Comments on: Caviar Pictures x How To Talk To Redbones

By: itssmee123

itssmee123 — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 10:15:08 +0000

okay this might sound dumbb but redbone is a darker girl? and a yellow bone is a lighter one? pleasee reply!

By: T.T.

T.T. — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 10:17:39 +0000

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and the way they feel. It is a person choice of who they date and marry. But this is my opinion: Guys have really messed girls up. What I mean is guys expectations of women are so high in regards to appearance that it have caused a lot of women to feel inferior. A lot of men classify beauty as being fair skinned, a big butt, long hair, being skinny, and big legs. Dont get me wrong because I have a nice body myself, but these are the images that the media has instilled in the minds of the people in America. Thats why you got a lot of women hating on each other, and that is because of insecurity, and insecurity was taught to them by their peers because of the media. Men need to get a grip, because there is no perfect woman. Excuse my grammar. I typed this pretty late at night. lol.

By: Brittaney

Brittaney — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 04:50:07 +0000

Personally I do not see why light skin women should be treated, approached, or talked to any differently than a woman of my complexion, GODIVA, yes like the chocolate. At the end of the day she is still a black woman and she be treated as any other woman, black, white, hispanic, asian, or whatever. Her skin complexion should not matter. The media portrays light skin black women and deeply tanned white woman as superior and that is just unfortunate. If you treat any woman, light skin, dark skin, or medium any differently chances are you miss out on GREAT women.

By: R.O.

R.O. — Mon, 11 May 2009 05:29:23 +0000

You can treat all women exactly the same. One thing that work on one woman work on them all. These women are not different. Paying is not wassup. Chicks have jobs, chicks have to pay up. The only way you can make a chick pay up is by going extreme. If you can't get to an extreme than you can't make a bad chick pay. You either have to be totally rich so she will do anything to be with you including paying up all her money or you gotta be totally poor where you have nothing she can take from you even if she wanted to.

Sexing gets corny after you have sexed the best chicks. After that, the new hottness is making these broads come outta pocket. I love when these bad chicks who normally would have some stupid fool paying come out of pocket and get angry because there is nothing they can do. There is no win. They can't make the equation even. So they go right along banging they head against a brick wall like those wind up toys trying to “change” you but winners don't need to change.

By: alot2say

alot2say — Thu, 07 May 2009 09:27:46 +0000

I use to hang with quite a few females who had a lighter complexion.It was funny to us how men reacted when they see us in public.It was obvious they were “Trying”, not because they found out how nice my girls were but because of how they looked.It was so sad because many of these women know why men are attracted to them and they will either use it to their advantage or reject them up front.I dont like shallow superficial men.Light skinned women are not this superhuman force.They have the same anatomy as all other women and different personalities as well.But to the ones who try so hard for that trophy, you will get exactly what u r looking for in the end.

By: ms_micia

ms_micia — Sat, 02 May 2009 04:39:21 +0000

We do live in a world of Yung Burgs. But we also live in a world where Michelle Obama is first lady. You see what you want, if you see through the Light Skin Dark Skin lense forever you'll NEVER get anywhere but where you're at. Its a practice of self hatred and ignorance. And i keep commenting on it, because it keeps happening. smh. it's 2009 we should be beyond that.

By: Miss Beasley

Miss Beasley — Fri, 01 May 2009 00:42:30 +0000

Very well said.

Side note: This is really silly. Though I can understand how a persons' appearance can influence your attraction; I LOVE dark skinned men. They are so beautiful to me..for many reasons. But I would NEVER stereotype their personalities (especially on sight) or put them in some category to be treated differently than other men.

I would suggest to those who do, to be more open-minded and experience life a little more.

By: Lady Jei

Lady Jei — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 23:58:49 +0000

They bleed once a month just like the rest of us. LOL!! Puh-leese. Women are women, and we come in all shades, sizes, etc. If you like the chocolate honies, go for it, if you like a womah who weighs at least 150, go for it.

From what I see, based on the last 5 weddings I have been to, yea men like women with a fat ass, DDs, etc., but that is NOT who they are marrying. All that lightskinned shit goes out the window when it matters, the altar. If she isn't the man for him, light or not, her ass is gone.

And if another man tells me to 'stop acting light skinned', when I refuse his advance I am going to snap.

By: Blacksand

Blacksand — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 23:40:54 +0000

You make some valid points, however all men are not shallow Ms. Wangalicia. There are still some Chocolate gentlemen out here. The chocolate guys that made you feel like you are less than need to grow up. I am a black man who loves chocolate women and believes beauty comes in all shapes sizes and colors. That is one of the truest aspects of beauty our people posess. Strut your stuff with crazy swagger Ms. Wangalicia. I'm sure some chocolate brothers are watching. Peace & Blessings to you!!

By: Wangalicia

Wangalicia — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:08:34 +0000

Dark skin/light skin..blue skin..red skin..grey skin..LOL
Skin is skin..what matters is the inside.
I am a black woman..NOT a dark skin woman.
I refused to be labeled by these terms, that society and my own people seem to be trying to put on me.
I think men are shallow. PERIOD. Slave mentality is not helping either
And opposite attracts. I tend to attract mixed guys or "light skin" ones.
I love me some chocolate guys but GUESS what? chocolate guys are the ones that make me feel like I am less than a "light skin" ones..always salivating on mixed gals or the light ones.
I love myself too much to go with somebody that will make me feel unwanted ultimately.
So sometimes, it is not really a personal choice...u just have to go with whoever show u the most love! And nobody can't tell me I am not Beautiful.
So don't let anybody put u down because of what GOD gave you..ain't worth it!
Blogxilla..love ur blog..keep up the good work and post!