Do’s & Don’ts Of An Office Romance

Posted in Relationships on Apr 20, 2009

Model: Destiny Grigsby

Model: Destiny Grigsby

Some things you just don’t want to do, and other things can be done if you do them right. Spending 40 hours a day in one place is bound to lead to some sort of attraction, so in order to help out a reader I’ve made a short list of do’s and don’ts of the office romance. What else could we add to this list?

Do’s
Keep it on the low. It’s okay to let people know you’re involved but you don’t have to broadcast it in a mass email or memo on company paper.

Go to lunch together. Lunch time and breaks would be the best time to display affection. Make out in the car off company property and enjoy each others company.

Include others. Every relationship should come with a sex of relationship friends. Use work to build those friendships. This will give the couple a chance to interact with others. While both of you may have your own friends those friends could be bias towards an ex lover which may create problems.

Talk electronically: use text messaging to converse with one another while at work. If you are always at your lover’s desk it will give the impression that you are not working. The boss will not like this and it could lead to policy changes.

Stay late: when there is an excuse to stick around the office, do it together. The later it is, the more likely less people will be in the office. So since this is a sex blog the more likely you can have sex in the office. Oh yeah!!!

 

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  • bogart4017
    We started as an office romance and have been married 22 yrs. No secrets here. Like the home-girl said--do your damn work. Save the chit-chat for lunch and breaks. All the screwing and necking can wait til after 5. Keep nozey nigras outcha beezwax...they can't do shit but make a good situation bad. Finally keep all titles (manager, craft,etc) in the company building. They don't mean jack past the front door.
  • Lady Jei
    I got one, how about doing your damn job and never mind the nigga in the next cubicle.
  • MsLady..
    Don't believe the Hype!
    Date outside the office...!Don't get caught up, just hold your ground and stay focused regardless of the Temptation. Everyone needs some balance and if you are working with your lover and spending time out with your lover it has a tendency to drain the Fuk out of you...We all need to breathe Right?? Agree or Disagree???
  • HeadMistress
    Don't shyt where you eat
  • HeadMistress-I couldn't agree with you more. My boy decided to undertake an office romance, he and his girl exchanged words via text-manager asked what's wrong...she showed the text and now he's fighting fucking sexual harrassment. Gf didn't bother to put the conversation in context. It's an mess waiting to happen
  • babydoll
    I want to have an office fling pretty bad, but only if i knew he was a temp and would b leaving in a couple months. But it would be cool to have sexual chemistry with a co-worker than get to bizness somewhere.....And I would b the perfect fling, cuz i don't get caught up emotionally and i can hold a secret like no other......ahh, we all can dream can't we?
  • babydoll
    oops, i was more on the fling thing, not the relationship thing. Relationship at work-never. I don't wanna see a ninja all day everyday. Still want that fling though!!!
  • texasbelle86
    DONT-be immature and talk sh*t about ur ex-lover to other peeps @ the work place if things dont work out.
  • Good one... i hate that and that's one of the big problems of an office romance is after it's ovr its awkward
  • thoneygsweet
    i AGREE! just don't do an office romance. rarely does it ever end ok and like uall said, the after gossip is annoying and awkward
  • black_barbi510
    I agree dont do it! I had an office romance and of course it didn't work out. It was real awkward afterwards for us and our friends as well. They didn't know who they should talk to or what...it was just a real crazy situation.
  • This is a pretty complete list Lamar. I personally would NEVER (and I sincerely mean NEVER) get involved in a romantic relationship on the job. First of all I hate being in an office all day. I'm still very active, and I need space to spread my wings. That's why I prefer working as a teacher & pharmacy technician. Also, I hate offices because rumors seem to fly quicker in smaller spaces & they have a more severe impact. Romantic involvement with a fellow employee is a no-no in my book simply b/c that romance would affect my work (most likely negatively), and I could never count out the possibility of the romance going wrong. I now have to see this person again & again knowing well that I either despise her or the converse. I'll pass!
  • Lady Jei
    Who is Lamar? LOL!
  • exactly this nigga coming around here like calling people gov't names out!!!
  • streetz
    I would say make that a covert situation unless yall been goin out for years.. you dont know how corporate america can tear down a relationship. Its unreal
  • I've failed to have sex with a girl I worked with........until after I left that job. Now that I work for myself, I guess that probably won't happen. I do know that there is NO shortage of women at a hospital. Maybe I need to become a doctor.
  • nubian
    On point. I would not do the office fling thing, but I did do a guy a couple of months after he left the job after working closely with him for 8 years. Funny thing is, we still kicking it, 3 years later. :-)
  • Michelle
    I have been banging a co-worker for a couple of weeks and I think that tis is working out fine we sneak and fck when the office is empty. This works for me because he has a woman and I know that he does not want anything more than gooo sex and I am at a point in my life where that works for me. And he is 12yrs older than me and he gives me the business.
  • i can relate!
  • I've been down this road and it was HOT and great! Just follow the rules an don't look for anything longterm. I think I'm just turned on by screwing at work lol. My husband and I did it on a conference room table the first time we did it and it was amazing!
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