Do’s & Don’ts Of An Office Romance

Posted in Relationships on Apr 20, 2009

Model: Destiny Grigsby

Model: Destiny Grigsby

 

Don’t
Make out in the break room. It’s unprofessional and every office is filled with haters and people who want to be you. This gives them even more reason to envi your life and try to sleep with your boo.

Special treatment: if you are the boss you shouldn’t give your boo any special treatment at your job. It will lead to jealousy, hr complaints and a spoiled cocky lover who may abuse your kindness.

Use office computer. Don’t use the office computer to talk about sex, make plans or have personal conversation. A lot of offices have tracking devices on their computers. The last thing you want is to be pulled into your bosses office to be asked about oral sex emails. FYI company emails belong to the company.

Don’t Be Messy: This means don’t talk to more than one person at your job. I know one might work in accounting and the other in marketing but it will get messy. Someone will see you talking to one of them and tell the other. It’s so not worth it. You don’t want to end up with 2 girls pregnant at the same time, because upper management has a sense of humor. They will seat them next to each other… Trust me I know.

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  • bogart4017
    We started as an office romance and have been married 22 yrs. No secrets here. Like the home-girl said--do your damn work. Save the chit-chat for lunch and breaks. All the screwing and necking can wait til after 5. Keep nozey nigras outcha beezwax...they can't do shit but make a good situation bad. Finally keep all titles (manager, craft,etc) in the company building. They don't mean jack past the front door.
  • Lady Jei
    I got one, how about doing your damn job and never mind the nigga in the next cubicle.
  • MsLady..
    Don't believe the Hype!
    Date outside the office...!Don't get caught up, just hold your ground and stay focused regardless of the Temptation. Everyone needs some balance and if you are working with your lover and spending time out with your lover it has a tendency to drain the Fuk out of you...We all need to breathe Right?? Agree or Disagree???
  • HeadMistress
    Don't shyt where you eat
  • HeadMistress-I couldn't agree with you more. My boy decided to undertake an office romance, he and his girl exchanged words via text-manager asked what's wrong...she showed the text and now he's fighting fucking sexual harrassment. Gf didn't bother to put the conversation in context. It's an mess waiting to happen
  • babydoll
    I want to have an office fling pretty bad, but only if i knew he was a temp and would b leaving in a couple months. But it would be cool to have sexual chemistry with a co-worker than get to bizness somewhere.....And I would b the perfect fling, cuz i don't get caught up emotionally and i can hold a secret like no other......ahh, we all can dream can't we?
  • babydoll
    oops, i was more on the fling thing, not the relationship thing. Relationship at work-never. I don't wanna see a ninja all day everyday. Still want that fling though!!!
  • texasbelle86
    DONT-be immature and talk sh*t about ur ex-lover to other peeps @ the work place if things dont work out.
  • Good one... i hate that and that's one of the big problems of an office romance is after it's ovr its awkward
  • thoneygsweet
    i AGREE! just don't do an office romance. rarely does it ever end ok and like uall said, the after gossip is annoying and awkward
  • black_barbi510
    I agree dont do it! I had an office romance and of course it didn't work out. It was real awkward afterwards for us and our friends as well. They didn't know who they should talk to or what...it was just a real crazy situation.
  • This is a pretty complete list Lamar. I personally would NEVER (and I sincerely mean NEVER) get involved in a romantic relationship on the job. First of all I hate being in an office all day. I'm still very active, and I need space to spread my wings. That's why I prefer working as a teacher & pharmacy technician. Also, I hate offices because rumors seem to fly quicker in smaller spaces & they have a more severe impact. Romantic involvement with a fellow employee is a no-no in my book simply b/c that romance would affect my work (most likely negatively), and I could never count out the possibility of the romance going wrong. I now have to see this person again & again knowing well that I either despise her or the converse. I'll pass!
  • Lady Jei
    Who is Lamar? LOL!
  • exactly this nigga coming around here like calling people gov't names out!!!
  • streetz
    I would say make that a covert situation unless yall been goin out for years.. you dont know how corporate america can tear down a relationship. Its unreal
  • I've failed to have sex with a girl I worked with........until after I left that job. Now that I work for myself, I guess that probably won't happen. I do know that there is NO shortage of women at a hospital. Maybe I need to become a doctor.
  • nubian
    On point. I would not do the office fling thing, but I did do a guy a couple of months after he left the job after working closely with him for 8 years. Funny thing is, we still kicking it, 3 years later. :-)
  • Michelle
    I have been banging a co-worker for a couple of weeks and I think that tis is working out fine we sneak and fck when the office is empty. This works for me because he has a woman and I know that he does not want anything more than gooo sex and I am at a point in my life where that works for me. And he is 12yrs older than me and he gives me the business.
  • i can relate!
  • I've been down this road and it was HOT and great! Just follow the rules an don't look for anything longterm. I think I'm just turned on by screwing at work lol. My husband and I did it on a conference room table the first time we did it and it was amazing!
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