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5 Things People Think About During Sex
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 06. Jul, 2009
Once while my manxilla was encased in some that warm, wet and gushy stuff I had an ephiphany. It may have been one of mygreatest thoughts ever. You might not know this but it is during sex that I have my greatest thoughts and ideas. So I compiled a list of 5 things people think about during sex. Grab your pens and post its you’re going to want to take notes.
That Body: Sometime you just want to enjoy the view. The site of a woman’s body is absolutely amazing. So while we are digging into that gushy stuff, we are admiring her boobs. “Oh how round they are!” While hitting it from the back we are astonished by her butt. It is almost hypnotic as we watch the waves that occur when we smack that @ss. Ladies are no different they also marvel at the man’s body. Arms, chest, abs the beads of sweat forming on his forehead as he works her hole.
Bills, Sports & Shopping List: Fact of the matter is that sometime we need to focus on other things just to make sure we don’t finish to early. For women, she may have a different reason for thinking about things like her shopping list during sex. Maybe the dude just isn’t hitting the right spots, but for us men we do it so we can last longer. I know there have been times when I started counting backwards to make sure I wouldn’t bust too early. I even recited rap lyrics to try to drown out her moans so I can keep on going.
Lies: We’ve all been here at one time or another. Things have just happened and you are having sex. Either you were near the end of sex or just wanted the sex to be over. This is wen you start thinking of a lie. You may be thinking of a lie to end the sex or the lie you are going to tell your boo when you get home, but you’re thinking of a lie.
Another Mother F*cker: I know lying was the last thing we thought about, but lets not lie. We’ve all thought about another mother f*cker at one point. Known or unknown. Ladies thought about Trey Songz, Idris Elba, or Reggie Bush, while getting their back blown out by a regular dude! Men have thought about the fly waitress from the diner, the beautiful model whose picture was posted on blogxilla.com or his girl’s best friend, while his girl was riding him like a water ride in July. All I’m saying is beware your boo might be thinking about another person. Would you be cool with that?
Breaks: Lastly a lot of people think about the condom breaking. No one wants to have a baby in a recession or catch something they can’t give back.
People think about a lot of different things during sex, I would like to know what’s going through your mind while you’re doing the do. Do you even think about anything? I know a lot of times I don’t think at all.
Ah, the timeless classic 'How Can I Make Him Stop Doing That Without Laughing?'
I love my husband to death, but I cannot tell a lie, I'm usually thinking I wish he lay his big ass down and let me do my thing (he's 350 pounds and heavy as hell) I'd rather be on top anyday LOL
The last time I thought to myself, ” I wonder how cute and in my dainty voice I can tell him to just cum already w/o hurting his feelings”. During the same episode I thought that the weather might be great that day and that I might take a run. Basically I never had another episode with him again. Is there a cute way to tell a man to just cum already or does it always sound bad no matter how you say it?
I think I'd be cool with that. Long as he doesn't call me her name.
Sometimes I think about nothing, sometimes I do think about other men. But not celebrity guys just other dudes that I might be dating.
And sometimes I think that I hopw I'm not ridin him too rough and smashin his balls.
lmao
Jus sayin…….
WEN I'M DOIN THE DIRTY
I THINK ABOUT DA CONDOM BREAKING AT ALL TIMES
ITS NOT ON MY MIND TOO MUCH THAT I AINT CONCENTRATING ON DA SEX
BUT ITS ON THERE ENOUGH TO HAVE MY AZZ WORRIED
I'M NOT TRYING TO HAVE ANY CHILDREN RITE NOW
AND I ALSO BE THINKIN BOUT HOW MUCH MONEY I'M GONNA ASK HIS AZZ FOR AFTA HE FINISH NUTTING
MY MAN SAY THAT SHIT GET HIM MADD CUZ I DON'T ASK HIM BEFOREHAND WEN HE IS ABLE TO GIVE ME A STRAIGHT ANSWER
I WAIT TILL HE GOOD AND A LIL FUCKED UP AND LITE HEADED TO ASK FOR 250 LMAO
PLEASE TELL ME I ANIT DA ONLY FEMALE WHO DOES THIS
LOL, i'm usually too busy admiring the view of him puttin in work.
I ENJOY that shit, real talk.
I like watching everything, from the move of his waist 2the movement of his shoulder muscles, it turns me on big time.
Or thinkin bout the moment when he'll start biting his lip while i'm on top, meaning he luuuuvs it. Hehe
But @other times, with other dudes, when the sex wasnt good, i just thought “CAN WE JUST GET IT OVER WITH???” or “What the fuck was i thinkin??” LOL
U know u got ur mind set by the time the 1st 15mins are over… Either “Alright, i can get with this” or “I aint never giving u any in my LIFE again” Lmao
i tend to to think about how a womans' body looks so sexy or how her moaning is turning me on, but thats usually when i'm on that liquid viagra and can't get it off. i think about another motherfucker when the female is usually a buss down or when the sex isn't all that great and i'm ready to go. the condom breaking is something i dont usually think about though because i think both women/men know when the condom break cause the sensation is much better and she becomes even wetter. it's whether you choose to pump ur breaks afterwards or not…that's my two cents…
it depends if he's done his job or not. if it's one of those after clubs nights where he goin' ham hour after hour 'til legs are shaking i figure you can tell a dude then… “you ain't done yet?” lol…
that's called takin' advantage lol!
i've also found myself looking up at the ceiling tryin' to hold it in lol…
…yeah i've def. thought about another girl while getting it in with the former misses; its just one of those things i'd rather not know though…i'd feel some kind of way about her associating my good d!ck to some other dude=FAIL.
its in the HANDBOOK gurl. You are just your pussy card properly. If you ask before its prostitution and if he say no after you fuck his brains loose, its a reason to withhold sex!
Great post Xilla! I personally would include the hygiene factor in there. (Under arms, breath and etc..)
LOL…I TOTALLY AGREE
IM SAYIN IF I HAD UR TOES CURLING AND U SAYIN IM THA BEST
AND U NUT ABOUT 3 TIMES
I THINK IT IS OKAY IF I ASK FOR SOME MONEY TO GET MY HAIR DONE AFTA YOU DONE SWEATED IT OUT
OR GET SOME NEW SHEETS
WATEVA…ITS BASICALLY REIMBURSEMENT FOR A JON WELL DONE ON MY PART
AND I LOVE THIS POST BLOGXILLA BABY
NOPE
IM NOT TAKIN ADVANTAGE OF HIM…JUS THA SITUATION AND HIS CURRENT CONDITION AT THA TIME.
AND I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO CALL IT REIMBURSEMENT(GO TO THA SPA FOR A MASSAGE CUZ MOST LIKELY MY BODY GONNA BE SORE, OR A VISIT TO THA HAIR STYLIST)
LOL
FOR A JOB WELL DONE
Alot of times I have a song in my head, and if it's REALLY good, a few verses might slip out here or there HAHA. I also like admiring the body and the way certain muscles of his flex…it can be sooo sexy!
LMAO!! wow now I wonder how dope I actually am in bed after reading all these comments… lol so how do you do it?
How does he get on top of you without crushing you? The pressure must be almost unbearable. Like seal sex! No shots.
yeah it does… you might wanna try telling him he wore you out and you can't hang no more or say cum for me daddy… something like that just a thought.
you know sometime these women just can't make a guy cum… it might be them. lol
omg that's the worst… gtting my balls bust from a chick riding me it's insane! lol
I would feel away if a shorty asked me for money after i smashed. but thats the best time to hit him up for it… like during the act! lol
Damn word? lol It's so disappointing diving into wack cooch! I can only image what y'all women go through because a man has such a delicate ego… smh that's a whole other blog topic.
LMAO yep we know when that shit break… i try to get a few raw pumps in… but them i'm like f*(k for a quick second… and then i go well it's too late now! keep going!
OMG that ruins everything. I know i sit there and be like damn… she smells bad and I think to myself and try to measure the level of the funk but i can't do it if she stinks i will not get up for that. I take the blame act like it's all on me and never call the chick again. I don't mind looking bad to a smelly chick.
Thanks N3ssbaby I mean yo!! Money is money if you can't break a chick off after she let you inside of her you shouldn't be inside of her. Thats my motto. I mean hey.
I dont know how i would feel if my shorty started singing or rapping during sex… wait it has happened to me… I bust'd her ass. She started singing Mr Yeah! lol
yeah same here… a celeb though it might just mean you're her star… i had to think about other chicks other scenarios a lot of other things to keep it up during sex with this one chick. lol It became too much work.
YOU KNOW THA CRAZY THING
I THOUGHT UR AZZ (BLOGXILLABABY) WASN'T GONNA AGREE WITH ME….
LOL
BUT I THINK ITS ONLY RIGHT AFTA U DONE …WELL YOU KNOW
its rare that i enjoy sex as much as my partner and so i usually am thinking about husting, i start counting how much $ i should have by the end of the week, or what i could do to get more do'. i also think about the kids[my neice or nephew] wondering if they're str8 or if my sis and the bd are wilding out… the shopping thing too. like “yo i need some mo' paper towels, or i should buy some lunch tickets for the comm center before i go home,…..
my mind be EVERYWHERE BUT on the task at hand. dang shame!
lol… you already know!
it's either because the dude you with ain't gettin' it done or because you think waaaaaaaaayyyy too much during sex. lol!
i think about her friend who wanted to be down, but she didn't want to share on a weekday. we save three.somes for the weekend, they are exhausting. usually i think about whats going to happen next like is she going to catch it in her mouth or let me release on her back.
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ALLS I NEED IS FOR HIS DICK TO STAY HARD…. AND ILL DO THE REST. THATS ALL I BE THINKING.
I'm somethin like that, mind be everywhere….and thats where alcohol comes in…it keeps me kinda focused until reality sets in:)
& its smelly girl stories like that that made me more comfortable with my body..comfortable enough to focus on the task at hand.I use to think about small things about my body when i 1st “jumped off da porch” till i realized niggas appreciation for my body and plus i never had a hygiene problem…thats just disgusting,nothin but water ova here…hehe
I'm usually praying she doesnt break out in tears by the time she reaches the 4th or 5th orgasm. So disturbing…
I wish he would stop licking my clit lick that. Damn do you think this is a bone or the meat. Like do you guys no how to do it right! LOL….. but it truly happens these guys really think they are putting in work when they are not.
damn reading this post make me wanna call somebody lol
gnr off dat shit…yea i agree witcha 100% ma
gnr off dat shit…yea i agree witcha 100% ma
I usually focus on the situaion at hand. Visulazing my coochie muscles clinching the dick, looking for signs from him to ensure that I am getting it done. Sometimes when he starts to gather them few beads of sweat I start to wonder if I should give him a rest and take over, but then again I don't want him to get the wrong idea and think that I just wasn't enjoying what he was doing, which gets me off track and make me loose my focus, which evenutally leads to more head for me to get my levels back up.