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Kisses With More Than A Mouthful
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 29. Jun, 2009
Live from sunny California, from the comfort of my hotel room on the 19th floor I can’t help but think about the blog I wrote last week about swallowing. There is always a big debate when it comes to cumming in a woman’s mouth. To swallow or not to swallow, but something we never tackled here on BlogXilla.com is what happens after a person goes down and then comes up for a kiss.
Me for one, I love when a woman comes in my mouth. I always tell them to let me know, but they never do, they seem to get off by secretly having an orgasm in my mouth and me never knowing. I’m not mad though, because I can feel it. I can feel her inside grip my finger as I rub her inner walls and lick her cl*t. I can feel her back arch and the back of her hand push my mouth deeper inside her lady hole.
So, I don’t need the announcement. I want it so I can make sure her wetness is all over my face, I’m nasty like that. I get off by knowing my woman is pleased. What turns me on ever more though is when I go back up kissing her belly button along the way, sucking on a nipple after i’ve climb her lady mountain and plant an awesome kiss on her lips and make her taste her goodness. Maybe even stick a finger inside of her mouth and make her taste how wonderful my pussy soaked tongue taste.
Maybe this is the reason why women feel the need to try to make a guy taste his own nut, but women you can not do this. Do you really want a nut guzzling dude? I was asked so what does a guy do after a woman swallows his cum? Kiss her? The answer is no, a guy should never kiss a woman with her mouth full of his jizz. Never. She should have a drink or something, rinse her mouth out and then kissing is alright. Yet, if a man got some head from his main chick, and she did not take any in her mouth then it is all right for him to kiss her. Hell he should to show his appreciation for what she just did.
Now with that said, I know a lot of girls who will forcefully try to make a guy kiss them while she has a bunch of nut in her mouth. To those women I say this? What is this obsession with making a guy taste his self? That’s disgusting! I’ve had many women try to put their mouth on me RIGHT after swallowing and I had to break out my Turbo & Ozone moves that had shorty calling me boog a lou shrimp. Neck to the right, check to the left, and then the epic mush of her jaw, that could lead to a Chris Brown type beating. SMCH
My twitter friends say about this topic:
Lorilee23@BlogXilla HELL YEAH .. IF IT’S NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO GO IN HIS MOUTH (AND IT BELONGS TO HIM), NEXT TIME IT WON’T BE GOOD ENOUGH TO GO IN MINE.
blueenigmaNYC@BlogXilla trying to kiss a guy who has let off is unthoughtful+selfish.u cannot assume he is into eating his own junk
Jenayra@BlogXilla yeahhh theres nothing wrong with that..its called protein
BkBap@BlogXilla general rule has always been no, you give a kiss close to the mouth, if he doesn’t have an issue w/ an afterkiss, he’ll go 4 it
ummm…hmmm…Do you not see how hypocritical you sound? It's okay for you to eat a pussy then have female juices swirling on your tounge then kiss her and make her taste herself but you say it's disgusting if the same is done to you. It's disgusting either way. I'm a freak, no doubt but there is nothing sexy about a man cumming in my mouth and if he perferred I didn't cum in his, I'd be fine with that. I am no stranger to giving my share of head but never do I come up for a kiss because YES, it's disgusting and I expect the same respect from him! Don't slither your ass up my stomach with a wet mouth like you just had fried chicken and greens and try to kiss me with my own cum juices, not sexy! Don't stick your finger in mouth, can I stick mine in yours? Will you suck my finger? I think not. Men need to stop thinking that it's okay for them to do this and that to women but not the other way around. If you don't want YOUR own CUM in your mouth from a kiss afterwards then don't expect a woman to want HER own CUM in her mouth in a kiss afterwards either, not every woman have the curiosity of knowing what pussy tastes like (some do, some have, so the wet kiss is nothing new to them)!
No woman or man sits there and plays with themself til they cum then say “Hmmp, I wonder what I taste liKe, let me swirl a dab on my finger and have a lick.” No one! So why do it in sex? I just don't understand how you can approve it to be done to women but not the other way around. I would never want my man to taste his own jizz and it will never even have the chance to be open as an option seeing as my mouth is not a cum shot cup. If you expect her to like it, we expect you to like it. It's the same as a man saying a woman should be okay with a man putting his finger in her ass as they fuck but she can't do the same to him. What the hell makes you think she want a finger up her ass? I know you don't want one up yours.
Men, sometimes ya'll need to think before you speak. Stop trying to instruct women on what they SHOULD accept from you sexually and can't do to you. If you are an aclaimed freak in bed, there should be no bounderies. I do some freaky shit but I'm not freaky enough to do everything. MEN, somethings are off limits…..ask first especially if you don't want it done to you.
I see your point and all but I think it's a bit unfair. It's not all about what you like in sex, the woman has a say so too.
Its a double standard youre gonna have to live with , so shut up and swallow. dont kiss me.
There is no kissing after getting some head. Thats a no no! Some women will get mad at the fact that if a man eats them then kisses them afterward it should be vice versa but it's not. I'm not kissing no woman after she gives me some head i don't want my cum in my mouth. There are women who don't want you to kiss them after you pleasure them. I know a dude who kisses his wife afterward because he admitted it during a conversation during a get together for adults. He looked a little ashamed, but we all were telling the truth and if your wife says you do it you did it, he just went with it.
I always kiss him afterwords for the mere fact when he comes up he has to always kiss me. So If its good forthe gander- it has to be great for the geese!
blogg u are sooooooooooooo nasty love u……but sorry u can not cum in my mouth….
and you do have women that play with their pretti pussi until they cum and just might take alick of herself……U sound like you are hella sexually frustrated you better quit cheating yourself…..ms momosa….
Sweetie, i think its safe to say that i've slept with more women that you have… and women tasting their own juices is a common practice when it comes to sex… Can I get a co-sign? but yes I wrote this to point out the double standard when it comes to this act. One of my readers said it best… it has to do with the thickness of a man's cum vs a female cum…
but I will say that you're in the minority on this one sweetie, and sticking s finger in a woman's ass… most women like finger in their ass!
I really touched nerve… i don't know how you can call yourself a freak and not like these 2 basic things… you might need to watch the video called I'm not a freak… yo might just like sex but you're no sexual intellectual. no offense just an observation
Thanks for the co-sign ma!!! I tried to tell her she missing out!! lol it's a double standard yes but it's life… and why can't i? you aint gotta swallow! lol
kissing after head, and kissing after you've had cum in your mouth are 2 differnet things…. do women like cum guzzling men? YUCK!!
WOW!! He should be ashamed… lol not saying he shouldn't please his wife… but damn he could have put his foot down! lol
i will second that motion!!! It is just nasty to me if a man would like to kiss after he just nutted in my mouth…i am used to being kissed after a man tasted me…it turns a man on when he sees his girl licking her juices off him from his finger lips or dick…personally i would like to know how i taste to make sure i am keeping up with my health and to see why he loves going down on me…lol
Ok, snowballing – NO!!! That's understood, but a kiss after I swallowed it, meaning you're only gonna be exposed to a minimal amount of residue, if any, shouldn't be a big deal and if it is then future swallowing is gonna be a big deal/no-go 'cause I'd rather have a kiss
@ “kissing after head, and kissing after you've had cum in your mouth are 2 differnet things”
What's the difference, cause even if you don't “finish” in her mouth there's still pre-cum?
Soooo is pre-cum guzzling ok? Cause that's what you're all doing if you think kissing her after “just head-no swallowing” is ok
@ What's the difference, cause even if you don't “finish” in her mouth there's still pre-cum?
With the pre-cum she pretty much swallowed that before the finished product.
Most adult women know there is no kissing after their man has cum in their mouth. It's an UNWRITTEN rule. It just doen't happen.
This has me scratching my head …
Just to be real, I have had more guys pull me up to kiss them after they bust and even when they don't. I have always assumed that's like their form of “Ooo that was great” before they can actually say the words. But besides that I have never been with any dude who didn't kiss me after it (bust or not) just seems routine to me *maybe it's the piercing*.
@ “With the pre-cum she pretty much swallowed that before the finished product.”
And how exactly does swallowing pre-cum differ from swallowing the finished product? Your male fluid is your male fluid and swallowing is swallowing – so If there's a fear of finished product residue there should be equal fear of pre-cum residue…
Most women, well scratch that cause I only know about me, I will take a drink after I swallow but thats more for me than it is him – I also don't go straight for a kiss afterward so I can't even say I've ever experienced a reaction to that situation – I just think it's funny that men have this “unwritten rule”, especially when ya'll are kissing chicks with pre-cum in their mouths and eatin pussy in between fuckin your gilr – that pussy also has pre-cum in it and pussy can't swallow
oooooooooooh i love this blogg
I cosign HeadMistress
If you can't kiss me AFTER I SWALLOW with just the minimal residue left I won't be swallowing much. I mean who wants to have to stop go rinse there mouth out or stop kissing completely until their finish having sex(my man stays hard most times after he nuts we just keep it going YES
). Stopping during sex can totally kill the mood especially for something like this, I give u the ultimate hook up(next to eatin your ass and lettin u fuck another chick) and I'm BANNISHED to the restroom and kiss rejected negro please. Zilla I have to say I'm dissapointed in you I thought you were a true freak what next, no ass eating because if you can't even take alittle cum residue I don't see how you can do shit like that.
Same here, nobody at least I hope no sane woman is gonna come up with her mouth still full of cum but after swallowing ALL the men I've been with have kissed me. That's why I'm supprised to hear these supposed freaks complaining about something that's so commonly done.
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can't run to the bathroom to spit ur shit out without you feelin some kinda way but after I swallow it I gotta get up and go there anyway just to gargle so I can get a kiss? Fuck outta here…seriously, sorry but I call bullshit on this whole topic…more of ya'll are cum guzzlers than you realize whether you like it or not and whether you know it or not…
It's ok, we can just pretend it never happened ;>
Cosign!
Good luck trying to get a chick to swallow with that sexist attitude
W0W
THESE LADIES CLAIM TO BE FREAKS AND SOME SEEM WAYY OLDER THAN ME
AND MY SHIT IS ON ANOTHER LEVEL
NOW
WEN MY MAN EATS MY PUSSY I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH HIM COMIN UP FOR A KISS
CUZ NUMBA 1 MY PUSSY TASTES GOOD(AND I LOVE THA STICKIN HIS FINGA IN MY MOUTH SO I COULD SUCK ON IT…DAMNNNNNNN)
ITS NOT SMELLIN
IT ANIT STINKIN
ITS FRESH AND CLEAN
I FEEL THE ONLY WAY U WOULD HAVE A PROBLEM IF YOU HAVE A COMPLEX ABOUT UR PUSSY
YOU MIGHT BE THINKIN IT ANIT SMELLIN OR TASTEIN TO RIGHT…
NOW ANOTHA THING WEN I RETURN THA FAV..HE DOESNT HAVE A PROBLEM EITHER
HES NOT TASTING HIS DICK….
SALIVA DONE BEEN TRANSPIRED WHILE I WAS GIVING HIM HEAD
BUT HE ONLY DOES THIS WEN WE IN THA BEGINNING OR MIDDLE..NEVA END CUZ I WOULD BE DEAD RITE NOW
IF HE FELT HE DONE TASTED SOME CUM..HIS CUM AT THAT
MAN DO NOT LIKE THAT…AND THATS NASTY I FEEL..
ITS NOT NASTY ON MY PART WEN IM TASTING MY JUICES CUZ I HAPPEN TO LIKE PUSSY AS WELL..
Um, I don't want to taste either, his or mine. I'm just saying. I think it's hypocritical that you want a chick to taste her own cum but then get upset when a chick does the same to you. I mean I don't dig it either way but… c'mon double standard my ass.
You stay promoting double standards B lol … but you're not afraid of the backlash which is why I love you so much … from the outside looking in, I think it should be a tit for tat type situation … however, me personally, the way I perform in the bedroom is based solely on what gets them off … initially you try a whole bunch of shit when you're first fuckin and you learn what your partner likes and doesn't like … some men don't like to taste their nut … I've had men tell me to let that shit drip from my mouth onto their chests and whatnot … it really just depends on what the person likes … so if you dont want me to kiss you after you cum in my mouth Xill, I guess you just won't get to taste yourself … your loss … I'll get what I'm after with or without the after kisses lol
i agree with missmomosa this is very hypocritical…actually this situation happened to me yesterday. he came in my mouth….i swallowed it and i kissed him…i didnt tongue him down but it was just to let him taste his sh*t….and i wish a n*gga would be like “u betta not kiss me”. and plus thats YOUR fluids lol…it came from YOUR body
I go wash my mouth out anyway….as soon is the act's done im up and gone washing my mouth out dammit…lol as for him kissing me after eating…well he gonna run smack into my hand…im not having that…imma tell him to go wash his mouth out…I realize there are MAJOR double standards..but i make them (my partners) realize it aint gonna be none of that when it comes to me…if i cant do to you what you do to me then its not happening..PERIOD
I'm not kissing a chick after I came in her mouth, period. I don't care if she swallowed or caught and spit……that shit is nasty. Matter of fact, most of the women's mouth that I came in, I never kissed EVER. If they happened to be my girl though, as soon as she brushes her teeth, we're good.
I would kiss you HeadMistress. Whenever, wherever, whatever!! Satisfaction guranteed!! Be Easy!
Such a charmer
if you keep me twirlin my hair like this I'ma end up with a bald spot…LOL
*signs off & leaves to go have a track put in*
IMHO, a man's cum tastes different from a woman's. Men's is thicker, stickier, different color, diff. consistency. A woman's is definitely easier on the stomach. It's lighter taste and color wise and easier to tolerate lol…I would be grossed out if my man wanted me to slob him down so he could taste it. But since I swallow, all that's left for him is remnants, which is ok. I don't go gargle, but I don't push his own kids in his mouf lol! When he eats me, I taste myself(I do taste good too
) lol…and it's no prob. Sorry ladies, but I have to agree, a man should not be tasting his own jism, but a woman is a different story. Heck, if u as a lady taste ur own cum, that's a good thing b/c u have a man who likes to lick the kitty so ENJOY!
It's great2 swallow! yyeehhaaww and kiss after PUCKER UP!
I don't swallow but if I did I would not lean up to kiss my mna in the mouth. That is disgusting. Yeah it may seem cliche' but men have always kissed women after going down on them. It's like second nature. If I allowed my man to bust anywhere on my face and then he let me kiss him after that he would be dismissed. I understand the pre cum thing but there is still a difference.
For you, anything…LOL!!
I''ll pay for that track too!!!
Then we can go to IHOP precious!
Well um im a female and I dont want my juice in my mouth he needs to rinse his mouth also…goodness if I would want to taste pusy juice then Im on the wrong team..
Completely agree! Men and women are made differently, no matter how much people want to think we're the same. I have no problem kissing him after I came nor do I have a problem with not kissing him after going down on him. It's just a small portion of the complete ride, nothing to analyze and get angry about.
Exactly Lorilee. I CAN understand why a man may not want to kiss a woman while the cum is still in there BUT after she swallows, KISS HER. What is the big deal. If you are afraid or grossed out by it then that means I should be too (which is obviously a problem).
Now, men often like women to finger themselves and at some point either during or after they (sometimes) like to see women lick the same fingers. So what's the difference?
Thats right, never kiss your own kids until they have lips. lol
ROFLMAOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FUCK THAT.
If a chick has to taste a nut/her own juices
then a dude can taste his own funky ass nut too.
that's the dumbest shit i've ever.
i've just wasted like 5 minutes of my life.
your response is backwards…you can kiss me and let me taste myself after oral sex but I cant in turn do the same to you. A real man is okay with it cause it's something you all share…thats if you can trust him! Plus afterwards your not gonna hold the mess in ya mouth anyways
No kissing after head for anybody–period dot. Always has been.
nice stuff….but will not give any comment, just reading comment….haaahh