Comments on: Xilla PSA: Pimping Since Pimping Been Pimpin!

By: SkyBlu

SkyBlu — Sun, 17 May 2009 19:33:14 +0000

LOL I watch this show faithfully every week. I remember this crazy arse dude. The ones getting caught always be more upset than the ones that were cheated on. I think he whooped up on her quite a few times which is why she used Cheaters.

By: maymajesty

maymajesty — Wed, 13 May 2009 13:19:19 +0000

Lmao. This is one of the few cheaters episodes that I actually saw. I was speechless then and I'm speechless now.

Xilla, I can see that you're lonely cuz you have been mentioning it quite a bit in the last few weeks. I don't know your past, and you seem like a really cool guy, but dare I say you might be suffering from a bit of the big K (karma). I am a believer, and had to learn the hard way that what comes around goes back around. I think eventually you will find your mate and be happy as a lamb. Don't give up.

I do believe in love. I'm soon to be back on the market after a failed marriage of an 11yr relationship. I was not shown an example of a good relationship, and I had to figure out what my needs and wants are. Sadly, my soon-to-be-ex didn't fit most of it. I was in such a rush to be in a relationship, that I let my standards slip and I didn't see (didn't want to) some flags that I should have seen. Whew now that that's off my chest, lol...

By: magoo

magoo — Wed, 13 May 2009 10:11:02 +0000

As far as the clip goes, if he was a real g he would have made her ass get in the car.

As far as the post, I kinda feel you on the women being selfish but everyone is out for themselves now and days, so personally I kind of expected. I do agree with another poster in thinking that you should find someone to complement you but even thats difficult, good luck to you and as soon as you stop looking you'll find her(thats the bu!!$hit that say, don't know how much truth is in that but I'm done looking).

By: nynikki

nynikki — Wed, 13 May 2009 09:56:22 +0000

Men who think a woman can't do nothing for them usually end up with women who don't give a damn about them. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. As for Jay-Z saying Bleek > his wife, it's fucked up but that's between Jay and B.

Xilla, do you let your woman know that you're down for her? Usually a woman is a lot more understanding of a man's time away from home when she knows for sure there's an “us/we” thang goin' on. (From a woman once accused of being unappreciative.)

By: FanceeFoxx

FanceeFoxx — Wed, 13 May 2009 08:29:33 +0000

He is an old man with a big ego and don't let him fool you he all mouth probably. Xilla, I know what you mean about that corner pocket. Cuz that old man so abusive in the video -I feel sorry for him if he get sick or have to go to jail he want have neither one of them women in his corner.

Your blog topics are off the chain. Now to menton your page's image projected- your ease of graphics- the way you look in print is so professional. I don't know if you can -but right now I can't see how you could get any better. You practically own the net,Xilla.

By: toronto

toronto — Wed, 13 May 2009 07:46:47 +0000

you have to understand that women who tolerate this kind of behavior accept it because their tolerance comes from a place of deeper scarring. they didnt just wake up one morning with such messed up judgment. it takes a lot of work for someone to get to that point where they are so far removed from the basic principles of what is acceptable and unacceptable.

you have your:
daddy issues, mommy issues, she was probably used to seeing similar relationships since she was a child, or she has been in a constant cycle of dating no good men. and the most common of all LOW SELF ESTEEM

you'd be shocked to see what you are capable of if you let your self esteem drop to dangerously low levels. it ain't pretty and with enough bad encounters it can happen to any of us

By: ink

ink — Wed, 13 May 2009 07:03:52 +0000

wow. i was so shocked by that video. my mouth was literally hanging open towards the end of it.
ok, arguments do happen, and nothing is perfect. however, verbal and physical abuse of any kind should never be tolerated.
i think the diff btw arguments and abuse is that arguments are to make a point, and to take a relationship forward, while abuse is to tear the other person down and force them to your demands.
i hope xilla finds a chick who wont throw hell when he has to work, or play with his kids… as women we just have to find a balance between making our needs known and being unreasonable.
as for the man in the vid, he was just wrong, and for the 2 women, they obviously dont love themselves enough to walk away…
waiting is worth it baby, dont rush into nethin too sers…

By: The Jaded NYer

The Jaded NYer — Wed, 13 May 2009 06:24:05 +0000

That video... LMAO! I cannot deal with these two.

As for your post, I only have one thing to say: don't look for someone to complete you. Look for someone to complement you.

Only YOU can complete YOU, and no one wants to be with an incomplete human.

And so ends my Big Momma advice... god... I just showed my age LOL

By: HeadMistress

HeadMistress — Wed, 13 May 2009 04:11:38 +0000

Beating and cheating are definite deal breakers for me

By: taut_7

taut_7 — Wed, 13 May 2009 04:07:01 +0000

wow. is dude really an old school g though? not really.