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7 Dumb Arguments You Have In A Relationship
Posted in Relationships on 22. May, 2009
Being in a relationship is a wonderful thing, but it does have it’s downfalls. The biggest downfall to a relationship is arguing over dumb shit. These topics include, but are not limited to:
Agruing for:
- Not answering the phone. – If you don’t trust me enough to not be available at your every whim then maybe you need to find a new boo, before I don’t take any of your calls.
- Frivolous shit - Like toliet paper, too much hot sauce on my curly fries, or I bought %2 milk rather than whole milk. Really? Can’t you bring your black ass to the store and get it yourself?
- Text Messages – If you have to start a fight with me over a text message then something is seriously wrong with your mental stability. I read it, and maybe it didn’t demand a reply.
- Not giving a damn – Why are you mad at me for not getting mad, angry or happy for that matter? Maybe it didn’t move me or maybe I actually agree with your point without having to go through a whole explaination on why I do. An “Oh okay” should do.
- @’s – If I don’t @ you in a twitter I don’t expect to get into a heated debate with you where you mention Joe The Plumber 37 times in the course of an hour! Like really? Really? And while we are on the topic of social networking. Don’t get mad at me for shit other people put on my myspace, facebook page, blog. I don’t control these hoes. (By no way did I mean anyone is a hoe it’s a figure of speech) Did I say anything back to them?
- Remote Control - Yeah I can’t find the remote control, I looked for it, and I couldn’t find it. Do like I do and get your ass up and change the channel manually. It’s 3 steps at the most.
- Having it your way - If I go to the store for you, and you give me a list of demands longer than the demands of a hostage situation in Turkishstan for your double burger and I get one thing wrong… It is not my fault. Blame the dumb African who didn’t hire the “queen” when she applied for that job at McDonalds.
Check out what my friends on twitter said on page 2
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Im not one to argue…i avoid it at any cost cause im not good at it…and when i do get mad i really dont fuss, i just dissapear or get real quiet…so i would say all the fussing and things where coming from the other end and it was mainly about me 1) not calling enough or not answering my phone /txt right away, and not caring enough…but when i did get in the mood to argue i would find the dumbest shit to have heated arguments about…. like him sitting on my bed with his nasty street clothes.. or over some heffa who was all over him, and him not getting rid of her fast enough..or something he said that was stupid/ him being to nice..
OH MY GOD! if this was a chick writing this i would ask “did u date my ex-boyfriend?” that dude got mad over everything and wanted to argue over everything. at one point i had to ask “am i the one w/ the vagina or u?” geez. no lie, he hated when i bought 2% milk. that was one argument i could count on every 7days. HA! hell i couldve brough whole, but i dont drink whole milk. ridiculous, this post just hit home for me. i can relate extremely well to the whole list. good one Xilla.
Touché. This list was very necessary. Gotta love the “dumb shit”. Haha keep it up
A argument over Twitter is funny.
ha ha, good post! let's not argue about what you think i should be feeling or saying…. if i say i'm not upset let's just go with it because if not i might just get mad that you don't believe that i know me better than you do
Petty arguments stem from deeper issues that are masked. But not everyone is willing to admit to that. The toilet seat being left up, no “@” personalization on Twitter, uncontrollable wall/comment social networking postings, etc. is trivial compared to other more pressing problems. So, if you want to put up with your girl a little while longer, help her get to the root of her problems. Com'on, help a sista out..lol
I hate when ppl pick an argument over dumb sh*t also….lol….it makes no sense whatsoever
I don't like to argue…I try to avoid an argument and just stay quiet. If someone wants to go back and forth about something then I keep quiet and let them go on and on until they're tired lol