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no!no!no!no!...I've done it with one person before...and never will i do it again...yea yea it feels nice..but i find myself being a worry wart about and chanting in my head " i hope he pulls out, he betta pull out"...and then i worry so much i miss the whole process...and the time i did do it, which went on about a year, he got sooo into it that he didnt even bother pullin out, and that was my last and final time...fuck it, im not listenin to no negro tellin me he knows, yea you know but when it comes down to it who really wanna or have the strength to pull out when it hits u?

I feel you... that's the thing trust, not the fact that it works... it's the trust we know regardless of what anyone says you can feel a nut coming. and if a dude has dick control like i do he should be able to suppress it keep going if a guy doesn't pull out it's because he wanted to bust inside you. point blank period and you just been lied too if he told you differently. niggas are dumb i swear!

i agree with u Xilla, but birth control in the best thing since sliced bread lol

Hey cutie, thanks for agreeing with me. You know the first comment tends to set the tone for the rest of the comments on the site. But at the end of the day you can't go around having unprotected sex, but let's be real it happens... one may be out of condoms or it maybe round 4 of a 3 pack night. When that happens it's the pullout method which is used. So why not talk about it? Be real!

thanks for the compliment :*)
but pulling out has always been a mood killer when we ran outta condoms. i've been in a relationship with the same guy for a while & we've used condoms up until last year when i got on the pill. that's when i realized ima have to since we were spending WAYYY too much money on condoms & his ass is a freak!

I can't cosign this one, as protected sex is the best sex.......but I've been sexing my main girl for about a year now.....raw, and she's on birth control.......and I still pull out.

I agree. The pull out method did fail me, but never again. I learned my lesson.
Its just not worth it anymore, no matter the trust level. Why risk it? With all the diseases out there (people still do lie) & the risk of bringing a child into the world you are unable to care for why take a chance.
Rap it up people, rap it up!

of course... but if you show me a person who uses rubber's all the time I'll show you a bridge on the moon i want to sell you. lol I'm just saying. But you are right. its too much stuff out there, but if we don't talk about the time when it does happen we will never advance.

Well I've been in 2 longtime relationships (3 years & 1.5 years) and each and every single time, I have used protection with my partners. You can ask all my past partners, I don't play that unprotected sex game! I'm 28 years old, with NO children, never been preggo & never been a disease carrier!

Please people, use a condom. It's not a game out here. Look at the German dude who took that highly attractive, German Pop singer to court for passing him the virus. Don't play Land Mine with your life!

By the way Xilla, show Shayne that bridge on the moon thats for sale ;-)

Wow. U r a rare breed. Shoot I didnt know they still made chicks like you. Big up!!!!

can that bridge be hot pink with a lil bling on it? hi xilla. my name's honey and i love condoms! ;D

I definitely can agree with the comments below..
The Pull out method may feel the Par.. But its not worth the risk.Trust is a hard thing to find in relationships, so I say strap that Shit Up until your ready to produce. Hands Down...!
And its Crazy seeing the Pleasures described in these "Nut Targets", yet you say you wonder why women think you a Player...?Hmmmm

If you are having sex... shouldn't you want to cum on your lover? I mean really it's a part of sex it has nothing to do with being a player. that notion is backwards to say the least. When I have sex, with a condom I still may pull it off and bust on you. It's just someting that makes the sex better specially if i'm going to bust in a girl's mouth. My girl should always do that if that is what i like.

the method failed and so did the relationship.. was it worth it? No. Condoms are your friend.
in regards to using planned parenthood as a reference, the keyword is PARENT(hood).. of course they gona tell the pull out method "works"..they just want you to come use their services ..think about it...*side-eye* to them.

xilla ur definitely right about it feeling a lot better cuz its easy to say "only" 4 or 27 people get preggers when ur not one of them lol it would be just my luck to be part of the other 96 or 73 :]
and either way i would be the one getting nut happy so for now ortho tri cyclen lo is my very best friend!

No Sir, you can have your roulette game. That lil blue pill will be my friend til the end. The minute I realize the man I will be with will be around for a long time, I get my yearly supply of pills immediately.

Besides he NEVER pulls out. And quite frankly I don't want him to. The sounds he makes are incredible. I don't feel like getting up and getting the hot washcloth, no one has to worry about the wet spot, and we can lay there and bask in each other's performance. And more often times than not, he is sleep in about 4 minutes. Just long enough for me to get some cuddle time in afterwards.

My motto "I'd rather be buying pads than pampers".

U must be my sista from another mista. I agree with you. U wants to pull out. Thats what i.u.d.'s are for.

I've been a happy practitioner of the pull out method for 6 mos. now. I have an 8 month old son (failed to pull out) , but the pull out method is the shit. 6 months is something to be proud of.......we fuck a whole lot. I think that is the only reason I keep a girlfriend...........to advoid strapping up. Been fucking since fifteen and had my first child at 28. - Xilla, that is a testimonial, my good man. :-)

Although the pull out method could work if done properly, I would spend the entire time worrying about whether he pulled out on time...etc.

Now if you're in a serious long term relationship, birth control is best.
For flings, definitely wrap it up... ALWAYS. Nothing is better than peace of mind.

Ordinarily i wouldnt subscribe to the "rhythm method" but things got hot and heavy one evening with a friend i was curious about. No protection and we are steady going at it...luckily she felt me "fattening Up" and being slow it pull out and her bionic kegels saved the day.

I played that roullette bullshit w/ my ex and never again. I never got pregnant but I couldnt enjoy the sex the way I wanted from constantly worrying abt it. Between that and him begging to nut in me It was like a battle to protect a breach of my womb.
Wrap it up!
And how dare you BlogXilla saying things like "all Men know" how to control it. All men are not to be trusted with that responsibility, especially when the risk of gettin a pretty girl knocked up is somewhere in their twisted pleasure fantasy, even tho the reality of it would send them for the hills.

Now if you on the pill and you wanna be a 'splash target' I suppose thats a different story so long as everyones clean.

Nobody wants cum in the face the same reason no one wants a pie thrown in their face, its messy and disorienting. And I dont think theres anything sexy bout staggering around blindly while the nut in your eye burns your retinas.
the mouth please and thank you.

oh and as far as the targets...i like to get into porn star mode with my man and let him cum where he wants, rub it in, play with it, lick it, booty shots, facials, whatever! that doesn't bother me at all, if i don't do it, some other chick will!

I've had the plus and the minus of the pull out...it is a trust thing like xilla said. I had one partner who i felt more comfortable with so it was coo and with another partner i was lightweight regretting lettin him go raw so it fucked up the whole experience my vajeezy was even tense lolz if your in a monogamous thang then GET IT lolz but if its just someone you're only lightweight dating rap it uppppp "if you swipin it won't make a difference if you got some rubber on while you pipin" is the motto.

Ok. I should have been here days ago but here goes. I have been in a serious committed exclusive relationship for 4 yrs. We have lived together the entire time. My man has gotten me pregnant 7 times in 4 yrs. I only have one child from a previous relationship.( Yeah- U do the math) He has been trying to trap me with a baby and Im just not having it. So after the last time, I got an i.u.d. implanted. Im a first year Pharm D student in Florida. I am going to be a pharmacist in 3 years. I love my man but he is not to be trusted with the pull out method. Men over 30 should be able to control and if they don't its becuz they choose not to. Peace and blessings- Ms. GP

I've been with my partner for 7 years.
In the early days we fucked like Duracell Bunnies and used condoms every time. Since getting serious (6 months into the game), condoms kinda got expelled from the bedroom...kitchen...hallway...lounge...*oops* I digress!

Having had a contraceptive implant for the past few years, I don't have a problem with the pull out method - damn, that's all we go by - in fact, I'm prang (scared) of my B getting his swimmers where they really don't need to be right now (!), so any which place his lovely, warm 'Monkey Juice' lands is fine by me!
Personal favourites include: breasts (he has a 'thing' about licking it off - he won't. Why are guys funny about that? I think that's another blog topic for Ya Xilla!), straight in the mouth - I never miss a drop (!), and right between the ass cheeks - LOVE THAT SHIT (!).

But really, a man that has the ability to control himself??!! Hmmn...I'm on the fence with that. My B knows to tell me when he's gonna buss, and never once has he failed in that department: but to generalise that 'men just know' is a sweeping and loaded (excuse the pun) statement.
When the dick hits that soft, warm, wet, squidgy spot, as a man, You're gonna tell me that You have the perfect ability to just pull out at will??

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Nah!

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Oh, we still fuck like Duracell Bunnies too!

it never had a chance to fail me! that's what plan B is for ;-) me and my hubby however, we've used pull out method for 6 years with no mistakes...his timing is down to a science!