FTV: You’re Too Old To Still Date Thugs

Posted in Uncategorized on Jun 02, 2009

 

Today when you’re at lunch, walking through your local office park look around the eating area. I’ll bet you’ll see a woman reading a piece of urban lit, True to the Game 3, Bad Girlz 4 Life or any other novel written by someone fresh out of jail. Woman like thugs, d-boys and men with bullet holes or stab wounds etched on there skin. I think for the hope of one day having their life resemble one of their favorite books with out the bloody ending. Yet in the age of straight legged jeans and big man scarfs is the thug still appealing or is his sex appeal starting to sag?

Style – As complicated as woman are, they are the simple at the same time. A tattoo, a wife beater and a pair of Jordans can make a woman gush with moisture. An oversized Yankee fitted hat covering the brow can automatically make a man marriage material.

Talk – Broken grammar, slang and curse words can make a woman feel like she’s living on the edge. The risk of losing it all drives her to give more. All for the love of the challenge.

But, the most important reason woman still dig the thug, is because most thugs know how to FCK. We are not talking about makin love, going downtown or whispering sweet nothing in her ear. We are talking about spankings, hair pulling, choking, and calling her dirty names during the act. Its rough, mildly painful and highly enjoyable and may happen anywhere.

Good sex can make a woman put up with loudness, drug paraphernalia, warrants, baby mama’s and putting stuff in their name. As long as the backstroke is there, the mind can not function right, so although thugs are going out of style, they still are a prominent force in dating.


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  • Janee
    Im not gonna lie,,,i like thugs..i like their look and their edge,roughness,aggressiveness, and all that...BUT i def would not date one..maybe a fake suburb "thug" but never the real thing...i will just admire from a distance...no matter how good they could put it down...i can do without the drama, babymama's and all that other ish..
  • Miss Sia
    I dont like thugs. I never have. Never tried to fool myself even after reading The Coldest Winter Ever but thats not MY thing. Thugs can stay over there.
  • HappyToBeNappy
    Yes I am too old to date thugs. . .that's why I don't date em. They do know how to slang the D, so I keep one on standby for that reason & that reason alone.
  • ChinyereCouture
    Haha, not me. I grew up in the suburbs (but was still around black people all the time, so I'm not "whitewashed" lol) so I really appreciate a man who puts alot more into his overall look, and can articulate. As far as the sex thing goes...cosign on that part. =] That's the only reason I'd still "fck a thug"... but the attraction stops THERE.
  • HeadMistress
    I cannot tell a lie *hangs head in shame* I am/was a thug magnet

    And the more shiftless he is, the better he fucks, but anyway I have grown and I do resist the urge to partake in the joys of Thug Lovin at all costs

    "I am too old to still date thugs"

    "I am too old to still date thugs"

    "I am too old to still date thugs"

    "I am too old to still date thugs"

    "I am too old to still date thugs" (copy and paste 95 mo' times)
  • nynikki
    Don't hang your head, you're not alone! LOL. We can stop dating them, but dammit the attraction still lingers.

    Xilla, I live right near the stadium and still love a youngin' in a Yankee fitted. *sigh*
  • HeadMistress
    You ain't lyin 'bout the lingerin!

    Guuuurrrlll I will pray for you cause Yankee Stadium is the devil...LOL
  • lol that attraction is no joke!!
  • lol, was this for me??!! i used to date thugs religiously, especially in college. it was the environment and the things i was doing at the time. thugs are cute to look at, but even if i wasn't married i am so far beyond that. a good fuck can only last so long and no, you will not be hiding ur shit in my house and no, do not call me when u get ur dumb azz gets locked up and no, i will not loan u money so you can flip this and that. pshhh, been there and done that. as far as what catches my eye, i am not necessarily into dudes who wear the tight shirts and the crocodile shoes but it is the dude who wears the nice true religion jeans, timbs and hat with a nice haircut or the cutie in the polo or preppy type gear. and i refuse to read those ghetto love stories, lol
  • Babii face
    you aint neva lied!!!!!
  • get like me
    HA HA XILLA I LIKES THIS POST...I LIKE GUYS WHO JUST HAVE A SPINE AND THEIR PANTS DONT SWAG. ITS 09, NO REASON FOR THAT
  • EbonyLolita
    Hi 5 on this post. I stopped dating Thugs in H.S. Why? I moved on to college and the opportunities that I wanted to have open to me could be compromised by the "Thug or Thug culture" It's all fun and games till your asking your Mamma fi bail money or getting yoked up "on the block" So, I did what most women should do. Moved on :) I agree whole heartedly, women leave the Thugs to the Thugettes :)
  • yes
    that street talkin whatever u want to call it is a complete turnoff
    slang is no problem I dont speak proper on a regular basis, but that lifestyle is something I hope guys grow out of, seems like the suburbian guys grow into it after high school
    still trying to understand that.....
  • maymajesty
    Nah, I'll pass. Not interested one iota. I like my face too much lol.
  • Sunset
    I've never been into thugs either. But I agree that they will maintain their promenance on the dating scene.
  • Fab & Single
    Cant do the Thug - you must have a clean criminal background(no domestic abuse, no felonies, no drug, stealing or guns.Plain and simple thugs are not for me. I want a brother to stimulate my mind as well as my ass - alot of educated and/or skilled brothers know how to slang that D - at least the ones I have had. Anyway who wants a man who can buy a pair of jordans but cant buy you a drink - oh me - I forgot one of his many hoodrats bought those Jordans while her babyboy is running around in LIt Them Ups
  • Tyra
    One things for sure, I'm currently fuckin a college graduate who's the best I ever had like Drake
  • Fancee
    BLOG ON XILLA. This about the best blog topic EVER....luv. Thou art very truthful and highly favored.

    Now you talking about a real man and styling and profiling them sagging jeans and I just love to see him pulling and holding them -you know what I mean, rearranging that furniture. It turns me on. I'll start to blushing....

    Don't mention that grille when he SMILEZ and can talk slang and broken grammar...ah man ITZ ON! lol Now you talkn my type of man.

    You are right so on it -bullet holes and stab wounds the ultimate street credibility. Tinted windows and spinning wheels and any kinda way
    driving ,lol. Carrying those big thingz if you no what I mean.

    The most important reason women still dig the thug, is because most thugs know how to FCK,- he ain't got no pride and no shame in his game when he do his little trick- "better hold tight cuz I ain't scared." Spankings, hair pulling, choking, and calling her dirty names during the act; its rough, mildly painful and highly personable,to each its on. It all goes with the territory. Love that credibility and swagger. It ain't no better luv.
  • good sex seems to make women extra retarded. I guess that's not too far fetched, seeing as though anytime you watch Tyra, Oprah, or something like that, there's some study saying 40% of women over 30 never had an orgasm.
  • Fancee
    Orgasm is the worst thing a woman can do or allow a man to 2 know. From that point on she has lost control.
  • E-THUG
    A LITTLE SLUTTY BUT I GUESS SHES RIGHT
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