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	<title>Comments on: The Ladies Still Love Chris Brown: &#8220;You Know He Ain&#8217;t Sh*t&#8221;</title>
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		<title>By: cash4trends</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 13:44:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: goodpeoplegives</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 13:19:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: billrainier</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 13:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: nubian</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 08:37:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Too many of our young women are suffering from low self esteem and lack of self worth.   I often defend women who are promiscuous and think they are in control because I know the sharing of your most precious gift with many men is a cry for help, not an act of stupidity.   A woman who values herself and knows that what she has to offer a man is good, will not be so quick to jump into relationships and share herself with men she doesnt know.  But truthfully, becoming a self assured woman is a process.  It doesnt happen over night.   We must allow these women to grow at their own pace until they realize that what they are doing is hurting them rather than helping them.   Our women like bad boys bec they are working from the mind of a child who does not know what isgood for them rather than from the mind of a woman who does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Too many of our young women are suffering from low self esteem and lack of self worth.   I often defend women who are promiscuous and think they are in control because I know the sharing of your most precious gift with many men is a cry for help, not an act of stupidity.   A woman who values herself and knows that what she has to offer a man is good, will not be so quick to jump into relationships and share herself with men she doesnt know.  But truthfully, becoming a self assured woman is a process.  It doesnt happen over night.   We must allow these women to grow at their own pace until they realize that what they are doing is hurting them rather than helping them.   Our women like bad boys bec they are working from the mind of a child who does not know what isgood for them rather than from the mind of a woman who does.</p>
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		<title>By: Indireneed</title>
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		<dc:creator>Indireneed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 22:51:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Nieka &lt;br&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; Wow, that was...profound; big ups to Nieka for her bearing of her soul!!! You know, I didn&#039;t want to come off like blaming Rhianna, not at all. I just don&#039;t like the fact that Chris is getting the worst of it, like his music not being played and the likes, I can imagine Rhianna being hurt, but I think that stuff was in that text message that set her off, I mean, it was reported that that text was like 3 pages long. And what&#039;s more important its who the text came from; this is where everything gets deep; It was reported that the text came from Tina Davis, and she&#039;s been sleeping with him from age 16! Wow, this shit just became....serious! I mean, people grow plants, but Tina is growing dick (Paul Mooney joke, I couldn&#039;t help myself)! &lt;br&gt;How did Rhianna know that Tina and Chris had something in the past, &#039;eh? I mean, she did say it in her statement to the police. I think Rhianna felt like she was battling something that was way beyond her, real talk! They even had excerpts from it saying that the texter, Tina, said that she had power over Chris; man, I&#039;m a man and if I read that shit I would have lost my mind too. &lt;br&gt;Nieka, like it or not, Chris is a victim of child abuse, that is if you&#039;re using the &quot;mainstream&quot; definition of the word. For guys, we look at it from the perspective that it was/is good experience, I mean, if you can &quot;hold down&quot; a woman who was/is 2X your age, then you must be doing something right, don&#039;t you agree, Nieka? That&#039;s the only &quot;upside&quot; to all of this: the fact that she taught Chris how to fuck. But the down side is far darker; in the long run, Chris, unconsciously, will grow to hate Tina, and might even grow to hate his mother for knowing everything but yet still remaining slient. He&#039;d have been robbed of his childhood; Why can&#039;t Tina just leave Chris alone, &#039;eh? Why can&#039;t she realize that she and he, in no way, shape or form, have a future and Rhianna offers him so much more? &lt;br&gt;Who knows what else Tina did to sabotage their relationship; she seems like the sort of person that might do such a thing. &lt;br&gt;Now, looking at the last time he went to court and plead Not Guilty, she was in Barbados and did want him to plead out. But he&#039;s looking at 2 felonies, not misdemeanors, shit that&#039;ll get you time. This realtionship is done, don&#039;t believe the stuff you hear &#039;bout they&#039;re still together, the fact that he was hesitant to say &quot;not guilty&quot; and his lawyer had to force him to say tells me that she&#039;s talking to Chris, and trying to get him to take the plea, I guess telling him that they&#039;ll be together and all, but that&#039;s a bunch of BS!! Rhianna has gone &quot;white&quot;, not to say that she was every &quot;black,&quot; but she sees this as a career move, but didn&#039;t count on him trying to fight it in court - good for him!! If he takes it to trial, it&#039;ll come out that she did admit to hitting him 2x before and him not hitting her back, it&#039;ll also come out that they were also broke up BEFORE he went to Europe and he was forced by his and her people to take her to the Clive Davis dinner; look at the video of him and her, I mean, he didn&#039;t want to be there, at least, not with her, you know? &lt;br&gt;But the thing is that, after all is said and done, all of this drama, and how Rhianna fought and got beat will weigh heavy on Chris, in his heart, he now respects Rhianna, but its sad that she&#039;s now moved on with Brody Jenner, you know, the latest hollywood white boy sensation; he&#039;s just like his sister, no talent just a face and he&#039;s like 6 years older than Chris; oh, and they&#039;re stories &#039;bout him: Valtrex and girls AND BOYS!!! BTW, Bruce Jenner, his father, frequents gay clubs in LA, I mean, take from it what you will, just had to mention it!! &lt;br&gt;Well, I said enough, Neika, Orange and every one else, have a great life!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Nieka <br />&gt;&gt;&gt; Wow, that was&#8230;profound; big ups to Nieka for her bearing of her soul!!! You know, I didn&#39;t want to come off like blaming Rhianna, not at all. I just don&#39;t like the fact that Chris is getting the worst of it, like his music not being played and the likes, I can imagine Rhianna being hurt, but I think that stuff was in that text message that set her off, I mean, it was reported that that text was like 3 pages long. And what&#39;s more important its who the text came from; this is where everything gets deep; It was reported that the text came from Tina Davis, and she&#39;s been sleeping with him from age 16! Wow, this shit just became&#8230;.serious! I mean, people grow plants, but Tina is growing dick (Paul Mooney joke, I couldn&#39;t help myself)! <br />How did Rhianna know that Tina and Chris had something in the past, &#39;eh? I mean, she did say it in her statement to the police. I think Rhianna felt like she was battling something that was way beyond her, real talk! They even had excerpts from it saying that the texter, Tina, said that she had power over Chris; man, I&#39;m a man and if I read that shit I would have lost my mind too. <br />Nieka, like it or not, Chris is a victim of child abuse, that is if you&#39;re using the &#8220;mainstream&#8221; definition of the word. For guys, we look at it from the perspective that it was/is good experience, I mean, if you can &#8220;hold down&#8221; a woman who was/is 2X your age, then you must be doing something right, don&#39;t you agree, Nieka? That&#39;s the only &#8220;upside&#8221; to all of this: the fact that she taught Chris how to fuck. But the down side is far darker; in the long run, Chris, unconsciously, will grow to hate Tina, and might even grow to hate his mother for knowing everything but yet still remaining slient. He&#39;d have been robbed of his childhood; Why can&#39;t Tina just leave Chris alone, &#39;eh? Why can&#39;t she realize that she and he, in no way, shape or form, have a future and Rhianna offers him so much more? <br />Who knows what else Tina did to sabotage their relationship; she seems like the sort of person that might do such a thing. <br />Now, looking at the last time he went to court and plead Not Guilty, she was in Barbados and did want him to plead out. But he&#39;s looking at 2 felonies, not misdemeanors, shit that&#39;ll get you time. This realtionship is done, don&#39;t believe the stuff you hear &#39;bout they&#39;re still together, the fact that he was hesitant to say &#8220;not guilty&#8221; and his lawyer had to force him to say tells me that she&#39;s talking to Chris, and trying to get him to take the plea, I guess telling him that they&#39;ll be together and all, but that&#39;s a bunch of BS!! Rhianna has gone &#8220;white&#8221;, not to say that she was every &#8220;black,&#8221; but she sees this as a career move, but didn&#39;t count on him trying to fight it in court &#8211; good for him!! If he takes it to trial, it&#39;ll come out that she did admit to hitting him 2x before and him not hitting her back, it&#39;ll also come out that they were also broke up BEFORE he went to Europe and he was forced by his and her people to take her to the Clive Davis dinner; look at the video of him and her, I mean, he didn&#39;t want to be there, at least, not with her, you know? <br />But the thing is that, after all is said and done, all of this drama, and how Rhianna fought and got beat will weigh heavy on Chris, in his heart, he now respects Rhianna, but its sad that she&#39;s now moved on with Brody Jenner, you know, the latest hollywood white boy sensation; he&#39;s just like his sister, no talent just a face and he&#39;s like 6 years older than Chris; oh, and they&#39;re stories &#39;bout him: Valtrex and girls AND BOYS!!! BTW, Bruce Jenner, his father, frequents gay clubs in LA, I mean, take from it what you will, just had to mention it!! <br />Well, I said enough, Neika, Orange and every one else, have a great life!</p>
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		<title>By: nieka</title>
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		<dc:creator>nieka</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 19:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i agree wit some of these comments about chris..then i dont..but this is my two cents..this isnt about being close minded nor dumb(however you want to take it) when me and my sister heard about this i was like damn chris went off then the picture i was like ok the picture doesnt co sign everything this girl said..true she look beat the hell up but take away the lump and busted lip all there is a a crying girl.. i not condone domestic violence at all i seen this happen to my mother and this is not the case..my mother would walk around with busted eyes broken finger and even knock the hell out by my step dad..i wish i could send you a picture of a batter woman because if you ever seen one rihanna pic doesnt come close...if chris really wanted to he could have made that girl look alot worse than that believe me. i notice some people bring up home bring..this only plays a small part in a situation..when i was chris and rihanna age(i am 25 now) but when i was 19 me and my guy use to fight one minute than love each other the next..this is called puppy love...he hit me once yes he slap me i bet you guys are looking like omg you let him hit you!!!! NOPE i was choking the hell out of him with a phone cord.. and then he smack me!! that was the last and first time he ever hit me...i cant even count how many times i punch and slap him(too many to count).. we know chris was caught getting a text ok how many of you just gonna let a text  talking about hooking up with your guy.. and just be cool about it..if youy say you would then you are lying thus making you a fake ass person..we women think with our hurt..rihanna is hurt and scorned..she flip out and went off..chris tried to put her out(if a guy is abusive he will not try to kick you out of his car he&#039;ll just beat your ass in it, you will be trying to get out) she didnt want to leave because of the fear of her man going to be with this chick..so what do you do, you saying naw i&#039;m not going nowhere, if you going to meet up with her i&#039;m going with you and i starting some sh*t over there to..you and her as* is grass!!lol rihanna felt her man slipping away and she was trying to save the relationship but she felt like many women do she had to fight for it even if that means fighting him....we dont know chris to say he not sh*t and we dont know rihanna to say she was done wrong and she is innocent.. we dont know what went on that night but i dont think chris should be the only one in question in this situation..it doesnt matter if a guy is stonrger because a guy who doesnt beat women wont never use all his force on you(thus again look at the pic) but a woman who is trying to fight will..how do i because i been there and done..if you havent been in that situation or know someone who been in something like that then you dont know nor understand that situation.so there for shut the hell up and watch</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i agree wit some of these comments about chris..then i dont..but this is my two cents..this isnt about being close minded nor dumb(however you want to take it) when me and my sister heard about this i was like damn chris went off then the picture i was like ok the picture doesnt co sign everything this girl said..true she look beat the hell up but take away the lump and busted lip all there is a a crying girl.. i not condone domestic violence at all i seen this happen to my mother and this is not the case..my mother would walk around with busted eyes broken finger and even knock the hell out by my step dad..i wish i could send you a picture of a batter woman because if you ever seen one rihanna pic doesnt come close&#8230;if chris really wanted to he could have made that girl look alot worse than that believe me. i notice some people bring up home bring..this only plays a small part in a situation..when i was chris and rihanna age(i am 25 now) but when i was 19 me and my guy use to fight one minute than love each other the next..this is called puppy love&#8230;he hit me once yes he slap me i bet you guys are looking like omg you let him hit you!!!! NOPE i was choking the hell out of him with a phone cord.. and then he smack me!! that was the last and first time he ever hit me&#8230;i cant even count how many times i punch and slap him(too many to count).. we know chris was caught getting a text ok how many of you just gonna let a text  talking about hooking up with your guy.. and just be cool about it..if youy say you would then you are lying thus making you a fake ass person..we women think with our hurt..rihanna is hurt and scorned..she flip out and went off..chris tried to put her out(if a guy is abusive he will not try to kick you out of his car he&#39;ll just beat your ass in it, you will be trying to get out) she didnt want to leave because of the fear of her man going to be with this chick..so what do you do, you saying naw i&#39;m not going nowhere, if you going to meet up with her i&#39;m going with you and i starting some sh*t over there to..you and her as* is grass!!lol rihanna felt her man slipping away and she was trying to save the relationship but she felt like many women do she had to fight for it even if that means fighting him&#8230;.we dont know chris to say he not sh*t and we dont know rihanna to say she was done wrong and she is innocent.. we dont know what went on that night but i dont think chris should be the only one in question in this situation..it doesnt matter if a guy is stonrger because a guy who doesnt beat women wont never use all his force on you(thus again look at the pic) but a woman who is trying to fight will..how do i because i been there and done..if you havent been in that situation or know someone who been in something like that then you dont know nor understand that situation.so there for shut the hell up and watch</p>
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		<title>By: Tracie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tracie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 02:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please don&#039;t say Chris ain&#039;t sh*t!   He effed up yes, but ain&#039;t sh*t is harsh.  The women swoon because he is sexy as hell and other than that one incident that we still don&#039;t know everything about, he seems to be a nice guy too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please don&#39;t say Chris ain&#39;t sh*t!   He effed up yes, but ain&#39;t sh*t is harsh.  The women swoon because he is sexy as hell and other than that one incident that we still don&#39;t know everything about, he seems to be a nice guy too.</p>
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		<title>By: mii09</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 23:49:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It will be nice if the writer of this gives me a glimpse into his own life so i can tell him if he is or aint s....? And its amazing how people would rather hope that its not the first time and he will hit again rather than believe since he has been good its probably the first time and this is just out of character..why are people so desperate to have chris be the bad guy? chris isnt a bad guy and he never will.....so whoever you are get a life instead of trying to paint chris the bad guy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It will be nice if the writer of this gives me a glimpse into his own life so i can tell him if he is or aint s&#8230;.? And its amazing how people would rather hope that its not the first time and he will hit again rather than believe since he has been good its probably the first time and this is just out of character..why are people so desperate to have chris be the bad guy? chris isnt a bad guy and he never will&#8230;..so whoever you are get a life instead of trying to paint chris the bad guy.</p>
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		<title>By: OrangeStar616</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 19:32:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL of course people have the right to defend themselves LOL, what he ALLEGEDY did went  FAR beyond self defense was my point ......and how much danger was he really in , not like she had a gat.. not saying its right for anyone to put their hanbs on anyone else out of anger etc.......but whateva tho you are hard to press defend CB so defend em........ but me I can never defend a man who BEAT THE BRAKES off a woman even if she did slap him first.because a mans strength&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;a woman, and he can do far more damage.Thats situation should have been handled alot diff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL of course people have the right to defend themselves LOL, what he ALLEGEDY did went  FAR beyond self defense was my point &#8230;&#8230;and how much danger was he really in , not like she had a gat.. not saying its right for anyone to put their hanbs on anyone else out of anger etc&#8230;&#8230;.but whateva tho you are hard to press defend CB so defend em&#8230;&#8230;.. but me I can never defend a man who BEAT THE BRAKES off a woman even if she did slap him first.because a mans strength&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;a woman, and he can do far more damage.Thats situation should have been handled alot diff.</p>
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		<title>By: Breezy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Breezy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 08:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>to answer the question about falling for bad dudes:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;it&#039;s a matter of self-esteem and like Kiki said, daddy issues. Although i dont fully believe that w/o a male figure, a female is more likely to be bouncing from man to man..it&#039;s about who she lines herself up with. there are females out there that need constant approval or reassurance from a man or relationship and don&#039;t often care that the men treat them like garbage. it&#039;s human nature to want to feel wanted and i think that&#039;s where a lot of the problems come in..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>to answer the question about falling for bad dudes:</p>
<p>it&#39;s a matter of self-esteem and like Kiki said, daddy issues. Although i dont fully believe that w/o a male figure, a female is more likely to be bouncing from man to man..it&#39;s about who she lines herself up with. there are females out there that need constant approval or reassurance from a man or relationship and don&#39;t often care that the men treat them like garbage. it&#39;s human nature to want to feel wanted and i think that&#39;s where a lot of the problems come in..</p>
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