5 Ways Essentials To A Female Orgasm

Posted in Rated Grown Up on May 05, 2009

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Hey Ladies! Are you tired of having sex, and not reaching the mountain top? Have you experienced peen small to big and still can’t get the O’Face? Well here is your guide to having a successful orgasm. 

Do you want to have an orgasm this week? Most times at the end of sex the female is left “near the mountain top” while the man is in dreamland… snoring. Not to worry ladies I’ve spoke with a few of my female friends and came up with a woman’s guide to achieving an orgasm.

  • High Expectations - As cliché as this may sound “you have to believe.” My ex Dee used to tell me that she knows she’s going to cum and it’s not a matter of when, but how. A lot of women just sit back and wait on the man to make her cum, even though there is nothing wrong with her taking charge of her own sexual eruption. Would you go into a restaurant and let the waiter pick what you’ll eat for dinner? So why leave your orgasm in his hands?
  • En Vogue - Some of you may remember their song “Free your mind and the rest will follow.” It’s the same way with sex. Women are genetically different than men so small things like a sink full of dirty dishes, or does he notice the stretch marks on her butt could hinder her ability to reach climax. So doing things like making sure you won’t get pregnant or cleaning the kitchen before sex could help boost her chance at achieving orgasm.

 

 

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  • HeadMistress
    @ "don’t worry about what a man thinks" - that is probably one of the best pieces of advice there is!

    We get all distracted and hinder ourselves from pleasure bein worried whether he notices all the shyt that WE think is wrong with us...meanwhile he's in his glory and all we have is high blood pressure from the stress...LOL

    Not to say you should let it all go to hell and be happy with bein sloppy or anything but the little BS things we stress about as women when it comes to our bodies never even cross most men's minds
  • 1AM
    *dead* @ "Not to say you should let it all go to hell and be happy with bein sloppy "
  • HeadMistress
    Hahaha - yeah, need the disclaimer in there...
  • hazysin
    I agree cuz.....I used to be preoccupied with what "he" thought when i disrobed that i may not even focus on the act itself......

    wasnt that a waste of f*cking energy!....Then one day this wonderful guy explained it to me, he said "if i didn't like everything about you, i wouldn't be standing here butt ass naked with you". After that i never fell self conscious again....and its way easier to focus on my satisfaction
  • DamnNearPerfect
    i definitely agree with you HeadMistress
    i used to get wrapped up about a little bulge here or there but now i figured we wouldnt be having sex if it mattered in the first place
  • HeadMistress
    Exactly - I say if it don't stop his d*ck from gettin hard it prob'ly ain't a problem
  • i think that women should be more selfish in bed. a man is going to get his no matter what so you should definitely focus on what turns you on. and you need to let your guard down, just let loose. when i was younger and less experienced i used to have so much on my mind, like how do i look in this position or does he like what i'm doing that i couldn't focus on myself. now that i'm older i know exactly what i want and it's all good
  • Trina
    If only it was that simple, Good tips but I have sex with my boyfriend all the time and never cum! I think a lot of it is the pressure of him expecting me to cum. Also men can come after a few minutes and I think we need a lot more time to get aroused. O well, there's always the bullet.
  • I think the free your mind tip and some culmination of the get dirty & stick to the script...sex can't always be cute but it CAN always feel good lol women need to stop worrying about all that superficial mess and get their just desserts ;-)
  • Fanceeoxx
    When you got the average guy you do need to stay focused. When you got a 5Star tantra your love is going to calm down anyway. He is just a good thang magic man with some serious moves on his conversation piece.
  • Janee
    Its so damn true and unfair...how come we get distracted so damn easily... eXample: I was getting down with a friend of mine..had a decent size but was thick as hell.. I couldnt even enjoy the shit cause i was so worried about this and that...plus i found myself thinking about weither or not i locked my car door...lls...i missed the O boat completely...while he got his.. damn ADD
  • i dated this one dude for about 2 years and the sex got so boring after awhile that i used to have to either smoke one or have a drink before we did it just so i could put myself in another zone and enjoy myself lol
  • Lady Jei
    Its 'show and tell' time. I have showed him in great detail what I need. And if I don't see (and feel) you giving me what I need, why amd I fuckin wit'chu??!?!?! LOL!
    If I am about pleasing you and you about pleasig me; we can both finish 'on top' and fall off into a deep coma-like sleep afterwards.
  • alot2say
    Alchohol helped out with the thinking too much problem i had only for me to have a different battle.I had a few experiences with guys who were too BIG and it was just painful.Ever since,I find myself concentrating on whether or not this person will tear up my insides rather than give me pleasure.Don't get me wrong, I dont want a puny N***a, but i want something i can work with..........................O yeah, and i think if a nigga can talk to me nice and nasty when were in action, thats very helpful.
  • imfresh
    I never know how to get an orgam til my current relationship. I figured out what I liked (i.e. legs together while he's lickin it, grabbin my ass with his hands).. I can't have cum unless my mind is totally clear and focused on sex.. I don't even like music or TV on in the background.. all I want to hear is him. Once i figured that out, forget it...I made sure I got an orgasm every time.
  • R.O.
    On the real, a woman's orgasms are whatever. Not important at all really. If I feel making a broad cum, then I will do that for my own enjoyment. I don't care if she liked it or not.
  • A man can make a woman cum just from sex...it just requires the right positions...prop her butt up on a pillow and put her legs up on your shoulders..hit that g-spot head on, and you can make her cum...or add some pressure to the clit every time you enter

    I wrote a blog about female orgasms yesterday...let me know what you think

    "How to Make a Woman Orgasm through Deeper Penetration; Cul-De-Sac Orgasms"
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