Comments on: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:32:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: Mr. NO Bitches http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-17064 Mr. NO Bitches Tue, 16 Jun 2009 21:01:02 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-17064 Wow. Glad I don't have this problem. Phew.<br>You know the reason why self-proclaimed "bitches" always end up with male bitches, right? No real man or woman would ever be in a relationship with a bitch. Bitches attract bitches. Wow. Glad I don't have this problem. Phew.
You know the reason why self-proclaimed “bitches” always end up with male bitches, right? No real man or woman would ever be in a relationship with a bitch. Bitches attract bitches.

]]> By: Louis RICH http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-17056 Louis RICH Tue, 16 Jun 2009 20:16:26 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-17056 1st off responsibility has to come from both sides, somewhere along the way women stopped looking for men to be their heroes & started to become their own. It definitely is a role reversal because of the lack of respect that we have for one another as people, that's why you have situations like chris brown/Rihanna some women are taught at a young age that the man should take care of the women, so when a woman learns that she can take care of herself, she's like "what do I really NEED him for?" so she's prone to "Boss Up" to her man and either he's gonna react violently or leave altogether, as men we do need to take control of our lives starting with the choices we make. Women are choosing men based on their credentials (Degree, Good Career, Home Ownwership, no baby mamas, ambitious) and all we do is choose women based on how she looks or the size of her ass & breasts, then we wonder why we can't get along with our "baby's Mama" because we didn't choose based on "how can she make my life better" that's why there are more women in power positions than men & no doubt they deserve it because they worked hard for it, which is why your woman will take constructive criticism alot easier from a white man than from you, cause she doesn't care about your struggle she feels if she can do it why can't you! I don't think it would kill a woman to fall back a little let a man be a man and really let their guard down, you have the man you want, why are you still fighting yourself & him? But dudes need to MAN UP & take control of their lives cause when she's gone all you have is nothing, so it won't kill you to show some ambition & curb the hustla mentality & really use your talents to better your life (and not just rapping) everyone is good at something just manifest that. Women are the essence of love and right now that is lacking in relationships, right now couples are breaking up because of the economy, job loss & stress, but if there is unconditional love & respect there you truly can make it through the storm. 1st off responsibility has to come from both sides, somewhere along the way women stopped looking for men to be their heroes & started to become their own. It definitely is a role reversal because of the lack of respect that we have for one another as people, that's why you have situations like chris brown/Rihanna some women are taught at a young age that the man should take care of the women, so when a woman learns that she can take care of herself, she's like “what do I really NEED him for?” so she's prone to “Boss Up” to her man and either he's gonna react violently or leave altogether, as men we do need to take control of our lives starting with the choices we make. Women are choosing men based on their credentials (Degree, Good Career, Home Ownwership, no baby mamas, ambitious) and all we do is choose women based on how she looks or the size of her ass & breasts, then we wonder why we can't get along with our “baby's Mama” because we didn't choose based on “how can she make my life better” that's why there are more women in power positions than men & no doubt they deserve it because they worked hard for it, which is why your woman will take constructive criticism alot easier from a white man than from you, cause she doesn't care about your struggle she feels if she can do it why can't you! I don't think it would kill a woman to fall back a little let a man be a man and really let their guard down, you have the man you want, why are you still fighting yourself & him? But dudes need to MAN UP & take control of their lives cause when she's gone all you have is nothing, so it won't kill you to show some ambition & curb the hustla mentality & really use your talents to better your life (and not just rapping) everyone is good at something just manifest that. Women are the essence of love and right now that is lacking in relationships, right now couples are breaking up because of the economy, job loss & stress, but if there is unconditional love & respect there you truly can make it through the storm.

]]> By: Who Dat http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16938 Who Dat Fri, 12 Jun 2009 18:18:55 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16938 To be honest you sound like you take pride in having the traits of a MAN. Thats a problem, too many black women act like men, and then they wonder why black men cheat. No straight man wants to be with a man. A man is naturally dominant therefore if he isnt in that position he will eventually search to be in that position- its natural, so more than likely he will cheat on your dominant ass with a woman more submissive. Black women can learn a lot from white women and foreign women who still understand what it means to be a woman. So next time you want to be a "bitch" close our eyes and imagine being 45 years old lonely, unattractive and yearning for a companion. While the guy you were so proud of being a bitch to is banging some late 20-somethng year old chick laughing at your bitter ass. Get it together. To be honest you sound like you take pride in having the traits of a MAN. Thats a problem, too many black women act like men, and then they wonder why black men cheat. No straight man wants to be with a man. A man is naturally dominant therefore if he isnt in that position he will eventually search to be in that position- its natural, so more than likely he will cheat on your dominant ass with a woman more submissive. Black women can learn a lot from white women and foreign women who still understand what it means to be a woman. So next time you want to be a “bitch” close our eyes and imagine being 45 years old lonely, unattractive and yearning for a companion. While the guy you were so proud of being a bitch to is banging some late 20-somethng year old chick laughing at your bitter ass. Get it together.

]]> By: MsMelissa http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16910 MsMelissa Fri, 12 Jun 2009 03:47:26 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16910 wow wow

]]> By: Moon http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16905 Moon Fri, 12 Jun 2009 01:24:07 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16905 This is a good one! I am guilty of acting this way but I def blame it on being young. I was just out of high school dealing with a guy I had known since grade school. He wanted to get serious and I was not having it and would not return phone calls when he would call too much or say little smart ish (not too bad).<br>However as I got older/mature I realized dude never grew out of his bitchness!<br>A decade later he will not let me live down things I said when I was 15-18.<br>We NEVER had sex because after we finaly got hot and heavy at age 24 he sat up in the bed, put his head down and said.."you don't want me in there". <br>AAAAGHH! I got up, put my clothes on and left! Im 30 now and just last year he asked a relative to tell me to call him. HELL NAW! He is a lifetime Bitchboy! This is a good one! I am guilty of acting this way but I def blame it on being young. I was just out of high school dealing with a guy I had known since grade school. He wanted to get serious and I was not having it and would not return phone calls when he would call too much or say little smart ish (not too bad).
However as I got older/mature I realized dude never grew out of his bitchness!
A decade later he will not let me live down things I said when I was 15-18.
We NEVER had sex because after we finaly got hot and heavy at age 24 he sat up in the bed, put his head down and said..”you don't want me in there”.
AAAAGHH! I got up, put my clothes on and left! Im 30 now and just last year he asked a relative to tell me to call him. HELL NAW! He is a lifetime Bitchboy!

]]> By: candyangel23 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16903 candyangel23 Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:17:36 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16903 my bad but thx for understanding XILLA u d man my bad but thx for understanding XILLA u d man

]]> By: themavenreport http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16896 themavenreport Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:37:50 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16896 If a dude is a bitch on the inside, it's gonna come out one way or another. The bitch in him can only be suppressed so long and that's who he really is. If a dude is a bitch on the inside, it's gonna come out one way or another. The bitch in him can only be suppressed so long and that's who he really is.

]]> By: SassyScorpio http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16894 SassyScorpio Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:16:24 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16894 OKAAAAY....tell em way you mad girl. I agree 100%. OKAAAAY….tell em way you mad girl. I agree 100%.

]]> By: hazysin http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16891 hazysin Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:05:21 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16891 Sassy!!!!....girl let me tell u. I have been screaming role reversal for years. especially the eighties baby. These boys dont even want to begin to accept the responsibility of being a man. <br><br>My boyfriend and i are going through it right now because as he says, i have an "aggressive" personality. Someone has to have the backbone in this situation. I feel that if his mother hadn't coddled him for 25 fucking years i would have to talk to him/treat him like hes my 2nd son. <br><br>Xilla, sure we as women we do things to bring the pussy out of a guy but truth...if he was a MAN, the would be no pussy. If he were a MAN and took care of responsibilities as a MAN, he would not have any issues. This top his a special part of me because any male who has accepted role his ROLE as a man...doesnt have any bitch in him. I would haven't have to wear the pants...if my MALE wasn't so comfortable in a skirt!!!!! Sassy!!!!….girl let me tell u. I have been screaming role reversal for years. especially the eighties baby. These boys dont even want to begin to accept the responsibility of being a man.

My boyfriend and i are going through it right now because as he says, i have an “aggressive” personality. Someone has to have the backbone in this situation. I feel that if his mother hadn't coddled him for 25 fucking years i would have to talk to him/treat him like hes my 2nd son.

Xilla, sure we as women we do things to bring the pussy out of a guy but truth…if he was a MAN, the would be no pussy. If he were a MAN and took care of responsibilities as a MAN, he would not have any issues. This top his a special part of me because any male who has accepted role his ROLE as a man…doesnt have any bitch in him. I would haven't have to wear the pants…if my MALE wasn't so comfortable in a skirt!!!!!

]]> By: SassyScorpio http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/06/10/maybe-you-bring-out-the-btch-in-him/comment-page-1/#comment-16888 SassyScorpio Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:43:17 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=6790#comment-16888 Okay so I may be a little guilty but I tell men upfront I AM A BITCH, if you can't handle my smart ass comments and my sarcastic, fuck it mentality then you may not wanna stick around. I don't take too much serious and so that is why I come off the way I do. It seems like we as women are getting stronger and men seem to become weaker. Kinda like role reversal. It may come from a lack of father figures and being raised by only their mothers but men ya'll need to get tougher skin. Okay so I may be a little guilty but I tell men upfront I AM A BITCH, if you can't handle my smart ass comments and my sarcastic, fuck it mentality then you may not wanna stick around. I don't take too much serious and so that is why I come off the way I do. It seems like we as women are getting stronger and men seem to become weaker. Kinda like role reversal. It may come from a lack of father figures and being raised by only their mothers but men ya'll need to get tougher skin.

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