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Is Blood Really Thicker Then Water?
Posted in Life, Sexual Intellectuals, Style, Tales of a virgin, Uncategorized on 25. Jun, 2009
Written by Marvelous Mo for Blogxilla.com
So it was my sophomore (or junior) year in high school when the notice got out that an all boys private high school in Harlem was throwing a dance and they extended their invitation to our school. Being in an all girl Catholic high school was a BITCH, so any type of testosterone involved I tried to be around it. At the dance, which happened to be during the height of the Coogi phenomenon, I spotted this guy [Let's call him JEFF] who was checking me out. We danced, exchanged numbers and I left smiling on cloud nine. It wasn’t long when he asked me on a date and introduced me to his funny friends. We talked and hung out more, but my mom grew concerned at how much time I was hanging with this guy on my weekends. Mom proposed that she speak with his mom just so she can figure out what type of person I’m hanging out with. While I’m on AOL chatting in a chatroom and doing homework (by the way, AIM-ing casually & doing homework isn’t even possible to do), my Mom calls me in the kitchen while she’s wiping a tear from her eyes from all the laughter she experienced in her phone call. With hardly any self composer, she attempts to tell me, “Hun, I don’t know how to tell you this but… ::blurted giggle:: JEFF is your cousin! ::roaring laugh on both ends of the phone::
Somehow, our parents found it funny, but I was left with a dilemma. I kind of liked this guy but he’s my cousin. We already kissed and he implied that he wanted to do some other things to me by trying to tell me through 112’s song “Peaches & Cream” (that I totally didn’t get until he just bluntly said it), but now I’m finding out he’s my cousin. Hmm …. although he wasn’t really blood related, just through marriage, it was still a creepy ass situation to the point of me breaking it off. Til this day, I am SO thankful that I was young, a prude, a virgin & totally disconnected from the world of sex because you know I would have took that peen down. He had a huge one…it was thick. I nearly fainted when I felt it. smh…
Today, not much has changed with me besides having experienced a few men in my life (a story & question I’ll share with you perhaps next week) including my stance on this type of situation. However, in the moment of need and desire, your brain and body tends to blend the code of ethics that normally would be fair and stern during any time of a normal circumstance. It’s hard to fathom incest or to even try and understand the justification behind a person sexing their cousin or step relative, but it happens more often than you think. The all mighty Morgan Freeman has had some trouble in paradise where it was recently discovered that he took down his step granddaughter’s putang . If I’m not mistaken, he’s been hitting that since she was 17 years old. As a woman who loves her father, the thought of taking down a step relative makes me want to jump into a cage of lions. I even thought about circumstances where nobody would EVER find out about us and still, I prefer to circumcise my clit off my body…
But I do live for a freak tale. 
The platform is all yours!
QUESTIONS:
- Have you ever thought about having intercourse with your relative?
- Have you had sex with a step cousin, distant cousin, step sibling, step parent…? If so, was it only a one time thing, or was this a continuous relationship?
- If you currently have a relative who is fuckable, under what circumstances would you be in inorder for you to have a fling with them?
- What are your personal views on taking down a socially forbidden person?
Disclaimer: In no shape or form will I judge you if you have or have not crossed the line to bite into the forbidden fruit.
Plenty of damn attractive women in the family but hell no! The sea is full of fish and my family comes froma very small pond. Thanks anyway.
daaaaaaaaamn. i don't have many relatives in my age range so i have never had that dilemma. i also don't date white people so it's safe to assume i am not related to the person i am attracted to. i guess i wouldn't be totally grossed out if it was distant cousins through marriage or adoption (someone else, not me). but those people on maury that are brother/ sister or father/daughter, that shit is revolting. i think socially forbidden mind sets should always be tested, but that shit is wrong. that's why when people have incestuous relationships result that in children, the kids come out retarded (literally). that's god telling you to cut that shit out
No….
No…N/A
N/A…
I think if the person is truly NOT a blood relative and you didn't grow up together as family members (like in your case) it's not that big of a deal so it might could work (yes, I said “it might could” LOL) but you have to be willing and able to withstand the constant defense and explanation of your “relationship” if you decide to make it public
It was 4th of july and we were at one of my mom's family member's barbecue… and there were a lot of ppl there and there was this guy and we'll can him [[DERRICK]]… Now [[DERRICK]] was like the sexiest brown complected dude i've ever seen… I was like 13/14 and I was flirting with him hard and I had went to find one of my aunts and ask the name of [[DERRICK]] and she said oh, Sadie baby, that's my son… why don't I introduce ya'll? Needless to say my eyes got big as hell becuase so many thoughts were running thru my mind about what I would do to him… I felt really awkward and dirty about it but at the same time like damn… if we weren't cousin bwoi! bwoi! LOL…
But nah… I couldn't do it!
That line in my family is deep-and no one crosses it, not even for non-blood “play cousins”. And I wouldn't want to cross it – I came up with all my non-blood “cousins”- they're like brothers to me. It would have been really weird since we call the same people auntie and grandma. *shudders*
you got problems posting this shit. incest? seriously?
I experienced the same thing recently. A few months ago, I met this guy and he had it all!! So, I was talking to my mom one day and he texted me. Since his name is hella unusual, when I said it aloud, my mama bursted out laughing and said we were somewhat related. I was crushed!!! His parents said it was true too, but his dad encouraged him to “get on it!!” lol. We continued to talk and almost had a serious relationship but we broke it off about two months ago.
If he were a distant BLOOD relative, I'd feel bad but we were/are related by marriage, and aren't even sure of that.
I don't care how far removed a family member they are… It is not happening. Blood is blood. Even with people i class as family (who are not blood) Just don't go there. But hey each to their own, i don't like to be judged and i try not to judge anyone in return. Hoooohummmmm
i have friends who have actually told me of fucking their “marriage cousins”… but til this day they deny that they any kin. LMAO!
i've been in a situation like this where i was digging this girl until i found out she was my cousin thru marriage. after i found out though i was turned ALL THE WAY off. hmm.. what about in laws? do they count?
LMAO @ “turned ALL THE WAY off.”
I think in-laws might be ok depending on the level of “in-lawdom” – I mean know sisters who married guys who are brothers if that's the level of in-law you're talkin about……now if a wife is gettin it in with her husband's brother or father then, aside from the cheating aspect, that's clearly no bueno :-O
RIGHT! And it's something about sisters marrying brothers that just doesn't sit right with me, I can't get with that.
Oh, and what about cousins of cousins??
yeah i was talking about the sister-in-law and the brother-in-law aspect of things…
yeah i'm wondering about that cousins of cousins too…but i think that's coo…
See I think it's kind of cute sisters with brothers the only down side is if one of the couples break up the other couple is literally in the middle and it makes for very uncomfy family gatherings…I'm a clean breaks girl so when I'm done “I'm done” and I don't wanna see your ass at x-mas dinner…LOL
Cousins of cousins, same thing, and then there's always the risk of the cousin you have in common taking the other cousins sideif things go wrong…UGH…too much involved, I'd rather f*ck a stranger
That's a hard line to cross, even with inlaws or cousins by marriage it just doesn't sit right with me. My cousins ex wife has some fine cousins ( that I eye fucked the whole wedding reception) but as far as stepping to I couldn't do it.
Thats some sick ass shit… Marvelous you nasty as hell for posting ( no even thinking about this shit).. Can you say incest.. But I cant blame you, you probably dont know any better.
I 'd be lying if i said i didnt…they were distant cousins maybe like 4th cousins but they are still blood and that shit is just not right…and my family is too close either it be 1st..2nd…or 6th cousins…we all grew up knowing of each other and such.. and i would never do it..cause the last thing i need is for these old bitties(aunts) to start telling the whole family about so and so child committing incest…and west indian bitties love a story.. my take on this whole this is to not even fucking go there…shit is nasty..
in my mind..people who are considered cousins by marriage are no relative of mine…we share no blood…only a common person…soooooo
true… true…
NO
HELL NO
NOPE
Family off limits PERIOD.
Me personally, Neva eva… ughhh
But in my family my mothers little brother had a child with my Dad's youngest sister.. And my Uncles married sisters.. I find the whole situation mighty unsettling.. But I try not to think about it…..
im still fucking my “cuzin”.
We have had a physical relationship for about 4 years now. about 2 years ago while i was at my younger brother house, i called him(cuzin) to come pick me up. Because i am adopted i dont deal with my biological family frequently but when cuz walked in the door his jaw dropped, my younger brother is his favorite little cuzin. I dont know how i didnt know since him and baby bro could have been twin if not for a height difference.
i thought about ending it a few time but then i say fuck i, im not tryna make no babies with him or settle down, hell our relationship is primarily ORAL anyway. When he gets on my nerves or i dont feel like dealing with him i go into this spiel about how wrong we are anyway and “end” it.
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Me and cousin grew up close enough and it always bugged me how when we hung out she would get mad when i spoke to other women. She later told me that she had a crush on me but i thought, our grandmothers grew up together, our mothers grew up together and call themselves sisters. Hell people who grew up with them think they are sisters. So i didn't do it as much as i wanted to with her beautiful self. It still makes family bbq's feel funny and we were in our teens when this happened.
N0W WITH MY FAMILY…MY UNCLES WAS WHORING IT AROUND BACK IN THE DAY…WITH PLENTY OF FEMALES
SO I HAVE HUNDREDS PROBABLY THOUSANDS SHIT MILLIONS OF COUSINS A BITCH DONT EVEN KNOW ABOUT
LOL
N0W WEN I WAS IN HIGHSCHOOL IT WAS THIS GIRL I DIDNT REALLY LIKE
SHE WAS A HOE BASICALLY AND I DIDNT LIKE THAT SHE CHILLED AROUND MY BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME
COME TO FIND OUT THAT CHICK IS MY COUSIN FRM MY UNCLE
SO ME AND THE GIRL GOT COOL AFTA SHE TOLD MY MOTHER AND AUNTS THAT I DIDNT LIKE HER…AND SAID SHE WAS A HOE(WHICH SHE WAS BY THE WAY)
S0 I G0 TO HER BL0CK AND THIS WAS IN THA BRONX AND SHE SAY WAIT THERE'S MY BROTHER UR COUSIN YOU WANNA MEET HIM
IM LIKE YEA I WANNA MEET MY COUNSIN
IM THINKIN THIS LIL NIGGA GONNA BE WILD UGLY
LMAO
DONT KNOW WHY I WAS THINKIN THAT
BUT HERE WALK UP THIS TALL 15 YEAR OLD BOY(I WAS 17 AT THA TIME) HALF BLACK AND PR WITH SOME LONG PRETTY HAIR
AT THAT MOMENT I HATED MY UNCLE FOR EVEN MAKIN THIS NIGGA
I WANTED HIM BUT I COULDNT CUZ HIS AZZ WAS BLOOD
LONG STORY I KNOW BUT TO END IT
ME AND HIM GOT REAL CLOSE…TELL EACH OTHA EVERYTHING GO TO HIS HOUSE AND JUS LAY DOWN AND TALK ABOUT NIGGAS AND BITCHS TOGETHER
BUT DAMN HOW BACK THEN I WANTED HIS LIL AZZ
AND IM 19 NOW….NOT SOO LONG AGO
this happened to my uncle. he met this chick at a club and was feeling her or whatever and then he saw her ass at one of our lil family get togethers and turned out she was his cousin. talk about awkward!
I am going to say this. Chris Tucker is my cousin. I am not joking or lying. We are BLOOD cousin(third gen). I had the hugest crush on him when he was in his Smokey days. I mean big crush and my young self wanted to do some thangs with him…until my dad told me in 10th grade when he went to one of our distant family members funerals that we were related.
I was so mad because even though I know more than likely we wouldn't cross paths like that…but it was the principle. Dang though I wish we were closer family wise because I am broke though.
lmao!
My cousin's cousin and I are a day apart and when we were about 16 or so whe all spent the Christmas holiday together @ my cousin's father's house…she had a boyfriend and it was just me (kinda fat @ the time) and her male cousin to keep each other company…we always liked each other, so one night we just did it….it was good for teenage sex I guess…lol, after that when we would see each other we'd always smile @ each other….recently we saw each other after years of not talking, we're both 27, it was pretty awkard, but I don't regret sleeping with my cousin's cousin…lol
Yea. Slept with my cousin by marriage. Slept with my real cousin for years, (she hates me now though, but i didn't tell you to give it up). Slept with my aunt's best friend's daughter (play cousin). Went to Jamaica for a funeral, and turns out my dad's neice was staring me down until she found out who I was (shit I look just like my pops). I mean, now, I would never do anything like that, but we were young. I just act like it didn't happen.
im almost positive ive read a post from about not dating single mothers? please feel free to correct me if im wrong. do i smell another double standard?