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FTV: Lock Her Down List
Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships on 17. Apr, 2009
Quote of the Day – “There are three things men can do with women: love them, suffer for them, or turn them into literature.”
A list of ten things to do to lock down your girl.
If she’s not feeling loved, she WILL find another nigga/brother to love her… oh yeah, he will be 100% better than you.
- Is this is your girl, wifey, or Jump off. I know its an unwritten Man Law that you can’t show a girl that you like them, but dayum dudes show your GIRL that you actually care. And showing that you actually care doesn’t mean buying them the most expensive thing in Macy’s although expensive gifts don’t hurt. But try making something for them or doing something a little unique like planning a picnic, writing a poem, or just lip syncing your song to them. Doesn’t matter if you can write or not it’s just the thought that matters. Now there is one exception to this rule. Make sure this is your girl this method may not work w/ Jump offs or Buddies.
Celebrate small things, like the 3 month anniversary, who screamed whose name first, or the first orgasm, It’s gets you MAD Brownie points.
- Remember she’s still a girl, no matter how much of an independent woman she claims to be, Girls are mushy, and they like to know that you’re paying attention. So a simple card or candle can go a long way in building a relationship into a stable foundation for the future and is the 2 of you.
Let your nuts hang and she’ll love you more.
- You got balls don’t you? Act like it. No females wants a man she can walk all over so have a backbone tell her no sometimes and then surprise her when she least expect it. Going out this weekend make the plans trust me if she isn’t bout it she’ll let you know. Take the lead, tell her what the 2 of you are going to be doing tonight. If you’re worried about if she will like it, then you haven’t been paying attention to anything she’s being saying. Change careers.
Tit-tays love much licky and sucky.
- You have to be sure that in the heat of the moment you don’t ignore the nipples. Love the breast and be sure to show them equal attention. Start at the top work your way counterclockwise w/ your tongue. To a female only a few things are worst then one hard nipple.
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while i wont make a big deal out of the small things in life, it means so much more when my guy does. It should never be forced of guilted into appreciating.
CHUUUUUUUUCH
small things – 1st kiss, 3 week anniversary, etc…..
I agree! you got the shit down pack! expecially about telling the truth, nothing ends shit faster then a dude lying about something that is so obvious and its not even necessary..
I love this list. I agree whole heartedly and That myspace thing is more important than guys think it is and you guys just dismiss it. but yes we like the little things, we crave intimacy just like we crave the peen.
You need to write the sequel to letters to a young brother
damn xilla that last one brought a tear to my eye……damn!!!!!!
lol you are so silly..i loved the sly little jokes in there. but this is a dope list.
(forwarding this to my male friends..)
Daaaaaaaaamit Xilla.
You need to make a trip to my neck of the woods.
hahaha I try you know info and then a bit of humor.
where is your neck of the woods?
was it that bad? lol glad i could help out. ready for the weekend shannon?
what's that?
I know right, most time we don't even have to lie but we do… stupid mofos i stopped lying. doesn't make sense and if it don't make sense it dont make dollars
you're right it's up to the guy… if he does this the panties will come off!! lol
I believe she's referring to Hill Harper's (actor, Obama's old classmate & friend) book. He has one for young women as well. Great guy.
I believe she's referring to Hill Harper's (actor, Obama's old classmate & friend) book. He has one for young women as well. Great guy.
lol MD/DC
lol MD/DC
on point once again big homie,
keep up the good work and i'll keep puttin the name out there
on point once again big homie,
keep up the good work and i'll keep puttin the name out there
Great List!!!
Love the “let your nuts hang” – I'm such an Alpha, but if he does it the right way, his taking the lead will have me all girly and submissive in no time
Great List!!!
Love the “let your nuts hang” – I'm such an Alpha, but if he does it the right way, his taking the lead will have me all girly and submissive in no time
can we get married? I wish men would take this simple stuff seriously!
can we get married? I wish men would take this simple stuff seriously!
I am in Heaven with the thought of a man doing all these things for me. This is such an accurate list. Xilla, do you have a brother? lol
I am in Heaven with the thought of a man doing all these things for me. This is such an accurate list. Xilla, do you have a brother? lol
i want to print this out and give it to every prospective dude to date…so true! why are you the only guy who gets it? just when i thought all hope was lost
i want to print this out and give it to every prospective dude to date…so true! why are you the only guy who gets it? just when i thought all hope was lost
mmmm mmmm mmmm
mmmm mmmm mmmm
Hi everyone! It's my first post and I will like to say keep up the great job Xilla.
I'm thankful for this post because I was feeling unappreciated yesterday:(.
Hi everyone! It's my first post and I will like to say keep up the great job Xilla.
I'm thankful for this post because I was feeling unappreciated yesterday:(.
Amen to that!
Amen to that!
I like this list…
I like this list…
what's that ?. Some promotion stuff or what ?
what's that ?. Some promotion stuff or what ?
How do you figure all this stuff out????
You have to be like the PERFECT MAN! lol.
Anywho, you're right because i am definitely locked down…and its because he does all of the above!
Especially the “simple things” clause.
“Remember she’s still a girl, no matter how much of an independent woman she claims to be, Girls are mushy, and they like to know that you’re paying attention.”
So TRUE!….No matter how terrible the day was, just knowing that you are there listening and paying attention does some things. Good job Xilla. Great list. Accurate.
yep i am. Hill Harper got the mental, you've got the sexual. makes the man complete.
What a great list. I'll be forwarding the link to many male friends.
Good job, Xilla!
that chick on page 2 needs to lose that wig and chick on the last page coulda worn some new shoes