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5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls
Posted in Relationships on 30. Apr, 2009
Have you ever gave your number to someone, only for them to never use it? Or have you ever wondered why phone calls suddenly stop? Well here are the reasons people stop calling you.
Busy Bee – Sometimes when the phone calls stop or slow down it simply means that a person is busy. They’re at work, handling business or just couldn’t find the time to give you ring. You really shouldn’t take it personal.
You’ve Been Replaced – If you once talked on the phone for hours upon hours, and then suddenly the phone calls stop. You call and the hour long conversations turn into what your doing… ok I’ll call you back, or you call get sent to voice mail, only to get a text message saying “what’s up”. You’re ass got replaced. You are no longer worthy of their time and you probably should move on. Now don’t push the panic button if this happens once or twice, but when it becomes the routine practice… Save your self the drama and delete their number.
You’re Not Being Felt – The person might not be that into you. I mean really, things happen and people don’t always click. They might not have even taken the time to realize how fly you were as a person. They have no clue that you’re the person who will rock their world in the bedroom, and introduce them to new things. It’s really their lost for being lame.
They’re F*cking – A lot of time when your calls are being answered or returned, it’s because the person you’re calling is having sex with someone else. This other person is giving it to them all the time whenever and however they want. Deal with it. Do something to get their attention back or move the fuck on. You might have to show up ass naked or pop up at the club in some bunny slippers and a bottle of E&J but do something. (Please note we do not support stalker behavior.) Just stop leaving voicemails and sending text messages that make people think you’re crazy.
Number 5 is all on you. What are some other reasons you stop taking people’s calls?
Because I am no longer interested! Your craziness has been exposed in the first couple of conversations and after some reflection/evaluation…you've just got too many issues/baggage that I am COMPLETELY unwilling to deal with!
You're sex is wack…
Damn I think I've been replaced before. lol!
Option C came along and you have been demoted. (Assumes you realize you were never Option A to begin with.)
lol girl it happens to the best of us!
yea tht's pretty muvh how it goes! lol
They either getting on my nerves or they are just useless to me. They convos are whack, they only want one thing (that I am not supplying), or I erased their number because I have no use for it.
I had a problem of giving dudes my number I knew I wasnt interested in (because they play that call my phone trick and they have your number) and I just never answer the phone because I didnt want them to have my # in the first place. So hopefully I just want them to just take the hint and realize I am not interested…
Always bringing something up you don't want to talk about at the moment or you getting to clinging to quick
Because they are annoying and don't know how to have a phone convo lol.
I hate when someone calls me & keep asking “wht's up”, “how are you”. When I answer those two questions, that doesn't mean to repeat the same dumb sh*t 40seconds later b/c I'm not gonna answer you and I'll probably say tht I have to go and hang up.
Another reason is that most ppl tend to have separate convos w/ someone else while they're on the phone with me. Or they want to sing or rap….the phone is not a demo session…I don't want to hear that ish…..and on that note I'm haning up.
Cell phones make it VERY easy to hang up on someone and say you lost service or your bars were low lmao!!!!!!!
OR!!!!!
They do some out the blue ish like this one guy did.
It was a few wks b4 we spoke & whn he called me again….the first thing he said was…”so when are we gonna make magic happen”…I looked at my phone like WTF is wrong w/ him. I let him know that I never planned on sleeping w/ him & I'm not the one and he's trippin and said bye.
Needless to say, I deleted his # & he hasn't called me back (thank goodness).
You did sumthin wrong
You fell off
Your no longer relevent( I think u posted that already)
They are tried of the same ol same ol(your boring)
You did sumthin wrong
You fell off
Your no longer relevent( I think u posted that already)
They are tried of the same ol same ol(your boring)
Yeah I think I have been too. Damn that's messed up. But I've moved on.
Usually, it's because I get bored too quickly. If we're sitting on the phone and I can here a cricket a mile away, then I won't call answer again. If I'm gonna be wasting my anytime minutes/rollover minutes/free nights & weekends on you, then you need to be a good conversationalist. I'm not into that bullshxt “Sooo… what are you doing now?” Umm, the same damn thing I was doing 10 minutes ago when you asked!
Sadly I am a slave to my blackberry and in my world calling has become an emergency basis type of call. Meaning, if you don't text/email/BBIM me, we probably won't have much contact. I do NOT have time, to sit on the phone. Wasting my battery with you. The only people I actually call are family members who are older than 50, because they refuse to text, lol. So if you call me its to clarify what we are talking about via my BB. And a call is needed to clarify. Other than that, all communication must be done via a PDA.
I think for women if a man doesn't answer your call, he is just not that into you. Even if for 2 seconds to tell you he is busy and he'll call you right back. A man into you WILL pick up that phone.
And fellas, if you call a lady 1 time and she doesn't pick up, or return your call in 2-5 min, move on. She's not feelin you. Shit is not that complicated.
Because you keep calling me and calling me and calling me and calling me. Listen up: call once. If you go to voice mail, leave a message and as soon as i am available i will call you back. Calling me and hanging up and calling again at 5 minute intervals is only gonna irk me. I should not go out for 4 hours on Saturday afternoon and come back to 27 missed calls–24 of them from you. And then to ask me where i've been? Please. I was a teenager when there was no cell phone, voice mail, inernet or text messaging so you KNOW i'm way more than three times seven. Get over yourself. This is why not only do i not call you anymore but i ignore your phone calls.
RE: “And fellas, if you call a lady 1 time and she doesn't pick up, or return your call in 2-5 min, move on. She's not feelin you. Shit is not that complicated.”
I don't think not calling a Dude back in 2-5 minutes means you are not interested?? LOL It means… you have a life and you're not sitting by the phone waiting, and playing games (i.e. looking at the phone and not answering then calling back 2 min later.. LOL). I think if someone hasn't called back within 24 hours that's just rude.
Take the hint, and keep it movin
I co-sign on this… Now a days your forced to give the number up or just be harrassed until you do..you cant even use the excuse that u dont have a cell phone , because who doesn't?…ahhh remember the days of writing down your number and having the option of giving them a fake cause they didnt have one?…damn,,,
If you call me wayyyy too much…I HATE HATE HATEE it when people blow up my fone…If you call 10 times in a row, dont think if you cal for a 11th time i'm going to answer..just leave me alone.I'll call you when i feel if i feel
I don't take calls if we talk once and I feel like it was a therapy session, myself being the therapist. Men can get too deep too quick! I had a dude tell me all about his childhood, his dead mom, his siblings, his gma treats him bad and his pops in africa and how he takes care of all of them. Ummm you seem angry and clearly have issues…number deleted.
Damn I have too…recently. But oh well, I had a few others to occupy my time as well lol.
I don't take phone calls because I just HATE talking on the phone – period!
I'm a busy b*tch and everything takes twice as long when you're tryin to multitask while trapped holding a phone to your ear, bluetooth is not my friend and speaker don't work well either when you're on the move – the only two people who hold my attention on the phone are are my “daddy” (not the father…LOL) and my mother – so unless it's for the purpose of strategizing “quickly” or it's an emergency I'm like Lady Jei and you're better off with a text, email or BBIM
what about the men who r so thirsty to get your number and damn near walk 3 blocks to talk to u and then never call what the hell is that ? why approach me and damn near stalk me and then dont call after that .
Because she farted on me after having sex.
It's probably the chase lol…
Boyfriend/Girfriend's back in town or around in general!
YOU WERE ONLY TEMPORARY HONEY!
I can't stand talking on the phone!
Because the conversation was boring before we exchanged numbers.
Because he said something weird.
Because the first conversation we had on the phone was boring.
Because he was an emotional slut (revealing way too much about himself)
Because he has baggage.
Because the baby mama/wife answered his phone and cussed me out (LOL)
Because the date was wack.
they dont call back because they're a chi-town nigga and would rather get played by a light skinned chick! they get 'noyed when they realie you aren't the desperate darkie that won't pay for their life and beg! lol real talk!
p.s. i just had a guy go thru GREAT lengths to get my number then turns out he's all tooken and couldn't figure out how to balance both….ARRG! chi-town whas really DOWN!!?
I'd rather text….
Maybe your sex was wack and they only way she could get rid of you was to fart on you. Thats a good damn Idea. LOL
People don't exist. If I can't get in touch with someone, it means they not real. If they were real, they would be available. With email and all this shit and you still can't get in touch with someone it has nothing to do if they are busy or what not. Who cares? If they were real, they would be available. Once they go flatline, you know they are an illusion.
what about if he is having axcuses of saying i am sorry and cakk you names and you find out that he is begging knees and balls to have his run away lover back.