Baby Mama’s And Exes Can Still Get It

Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships on Jun 16, 2009

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I think she is still letting her baby daddy smash. Why else would he call her at all times of the night, and stress her out, about stupid things? It leads me to think, how many people will still let an ex smash? I mean it makes perfect sense to me, especially if they ended on good terms. I know I have a few ex’s I can still slide up in if I wanted to or pushed hard enough. So, why not f*ck an ex?

I mean, I can honestly see why a person would continue to sleep with an ex. The main reason is they know what to expect when it comes to sex. There is a level of comfort that the two people share with each other. In today’s world of sex and viruses, it’s a little less stressful to lay with someone you have already been with.

So when that phone call comes from an ex, or you bump into them somewhere in town and you start to get those old feelings because you realize they still have that something that send chills down your spine. What will you do? Exchange numbers, or send a text saying it was nice to see you again? It is here where your strength is really measured and tested. Mainly because there is a very legitimate reason this person is your ex. Either he cheated on you, or she was to preoccupied with other things, or just didn’t know how to cuff the balls right. There is some very valid reason this person is your ex.

Now if it wasn’t them, but you what steps do you take to get back into their life? Surely she misses the way you used to lay it on her, every time the two of you had sex. I know when I see an ex, I cannot help but think of that amazing head she gave me.

So let’s have a conversation, would you still sleep with an ex? If not why, and if so what is the deciding factor in your reasoning?

Let’s talk

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  • texasbelle86
    hmmmm honestly i would hook up with an ex and thats just b/c
    im celibate and if i REALLY REALLY wanted some i'd rather give it up to someone i know is full of shit vs someone who will later become full of shit.
    =]
  • Andrea
    I agree wit you on that
  • damn
    YOU DONT HAVE TO TRY AS HARD WITH EXES
  • Janee
    nah...because i never had sex with the ex or for that matter , my other two ex's before that.... i knew from the time i meet this man i wasnt gonna ever sleep with him...i liked him, he was sweet, treated me right, had the equipment,but he looked like he would waste my time, i just knew that man didnt know how to use what he was blessed with..so i didnt bother...so no i would not smash
  • jay
    good blog... i still sleep with my ex...we saw each other again like 11/2008 and been hitting it off ever since...
    no need to try the relationship thing again cus he's sure it wont work...but im satisfied with the sex...why complicate things all over again.....
  • Oohkeekee
    100,000% in agreement... Some ppl aren't made for each other relationship wise... so lets just keep fuckin till we find that person
  • Fab & Single
    most def especially if we decided that we were better off being friends and the sex was good. Damn, you just gave me an idea - why not call him i only thought about how it use to drive it home so right. Thanks!
  • Miss Beasley
    I wouldn't sleep with any of my exes. The main reason being that I would probably catch feelings again and forget why we broke up.

    However, if I saw my most recent ex it would be hard. He was by far the best I ever had. I mean every time was better than the last. He was so sensual and thorough. You know what, he would be the exception.

    I've been trying hard to forget this man! Damn you Xilla!
  • black_barbi510
    I have slept with an ex before, and at the time it was cool, but eventually I caught feelings again and it didnt work out. So I probably would never do it again. As far as my baby daddy, he'll never get it again!
  • Belly
    LADIES...what if your ex is married now? would u still go after it?
  • babydoll
    Hell no
  • babydoll
    I still understand u wanting to sex ur EX if u both are single. But if u gonna still have sex with ur BMs and BD, just get married and call it a muthf*ckin day. THAT is what is killing black relationships right now. Ya'll already got a family, he comes over to "smash" , you are emotionally connected, the only thing missing is maturity to take it to the next level.

    I might of took it too far lol. But if he's ur ex, there is a reason for it. No sense in sleeping with him, just because its comforting to sleep with him & u know what to expect, he is probably smashing 2 or 3 different girls too. And chicks do the same thing. I am good on that. That is just too many fluids being passed around.

    But to each its own.....
  • quantumPeach
    i don't sleep with my exes because it can confuse things. now, I am trippin because a while ago a male friend posted a question on FB asking ladies "what do we expect them (the ex) to say when we run into each other" I swear to you that paragraph 3 of your post is literally what I shared as a comment on his page!
  • HappyToBeNappy
    I am sleeping with an ex now. We dated almost 10 years ago & broke up after going thru a though situation. Since then I've dated several others & had a child. I hadn't seen or even thought about my ex in years until I ran into him at a bar one night. We exchanged numbers & starting talking alot. We worked thru those old issues we had & just realized we still enjoyed spending time together. We are not dating & never will again. . .we have different goals in life & it would never work. But he knows what I like & I would much rather fulfill my needs with someone I'm already comfortable with.

    Before hooking back up with him I would have said there was no way I would ever sleep with an ex. I can still say that about my son's father. There is no way in hell I would ever sleep with him again! LOL
  • Oohkeekee
    If I'm with no one else at the time...
    HELL YEA!!!!! MY EX COULD GET IT... Out of the handful of people I've had sex with.... No one came close with the pipe game. I mean home boy turned my ass into betty crocker... I cooked, cleaned, everything... He had that stroke that made me stutter... perfect fit everything....

    Think I'ma send a txt right now... BRB

    LOL... I kiid...
    We ended on bad terms... so none of that... but the thought was nice..

    Now I'm disappointed
  • i usually try to go ahead and leave the ex's in the past. feelings get caught up either on ur end or the opposite. i got a ex that i haven't messed with in over 2 years, but i still believe i can hit though... but naaaaaaah.. i'll pass.
  • Blacksand
    I can't do it. Not today, tomorrow or anytime after that. It is best to let sleeping dogs lie.
  • I still hit my ex when she comes to town. A couple of them actually.
  • Shelly
    In all honesty, I would hook up with an ex especially if he had good pimp game and the relationship didn't end on horrible terms.

    I have an ex hitting me up every other week via text but I won't and its only because I am a faithful women but if I was single ... I would jump all 206 of his bones!
  • Monz
    Nice post. I personally hook up with my ex everyonce in a while, but I def. think it has to do with your situation. For us, we were never that serious in the first place, so this is just like a different phase of our relationship. Also, I totally agree with the comfort thing, like I was about to hook up with some new dude, and I was all nervous about it, wondering if i would put myself in an unsafe situation or something, and then i was like, pause, why don't i just call up my ex? same result with less work and drama. However, in reference to the beginning of your post, i think if shorty is still lettin him call her and stress her out and give her trouble, that's pushing it because he's crossing the line from casual hookup back into boyfriend which is not where you wanna be
  • VenteMocha
    I agree with there being that level of comfort.
  • OrangeStar616@gmail.com
    Sleeping with exes and Bm's/BD's keeps you tied to that situation more than some on here would admit I'm sure, and it prevents you from TRULY moving on , plus its just messy :-? ...Geesh.... common sense, character and self discipline are surely in lacking the world SMH
  • onebaddboo
    sex with an ex...definately depends on the situation but in my case I would have to say "im good", I can (literally) do bad all by myself!!!

    I don't think you ever really move on from someone until you can say no to that opportunity of hooking up again. There's only a slim population of people that could separate sex from past problems and current reality and I'm proud to say "that ain't me!"

    Have I ever slipped up, probably. will I ever do it again, probably but definately not something I want to make a habit of!!!!!!
  • I've slept with an ex before but when him and I were together I was a virgin and I slept with him well after my first time. It was just the comfort of familiarity the bad decision on my part was that I knew he was taken and it was multiple encounters
  • Yonni
    Hell yea, my ex still gets it. Nobody lays pipe/head game like him. I don't even go anywhere looking for sex. When you got great a phone call away its no use getting alright.
  • DEN 111
    My ex, i am still working on fucking her. God this girl got most of the action i need. i love it when i suck her and when she suck my breast
  • Dre
    Me and my ex ended because we were in different places in our lives, so whenever I am in town we get it on like rabbits. No sex is like ex sex, you know what to expect and don't have to worry about all the added baggage.
  • hissweetestdream
    Mayne this is probably one of the worst things about me. I never leave a relationship on bad terms. Sooo my exes are always more then willing. And when you a good women with some good women stuff then head is always included. I don't make it a regular thing, but sometimes exes are just more fun. Plus the best part about it is that after you refuse access to the warm and gushy and make them off theyselves all over your back you don't have to worry about them calling for at least 2-3 months. Even if you bump into them every other weekend at the after hours.
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