Sex Questions With Xilla + 1AM
Xilla:What was the craziest DM you got via twitter?
1AM: the craziest DM? … Lord I can’t even choose. I’ve gotten DM’s like “hey girl your mad cute” and I’ve gotten DM’s from guys telling me how they want to eat me out. Dudes have SO much internet confidence it’s astonishing.
how many questions are we at right now mister?
Xilla: 3
1AM: lol damn !
Xilla: Yeah I last for a long time and that doesn’t count as a question! lol
1AM: ok, you really put yourself out there in your blogs, do you ever feel pressured to perform a certain way when getting down with a lady you know has read your blog?
Xilla: Hell yeah, I tell everyone about my blog, I’m constantly promoting and when I meet a woman within a few days I hear a sparkle in their voice like I’ve read your blog… Then the pressure comes. So then for the rest of the time until we have sex, I spend it trying to lower the bar of expectation. But for the most part I tend to hit homeruns! You know knock them out the park! lol
Twitter wants to know what is your favorite position and why?
1AM: Probably me on top. Nothing like being in control and having the power to drive my man crazy while pleasuring myself. I think women are so self conscious in this position, but I know the things women are so worried about, the men don’t even care about! In the bedroom it HAS to be about having fun, I like to have fun 
As a man do you think that the best sex you have is with a women your emotionally connected with (be it in love\married or just getting to know each other) or with someone you really don’t think you’ll be more then fuck buddies with?
Xilla: A lot of people don’t understand that there is nothing compared to sex with feelings. Casual sex does not compare to sex with feelings. When feelings are involved the sex is so passionate and so dope! When feelings are involved it’s nothing for me to go down and lick your clit, spread your lips and insert my finger and really get it popping with my head game. If it’s just casual sex… she might get good d*ck or she might get some lazy d*ck it’s nothing. There is no comparison.
I am called the sexual intellectual for a reason, I love an intelligent woman, what geek qualities do you have?
1AM: The funny thing is, I’ve always been a lame lol. These looks really developed later on but as far as I’m concerned my inner geek is what has gotten me so far, so fast. I graduated high school early and I’m on my way to graduating college early. I read all the time, I write spoken word poetry and I google everything! I love to learn, and I pride myself on that, some women don’t understand how sexy it is to be intelligent and to be aware of what’s going on in the world. Same goes for a man, if he can’t stimulate my mind, he won’t stimulate my lady parts.
Everyone knows blogxilla is a sexpert, how about you tell the people something they don’t already know, outside of your sex life.
Xilla: I have the perfect sized dick! Nah seriously. Well I love the discovery channel and I watch MSNBC all the time. Not sure if people know that. But deeper than that I’m the product of a broken home. My dad used to beat my mom and I’m pretty sure I wasn’t a planned child. I may be the best mistake my mother ever made. I live for my daughters and I’m a fan of romance. Although I hate love. Go figure.
So 1AM if you could have a conversation with anyone dead or alive who would it be and what would you want to talk about?
1AM: Funny thing is I wrote a paper on this question in highschool and my answer still stands today. I would bring back my grandmother. She died on mothers day some years ago and everytime it gets to be around this time of year I start to get testy, just thinking about all the things I missed out on not having her around really upsets me and the fact that every Mother’s Day from that point on my own mother has had to suffer because it became a sad day instead a day of celebration for her.
I would tell My Grandmother how much I love her and how much of an impact she had on me and my older brother’s life in the short times she was with us and I would ask her to somehow get through to my father so he can let go of her, it’s been a while since her death and I can tell he still isn’t over it. He needs to move on and if there is one person who can talk to him, it’s her.
Phew sorry, didn’t mean to go off on a tangent like that. Where does you inspiration come from to write the posts you do?
Xilla: It comes from the fact that too many people suffer from bad sex. I’ve had my share of bad sex and I feel like this site is a way for people to improve their sex lives and their love lives. I have a lot to say and I’ve been through a lot so if one person can NOT have to go through some of the bs I’ve went through then I feel like I’ve helped make the world a better place. Don’t you wish some of your ex’s read blogxilla.com before you met them? lol
Jay-Z, Nas Or Drake?
1AM: boo! thats not even a fair comparison lol
I love them all in different ways. Jay-Z is my favorite rapper of all time
Nas ranks up there as well, he provides something deeper then Nas can
and Drake caters to a side of me that is thirsty for wit and thought provoking rhymes. He’s like spoken word put to music for me
What do you say the the ladies that say there are no good men left?
Xilla: Simply what about you attracts ain’t shit niggas? Once you figure that our change it. It’s that simple.
1AM: handclap Katt Williams said it best
Xilla: Basically. Do you wanna see my sex tape?
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