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Dear Lindsay Lohan “Do You Hate An Ex Lover?”
Posted in Dear Lindsay Lohan on 25. Aug, 2009
Dear Lindsay Lohan,
Have you ever hated someone so much that you wouldn’t spit on them if they were on fire? Ok maybe that was a little bit extreme, but wanted to set the tone of how much I dislike this person. Before I continue let me explain. There is this girl who is an ex of mine and she stole from me. It’s crazy because most of the ladies I have been with have only stole my heart, but this one stole my most prized possession.
Maybe I’m just like my mother because she can’t stand my dad. She hates his guts, but he Chris Brown her ass for years so I understand where the hatred comes from. One time we were in the car and she started to compare me to my father then she started to hurl insults at my dead dad. I asked her to have some respect being that he had just died, but I guess after years of keeping me sheltered from her hatred she decided to go in like rapper penis in the mouth of Karine “I’m a NY Times best selling author” Steffans, aka don’t ask me why I’m famous, but I digress.
I often wonder why people can’t forgive, I consider myself a forgiving person, but when it comes to this spec of vomit on the wall of a fat man’s house after eating maget pie… I simply can’t bring myself to forgive her. Which is sad, I’m not holier than thou, I’ve cheated, lied, and manipulated women in my day but I never stole from one. Not a dime, a penny and definitely not an idea or furmula to ones livilihood. I once cut a friend off because she stole 3 bucks from my house to buy a beer. I mean I did owe her 20 bucks but I paid her as soon as she came back from the store with the beer. I guess life is crazy like that huh? We do things even though we know they are wrong and know we shouldn’t do it. I probably shouldn’t even have written this letter.
Why do people hold grudges? Do you hate or dislike one of your exes? If so why? Could you ever forgive them? If so what would they have to do to earn your forgiveness.
Yours truly
Xilla your number 1 fan who ate general tso’s chicken for lunch.
What did she steel? Not that it matters…lol.. An by the way…you shouldnt hate anyone..it feels better to not hate anyone then it does to hate someone…she'll get hers regardless if you waste your feelings hating her or not!
I've hated 2 exes for their callous attitudes during the breakups. One broke up with me on Valentine's Day (found out later he cheated on me that day). I was ready to cut him. It took a while to get past it but I did and was better for it. It helped that he sincerely apologized later and seemed genuinely remorseful (or maybe he just didn't want to get shanked, lol).
The other broke up with me right before my birthday with a shrug and an f.u. (basically) after almost a yr together. I'm still working on not hating his ass…came *this close* to trekking to his hood to set his car on fire. It's a slow process.
Your being mad is just giving them what they wanted in some sick way. You not being able to get over it and reacting every time you think about the situation is still you thinking about them. Maybe that's what she wanted. Her actions made her unforgettable.
I agree!
Hate is too strong of a word to use loosely..
i forgive too easily I guess. My last bf doesn't. I forgive him for cheating on me for a year and a half..but he stil has not gotten over the fact that I lied about being w another dude while we were broken up *sigh*. He blames me for the reason why he will never trust another woman again…REMEMBER THO..this FOOL cheated on me with another women for a YEAR AND A HALF..but he doesn't trust me cause I lied about what I did while we were broken up.
I dont stay mad at people very long and am very forgiving. I may not ever get over something which will cause me to leave you alone..but if I run into you..I'll spit on you if you on fire
I used to hold a grudge against my ex, but, now that I think about it, if the incident had not happened, I wouldn't have met the person I'm with now. After realizing this, I learned not to hold grudges (or at least, not a lot lol) because sometimes, positive things can come from it.
I loathed my ex for about two years and even more the second year. She hung out with these gay bois who would constantly tell her that they saw me in the gay club or with a guy. She reamed me out, put me through hell and would even show up at bars where I was to see who I was with. At first I was pissed, but my new girlfriend threatened to cut her, so I just started ignoring it. Come to find out, these cats didnt even know who I was and she ended up haveing to apologize. I don't hate her now, but she can't find a man to save her life. She still calls me and gets jealous when she sees me and wifey out. HA!
i used to hate my ex, but i realized it was consuming me and taking up to much of my energy. the best thing to do is to forgive and move on-
I try my best not to just flat out HATE anyone, because that's a very strong feeling. But I will say there are some people who I just dislike with every bone in my body! I don't like to admit it, but I am one to hold grudges too…especially when you've done something terribly wrong. I will forgive, but I doubt if I could EVER forget!