer and I am not interested” so on and so forth. So she replies and says something along the lines of … “bf? How long have u been seeing each other?” & basically tells me he's her bf also and he's been telling her the same shit. So we exchange numbers and information & I went over to her crib & needless 2 say we suprised his ass. Anyway, I'm glad it happened because she and I have been close friends ever since. So yea, it's possible as long as both parties respect each other and act as mature adults. (No kids involved in my situation).
However, u have females like my best friend whom because her baby daddy has someone else knocked up. “I can't stand that bitch! My mutha luvin kids ain't going near her kid!! I can't wait till she have that baby so I can beat her the fuk up!! I don't give a fuk, my baby don't need no sisters or brothers!!” Though she has never even held a conversation with the woman. I simply told her “If you have retarded grandchildren it's because your daughter boinked her brother that she didn't know.” It was a little harsh I admit but shit I was annoyed.
iPhone typing, please excuse all typos lol
Well since they all seem to be suffering from low self esteem then in their case yes. They seem to just want a baby no matter the cost the child has to pay. When did having kids by various people and not being raised by a father and mother becoming acceptable in black society. Just sad, we should want more for our kids. Money is not everything. These women would have been better off seeking a man with values that can raise strong black children as leaders rather than lil wayne that has nohing but a hood mentality. Paying money and seeing a kid is not enough, kids need to seet their parents together as a household something we obvioulsy lack in the black community. No wonder other minorities are passing us by in the relay race we call life. we need to check ourselves.
I dont see why it would be a problem. For some..for me I dont really want to be CLOSE to the baby mother unless we closet lesbums LOL